Having sex with your ex is a great way to rekindle her feelings for you, but it only really works if you’ve been able to recapture her respect for you first.
For example: If a woman breaks up with a guy because he was insecure and too clingy, she might have sex with him one last time to finalize the relationship, but if he hasn’t really fixed his insecurities, she’s not going to be rushing to get back with him.
This is why the most important part of getting an ex back is to ensure that you’ve fixed and improved the things about you that caused the break up in the first place. If you do that, your ex will also be more willing to have sex with you one last time (or a few times) as well.
Will Having Sex With Your Ex Get the Relationship Back Together?
It depends on what type of relationship you had and how strong her reasons are for breaking up with you.
1. Was it just a casual fling?
Why did you break up in the first place? Did you and her have a great time in the bedroom but didn’t click on a relationship level, so you decided to part ways?
If that’s the case, you can use sex to keep things alive, but you must ensure that you are also establishing the foundations for a healthy, connected relationship from then on.
2. Did you break up with her?
If you broke it off with her, what are your reasons for now wanting her back? Have you realized that she is the right woman for you?
A lot of guys find themselves in this situation where they break up with a woman, but then realize that other women aren’t much better than her after all. Plus, what he had with her felt good, so why throw it away?
In cases like this, you need to meet up with your ex, apologize for not being ready to be on the same level as her in the relationship and tell her that you want to give things another try. If she refuses, just tell her that you’re happy to hang out a couple more times as friends to give her the chance to see how she feels about it.
Of course, she’s not going to really need to hang out a few more times before she makes the decision. A woman will usually do that at the end of the first meet up, or she will open herself up sexually and emotionally the second or third time you meet up.
3. Did she break up with you?
If she broke up with you, she’s probably going to have a whole list of reasons why she won’t want to get back together with you or have sex with you again.
So, you need to begin by getting her respect back (i.e. apologizing and letting her see that you’ve changed and improved) and she will then be willing to allow herself to feel attracted to you again.
Watch this video to understand how a woman’s attraction for a man works and how you can use it to make your ex want to have sex with you again…
As you will discover from the video above, most women will only be willing to take your efforts to get back with them seriously, if they can see that you’ve already changed and improved.
She will know that by how much respect and attraction she naturally begins to feel for you again when you talk to her on the phone and meet up with her in person.