However, with the right words and the right actions, you can rekindle her love again. Men all over the world get their ex back into a relationship and make the love even more powerful than it was before. It’s no different for you. You can do it too.
It’s Only Natural to Still Want Her Love
When the love of a woman is taken away from a man, it can feel like he is losing a huge part of himself and his life. Especially if he truly loves the woman in his heart of hearts and wants to do whatever it takes to be the man she wants. In cases like that, it’s only natural that a man would wonder, “Does my ex still love me?”
No matter how many times your friends tell you that there’s “plenty more fish in the sea” or that you need to “get back in the saddle” and find a new woman, you can’t help wondering if your ex might still love you and if there’s a chance she might change her mind and get back with you. So, is there?
Well, look at it this way; if you were the one who chose to break up the relationship with her, would you still love your ex? Sure. You could still love her in a way, but not necessarily in the way that you want her back. More of a “friendly love” than a “sexual, romantic love.” While you might still care about her, it’s not the same as being madly in love with her and wanting to be around her because it feels so good when you are. Chances are, if your ex broke up with you, she has different feelings for you now – a friendly, but more distant kind of love.
So, if you’re asking, “Does my ex still love me?” and you’re asking because you still love her and you’re hoping she might give you another chance, you might also want to know, “Can I get my ex to love me again?” Yes you can. First, you have to rekindle her sexual attraction for you.
The 3 Stages She Went Through Before Breaking Up With You
Try to imagine that an ex-girlfriend of yours is asking, “Does my ex still love me?” but you no longer feel sexual attraction for her because she’s put on a lot of weight, for example. What would it take for her to be able to rekindle your love for her? All things considered, the bottom line is that she would need to become more attractive to you by losing weight and making herself look pretty and sexy again, right?
In fact, she would need to become so attractive to you (more than when you first met her) that you wouldn’t be able to help yourself from at least giving the relationship another chance. So, there you have it. If you want your ex to love you again, you need to become more attractive to her; you need to become so attractive to her that she becomes powerless to stop herself from taking you back!
So, how do you make yourself more attractive to her? First things first. Do NOT read loads of articles written by amateurs (who are not experts and who have not spent years actually helping men get back with women) telling you that you need to whiten your teeth, get a haircut, buy a new cologne, go to the gym, etc. That is NOT what women are really looking for in a man. You do not need to become “pretty” to attract her back.
What she is looking for is a real man and if you can be that (real men are rare. You’ll often hear women saying, “Where are all the real men??”), she will take you back in a heartbeat.
Take a look around you in any social environment and you will see guys of all shapes and sizes and of every level of “attractiveness” – yes, you know the ones, the ones that don’t exactly have classic good looks – with beautiful women all over them. Why are women attracted to guys who other guys would consider UGLY? (Read: How Do Average-Looking or “Ugly” Guys Pick Up Beautiful Women?) Despite what you will hear some women SAY, clearly it’s not physical attractiveness that matters to women; it’s all down to “who” he is as a man. If you don’t want to believe that, you will be sucked in my the media machine telling you that you need to buy their moisturiser to look nice and pretty for women.
Maintaining the Attraction
Your ex loved you at SOME stage of the relationship, so something about you attracted her to you and something made her develop those feelings. She became your ex, so it’s pretty clear the initial attraction didn’t last. If you want to get that attraction back, let me help you. If you can change your questioning from, “Does my ex still love me?” to, “What will it take to make sure my ex falls back in love with me?” then I can help you to achieve that, just like I’ve helped 1,000s of guys before you.