If you have a crush on a female co-worker or are in love with a female friend of yours, how can you turn her into your girlfriend?


You’ve got to say and do the sorts of things that are going to trigger her feelings of sexual attraction. Then, when she feels enough attraction for you (this can take minutes, hours or days depending on the existing dynamic between you and her), you need to take things to the next level.

If you work with her, that means arranging for a time to meet up outside of the workplace (e.g. go for drinks after work). If you are friends with a woman, you need to arrange for her to come over to your place for dinner and drinks, or do that at her place.

Either way, you have to be the courageous one out of the two of you and take a risk to take things to the next level.

How Can You Know if She Really Likes You?

If a woman feels attracted to you, then she will like you.

It’s as simple as that.

All women show their signals of interest in slightly different ways, so don’t expect her to display signs such as: Licking her lips, touching her hair, touching your thigh, etc. Her signals of interest will depend on how much you’ve attracted her so far and what type of woman she is.

For example: If she’s a shy girl who isn’t sure whether or not you find her sexy, she may be worried about showing obvious signs of interest. She will act like she just wants to be friends, but she will always try to spend time with you.

If she is a confident, beautiful woman who knows that you like her, she might test your confidence by playing hard to get. As you may know, women are extremely attracted to a guy’s confidence, so if you suddenly become insecure and begin doubting yourself around her when she plays hard to get, she will rapidly lose interest in you.

The best approach to use with all women is to make them feel attracted to you and then just take a risk to move things forward. If you’ve made her feel enough attraction for you, a woman will rarely, if ever, reject your attempts to arrange a date, move in for a kiss or take her home for sex.

Does Going to Lunch Together Means She Likes You in a Sexual Way?

It depends.

If your coworker (or female friend) only sees you as a nice, friendly guy, then going to lunch with you is just lunch. It’s not a date, it’s not a signal of sexual interest and it’s nothing that you should spend a lot of time thinking about.

If you do go to lunch with her, you need to make sure that you say and do the sorts of things that are going to make her feel attracted to you. For example: If you’re eating lunch and she gets a bit of food stuck on the side of her mouth, you can use that as an opportunity to make her feel attracted to you.


Pause, smile and point to the side of her mouth and casually say, “You have some food stuck on the side of your mouth.” She will then quickly try to clean it off. When she does that, point to her chin and say, “There’s some on your chin too.”

When she wipes her chin, say, “…and there’s some on the side of your cheek” and point to her cheek.

By that point, she is either going to be smiling or laughing. When you see that, have a laugh too and tell her that you were only joking.

How does this make her feel attracted? She feels attracted to your confidence, ability to make her laugh and ability to make her feel girly in your presence. Those are 3 ways that you make a woman feel attracted.

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