A woman will fall out of love if you are unable to deepen her feelings of respect and attraction for you.
In the past, a woman had to marry one man and stay with him for life. Not anymore. In today’s world, women can sleep with whoever they want, get in and out of relationships and only settle down when they feel it is right for them.
This is why it’s so important for modern men to have the skill of being able to deepen a woman’s love, respect and attraction over time.
Have you been able to do that with your woman, or have you been slowing ruining her respect and attraction for you? Here are some common mistakes guys make that cause a woman to begin falling out of love…
1. Suffocating Her
It’s only natural that if you really love this woman, you’re going to want to spend a lot of time with her.
However, make sure that you’re not holding her back from doing things without you because you’re worried she might cheat on you, leave you or fall in love with a new guy. When in a relationship, a woman needs to feel like she has the space to do whatever she wants because you are confident and have given her your full trust.
If you suffocate her with neediness, clinginess or insecurity, then she will gradually begin to lose respect and attraction for you and when that happens, she will begin to fall out of love with you.
At the start of a relationship, a woman will usually enjoy the fact that you want to spend so much time with her. However, if she isn’t allowed to hang out with other people because you are worried about losing her, she will feel like she is suffocating.
2. Annoying Her
When a woman begins to lose respect and attraction for her man, she will then begin to withdraw some love, affection and attention. She will become more distant, cold and uninterested in hugging, kissing and having sex.
This is very confusing for some guys and they don’t know how to handle it. Some guys make the mistake of becoming annoying (e.g. biting her, arguing with her, being silly all the time, etc) in an attempt to wake her up out of the distant emotional state that she is in.
Yet, that’s not the right way to do it.
Instead of becoming annoying, what a guy needs to do is become more of a man.
He needs to be able to make her feel more respect and attraction for him because he is being more of a man, not less of a man.
When he does that, the feelings will again be mutual.
He will feel attracted to her and she will feel attracted to him. He will feel respect and love for her and she will feel respect and love for him too.
Another mistake that leads to falling out of love is…
3. Criticizing Her
Some men make their woman feel as if she can’t do anything right.
If she cooks dinner, he might say that it tastes okay, but he will focus more time and energy on telling her how she could have made it better. If she cleans, he might feel happy about it, but he will focus more on telling her that it’s not good enough.
If she is helping him with a project, whatever she does just won’t be good enough. In short, he’s a nitpicker and his constant criticism wears her down to the point that she soon begin to fall out of love with him.
The love between a man and a woman needs to be taken care of. It’s not something that stays there unconditionally just because things felt good at the start. There’s nothing wrong with giving a woman constructive feedback, but you should always try to focus more of your energy on making her feel good about herself, than on criticizing her.
4. Not Trusting Her
You can never fully trust a woman, but you have to.
If you don’t give a woman your full trust, the love between you will never reach its full potential. She will never feel like she can relax and respect you as a man. She will always feel like you’re just too insecure and can’t relax and just be in love with her.
Of course, if your girlfriend (fiance or wife) is a liar, then there’s no need for you to give her your full trust. Women who enjoy lying should be dumped.
I recently got married to the girl of my dreams, but if I hadn’t broken up with my previous girlfriend, I would have never met my wife. My previous girlfriend was sexy, young and exciting to be around, but she had one major flaw: She lied…a lot…and she actually enjoyed it.
Only after being with her for a year did I see enough repeated evidence that she was a habitual liar. Then, when I discovered a big lie that she told me (it was a shocker), I decided that I just had to break up with her.
It wasn’t easy to break up with her because she was a sexy, young, pretty woman and we had a good time with each other, but I had to do it. A couple of years later (after sleeping with about 50 more women), I met my wife. She’s even sexier and prettier than my ex and best of all, she’s a woman of good character (i.e. honest, loyal, caring, compassionate).
If you are currently in a relationship with a woman who deserves your trust, then give it to her. Give her your 100% trust. However, if you’re in a relationship with a woman that you know you can never trust, you really should break up with her and move on.
5. Patronizing Her
Women want to be able to share everything with their man. She wants to know what is happening in his life, both good and bad.
So when a woman sees that her man is troubled about something and he won’t share his concerns by saying things like, “It’s business. You wouldn’t understand,” or “Don’t worry your pretty little head about it. I’m the man and I’ll take care of it,” or words to that effect, he is causing an emotional disconnection between them.
While a woman does want to feel protected and secure by knowing that her man can take care of things and deal with challenging situations in life without her, she doesn’t want to be patronized and feel as if she is merely a trophy on his arm, rather than his true love and closest companion in life.
6. Boring Her
As a man, you are responsible for taking care of the level of romance, fun, happiness and adventure that exists in your relationship.
Unless you’ve got yourself a woman who loves to plan everything for you both and is always a bubbly, happy person no matter what you say or do, then then responsibility is yours.
Most women want to relax into the masculine direction of a man. They want to be free to think like a girl (e.g. constantly changing their emotional state, talking about random or unimportant things in a dramatic way, being silly, etc), rather than having to take on a more masculine energy.
The more you can allow her to get in touch with her girly side, the less likely she will be to feel bored of being with you.
If all a man is interested in doing is watching TV or sports, playing video games or working, she will eventually feel bored of being in his presence.
Regardless of how busy your schedule is or how stressed you are from work or study, you need to actively add some fun, romance, happiness and adventure into your relationship. You also need to make sure that you’re allowing her to feel girly, think in a girly way and act in a girly way around you as often as possible.