It doesn’t matter if you’re shy, lonely, ugly or divorced – there are simple steps you can use to get laid now. These techniques work on a woman regardless of her looks, physical beauty, age or race.

Essentially, you need to make a woman feel turned on by your confidence when she meets you. During an interaction with a man, a woman will test him (i.e. by behaving challenging or difficult, not contributing much to the conversation, etc) to see how the guy will react. If you are one of the rare men who don’t get worried and nervous and instead remain confident, charismatic and light-hearted, she will open up to you and the situation. All you need to do from there is begin escalating to touching, kissing and sex, which is what we cover in detail in our popular program called Dating Power.

Get Laid Now: Do it!

One of the most important things to do if you want to get laid now is to get in front of real women. Stop jerking off to porn and start getting women to jerk you off in real life. Here are some tips to help you get laid now:

  1. Get out the house: You can’t get laid now by sitting in your bedroom watching porn. Go out to club, party or social gathering where woman are present.
  2. Find a target: Start looking around the room to find a woman you are attracted to and want to have sex with. Say to yourself, “I want to get laid now, so I am going to talk to 10 women tonight…at least 1 of them is coming home with me!”
  3. Make a move in less than 10 seconds: You’re looking to get laid now, so you do not have time to waste while you try to build up your confidence. Stop starring at her and make a move. The quicker you make a move, the less time you’ll have to make yourself nervous.
  4. Approach any good-looking woman: This is just so you don’t look like the creepy guy hiding out in the corner. Once you talk to a good-looking woman, other women will notice and want to meet you. They will assume you already know the other women you’ve been speaking with if you engage them in casual conversations and don’t try to pick up.
  5. Notice the women that are interested in you: Remember to make eye contact and use sexually attractive body language. Casually flirt and allow yourself to have fun and socialize with the people around you.
  6. Take advantage of the changing situation: As the night progresses you may realize that certain women seem to be showing more interest in you, indicated by touching on you and constantly trying to catch your eye. Make a move.
  7. Approach the woman you like the most and get laid now: By the time the night starts to unwind you should have already talked to and flirted with the women you like. Find the woman you like the most and make your move.
  8. Be direct: Invite the woman you want back to your place to ‘hang out’ and have a drink or two. She’ll know what you mean, don’t worry.

So there are 8 beginner tips to help you get laid now, but is this all you want to know? Probably not. Once you’ve gotten laid, you will probably need to know about developing a relationship with the high quality women you are now picking up. Maybe you want to know the answers to questions like:

  • When should I contact the woman I’ve recently sex with? 1 day, 3 days, a week later?
  • How can I make sure that she’ll want to see me again and will be waiting for my call?
  • How can I turn the hookup into a steady relationship?
  • What if I can’t get her to have sex on the first night?

Why Learn From Me?

My name is Dan Bacon and after suffering a lonely, rejected-filled dating life for years, I decided to work out the secrets to getting laid and making women try to pick me up. I succeeded at that and have slept with more than 250 women (some photos with some of my women). I’ve also helped 1,000s of guys from all over the world to do the same thing and I’d love to help you too. Interested? Watch the video below.

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The Secret to Success With Women

This FREE, 21-minute video explains what every single guy needs to know about how to be successful with women.


Welcome to The Modern Man!

My name is Dan Bacon and I used to be hopeless with women. I lacked confidence in myself and couldn't get women to like me. Despite being a good, honest guy, women just weren't interested.

When I created the controversial attraction techniques that I now teach here at The Modern Man, beautiful women began flooding into my life and I've enjoyed my choice of women ever since.

I've already helped 1,000s of guys to get instant results with women (100s of success stories here) and I would love to help you too.

If you are sick and tired of not getting results with women and would like to try something that is absolutely guaranteed to work for you, then get started here

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