If you want to know how to win a girl back, you first need to know why she really broke up with you in the first place.
Once you know the real reasons why she broke up with you, your next move is to begin fixing or improving those things about yourself. When you’ve done that, you then need to call her up, get her to meet up with you and allow her to experience a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you.
When you do that, she naturally open herself up to being with you again. It may take some convincing, but most guys are able to get a woman to give them another chance if they make her feel enough respect and attraction at the meet up.
Potential Reasons Why She May Have Broken Up With You
A woman can lose interest in a guy and break up with him for many reasons, but here are some common ones that might relate to:
Women are attracted to a man’s confidence because this is a challenging world and she needs to be able to rely on a guy to be emotionally strong, no matter what life throws at him.
When a girl finds herself in a relationship with a guy who is insecure (e.g. clingy, needy, lacking confidence in social situations, lack of belief in himself at work, etc), she will begin to feel turned off by him on a fundamental level.
Even if she once loved him and said that she was going to marry him, she can instantly begin to lose attraction, respect and interest in him if he becomes insecure.
Insecurity is something that women want to steer clear of. They don’t want to have to carry an emotionally weak man throughout life and they also don’t want to open up sexually to be penetrated by an insecure guy…it’s just not a turn on for women at all.
2. Trust issues
To keep a relationship alive, you must give a woman your full trust. She has to feel that you are confident in yourself without her and that she is responsible for maintaining your trust in her.
She wants to see that you’re not worried about whether or not you can trust her. Instead, you give her your trust and let her take care of it. You don’t worry about it. You focus on more important things in life like your career, friends, family, health and finances and just trust that she loves you, wants you and will stick by you.
If you can’t give a woman that, she will eventually lose interest in you. When a guy sees that a woman is losing interest in him, he will often make the mistake of beginning to lose trust in her desire for him.
He may begin to question where she is going, who she is talking to or why she likes certain things all of a sudden. He will wonder if she is starting to think that she should find a new guy. His lack of trust in her will be seen as an insecurity, which will turn her off at a deep level.
3. A lack of fun and excitement
When a relationship first begins, most guys find it easy to be fun, go on interesting dates, make women laugh and generally have a good time together.
Yet, after he gets laid and the initial buzz wears off after a year or so, a guy will often begin to take his woman’s love for granted. He might even begin to feel bored with how they just hang out all the time and complain that it’s becoming boring.
What a guy like that doesn’t understand is that as a man, it is your responsibility to keep the love, happiness, excitement, passion and adventure alive in the relationship. That may sound unfair, but it’s just how things work.
In the past, a woman had to stay with a guy for life, even if she was unhappy because it was shameful to divorce.
In today’s relationship environment, society encourages women to find perfect love and happiness with a man. For a modern man to be successful at keeping a relationship together in today’s world, he needs to know how to:
1. Attract women when he meets them, so he can have options with women and then choose the right woman for him rather than accepting a woman who isn’t truly compatible with him.
2. Deepen a woman’s love, respect and attraction for him over time in a relationship.
If you don’t have those skills, you find it incredibly difficult to attract a high quality, compatible woman and you will almost certainly end up being dumped or divorced later on in your relationship or marriage.
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