If your girlfriend dumped you and you really do love her, it’s only natural that you’re going to find yourself thinking, “I miss my ex-girlfriend” and wanting to get her back.
You might have tried to meet other girls and maybe even slept with a few new ones since the break up, but none of them make you feel the same way she does. You and her had a connection that you simply haven’t been able to find with any other woman.
So, how can you get her back?
You have to make her feel respect and attraction for you again. You’ve got let her see that you’re not lonely, unhappy or insecure without her. You’ve got to show her that she has lost a great man.
Watch this video to understand how a woman’s attraction for a man really works and how you can use it to make your ex-girlfriend feel differently about you the next time you interact with her…
Have You Been Showing Her What She’s Lost?
You’ve already realised what you’ve lost in her, but has she realized the mistake that she has made by turning her back on you?
You are great, right? Yet, does she feel that way?
Chances are, her perception of you and the relationship isn’t quite as “rosy” as the memories you have in your mind. Unless you are actively making her feel a renewed send of respect and attraction for you, she will mostly remember the bad times and the things that caused her to break up with you.
That isn’t good for your chances of getting her back.
To increase the chances of getting your ex-girlfriend back, you have to focus on making her feel the type of emotions that will draw her to you, such as respect, attraction and even jealousy.
Watch this video for examples of how to make an ex-girlfriend jealous…
When your ex-girlfriend begins to feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you, she will begin to miss the good times that you shared. She will think about you in a more positive way and wonder why she just doesn’t contact you to say hi.
Regardless of whether you contact her first and you wait for her to contact you, the most important thing that you need to do when you next talk to her is make her feel respect and attraction for you during the phone call.
Then, when the moment is right, get her to agree to meet up with you in person. At the meet up, you need to say and do the types of things that will make her feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you.
If you want specific instructions and examples of how to do all that, I recommend that you watch my program, Get Your Ex Back: Super System
Let Her See That You’re Moving On
One of the fastest ways to get her respect and attention is to show her that you’re moving on. That doesn’t mean you have to be with new women, but you need to show her that you’ve moved on from where you were when your relationship ended.
It means you need to show her that you’re an even better man now; a man that lots of other women are naturally becoming interested in.
Some guys, especially those who can’t think of a life without their ex-girlfriend may think, “But, I miss my ex-girlfriend, so why would I want her to think that I’ve moved on and forgotten about her?”
That’s what is going to make her feel the type of painful emotions that will cause her to contact you or at least answer her phone if you call. She’s going to want to get rid of the painful feeling by playing hard to get with you on the phone.
If you remain calm, confident and happy on the phone regardless of what she says or does, she won’t be able to get rid of the painful feeling. She will be thinking, “Why am I feeling sad now and he is so happy?”
She will then become more open to meeting up with you in person, possibly just to show interest in you and then pull it back and make you chase her. Yet, when she sees that you still don’t chase and are happy and confident without her, the painful emotions will still be with her.
After a while, she will begin to reconsider her decision to break up with you. She will think, “If I miss him like this and don’t feel good without him, why don’t I just give the relationship another chance?”
The Fear of Losing You to Another Woman
When your ex-girlfriend sees that you are now thinking, behaving and taking action in a way that is attractive to women, she will begin to worry that you will find a better woman than her and completely lose interest in her.
This works if she is still single or is only dating and hasn’t been able to find a suitable replacement for you. However, if your ex-girlfriend is in a new relationship, what you need to do is make her new boyfriend look like a less appealing option compared to you.
If you want to make her feel that way, you need to truly become “the one who got away.” If you want to learn how to do that right now, watch my program Get Your Ex Back: Super System and I’ll show you how to get your ex-girlfriend back for real.