If you want to be happy in a relationship, you need to:
1. Love and accept each other for who you are, while also always trying to do better and be better for each other.
Neither of you need to be perfect right now, but always try to do better, be better and love better.
2. Don’t take things too seriously.
Always try to smile and laugh at things that you’d otherwise get angry at for each other. If you’re not used to living life that way, you will initially have to remind yourself and possibly even force yourself to smile and laugh more.
The reward is less stress, more love and easy happiness together.
Here’s a video that I made to explain this point…
3. Try your absolute best to love each other unconditionally.
Allow both of you to feel safe in the knowledge that you are loved and that the other person is going to be patient with you, stick by you and allow your love to grow and mature.
4. Deepen her love, respect and attraction for you over time.
In the past, a woman had to stay with a man for life, even if she was unhappy.
It was shameful to divorce, so a woman would stick by her man even if he was unable to deepen her feelings of love, respect and attraction. Heck, he could even treat her badly if he wanted to and she would still stick around.
In today’s world, a woman is free to do whatever she wants. She doesn’t have to settle down early, remain a virgin until marriage or even get married at all.
To keep a relationship together in today’s world, a man needs to know how to deepen a woman’s love, respect and attraction for him over time. If he doesn’t, she may eventually fall out of love with him, get bored and cheat on him, break up with him or divorce him.
5. Genuinely seeing each other as more than enough.
It’s only natural that you will find other women attractive (e.g. when walking down a street, looking at porn, watching TV, etc) and that she will find other men attractive.
However, as long as both of you have the mindset that you are both more than enough for each other, you won’t feel the need to find happiness in a new person. Sure, after 15 years of a relationship, she won’t look the same as she once did, but that doesn’t mean you still can’t look at her as being the sexiest woman on Earth in your eyes.
You both have to decide that you’ve chosen each other and don’t need anyone else. A woman will stick by her decision to stay with you if you deepen her love, respect and attraction for you over time.
The Truth About Relationships Between Men and Women
Despite all the changes that have happened in our society and the effects on relationships, it is still possible to keep a relationship together for life if you approach it right.
Personally speaking, I recently got married after a short engagement to the girl of my dreams. In the video below, I explain why I got married, my approach to the relationship and what I do to make sure that the relationship will last.
Staying Happy Together For Life
Have you ever seen those couples who’ve been together for decades, but are still happy and madly in love with each other?
You can just tell how happy they are and how much they love each other by the way they look at each other. They are there for each other as best friends, but they are also lovers.
The man will look at his woman as though she’s the sexiest woman on Earth and she will look at him as a sexy man. How is that possible?
You have to deepen the love, respect and attraction that she feels for you. As a man, you have to know how to create that type of dynamic and then you need to create it and maintain it.
Leaving it to chance or taking her for granted is no longer an acceptable relationship strategy for a man. The relationship is either going to get better and better over time, or it’s going to get worse.
Keeping the Sexual Spark Alive
It is normal to stop having sex?
Yes and no.
When a couple reaches their 50s or 60s, they don’t have much sexual drive anymore unless they are taking hormones.
However, from the ages 18-50, happy couples still have sex. In most cases, it won’t happen as often as it did in the first couple of years of the relationship, but it will still happen.
If a couple truly loves each other and after 10 years of marriage, only has sex once a week, they don’t have anything to worry about. When a couple is truly in love and going after mutual goals or spending a lot of time with their family, they know that sex isn’t the most important thing.
There is no set number of times per week that a couple needs to have sex. As long as they find each other attractive, are in love and have sex whenever they feel like it, there’s nothing to worry about.
Do You Know How to Make Her Feel Attracted to You?
One of the most important things that you need to do is continue to make your woman feel respect and attraction for you as a man.
Things that can turn a woman off and make her lose respect for a man include:
- Not following on his promises.
- Being insecure, clingy or needy.
- Hiding from his true potential in life behind her and the relationship.
- Being nervous in social situations.
- Putting her down often.
- Being too protective or suspicious.
- Always letting her win because he is afraid that she will get angry.
- Never letting her win because he wants to control her.
There are many different ways that a woman will lose respect and attraction for her man.
As a man, you have to know how to make your woman feel enough attraction for you in the relationship, otherwise she may decide to fulfil her desire to feel attracted elsewhere with another man.