So, how can you get your ex-woman back after you’ve cheated on her?
The first thing you need to know is that generally speaking, women take cheating a lot better than men do.
A might not show that when you interact with her though, of course.
A woman might be upset and crying and appear angry and as though she could never forgive you, but generally speaking, most women can handle it a lot better than men.
I think part of the reason for that is how women perceive men who have other women interested in them.
Women don’t go around necessarily admitting it, but if you look at what happens you will see that women are very attracted to guys when other women are attracted to that guy.
It’s the same thing with a male celebrity, if you think about it.
He doesn’t even have to be good looking, but the fact that other women find him attractive and that they want to be with him makes the woman find him attractive.
However, if you think about physically unattractive female celebrities, most guys do not give a crap that she is famous.
Most guys do not give a crap how much money she is making.
They do not want to have sex with her because they do not find her physically attractive.
Yet for a woman, if a male celebrity isn’t even physically attractive, she is going to find him attractive because other women like him and want to be with him.
When a woman is in a relationship with a guy who is attractive to other women and they want to have sex with him, it makes her feel more attracted to him.
However, if he goes and cheats on her with one of those women, it makes her feel upset.
It can make her feel like she’s not good enough and feel as though he may have enjoyed having sex with that woman more than he enjoyed having sex with her.
For some women though, they aren’t concerned about the sex.
Instead, they’re more concerned about whether you have more of an emotional connection with that woman compared to her.
Each woman handles cheating differently.
However, generally speaking, women can handle being cheated on better than a man in most cases.
They can deal with it, they can forgive him and give him another chance because he is attractive to her and he’s attractive to other women.
I can also tell you from personal experience back when I was dating and I had multiple women in my life, I would find myself in a position where I had 4 or 5 women in my life at once.
Sometimes I would have a girl who would say that she wants to become my number one girl.
She would be excited about that and she would try hard to become my number one.
If you don’t know, I’m married now and I don’t make my wife feel like she is one of many because she is my number one woman.
Here’s a photo around the time that my wife and I met in a night club.
She was 20 when I met her and I was 35. We’ve been together for almost 5 years now and the relationship just gets better and better all the time.
However, I just want to point out that when I was dating multiple women at once, they weren’t angry about that.
They pretended to be pissed off, they pretended to be angry, but they kept coming back week after week.
Each woman would get to see me once a week and some girls would get to see me twice a week, but they kept coming back.
Now, if you would ask those women when they were in that situation whether they were happy about it, they would say no.
They would say, “Dan’s an asshole. He doesn’t treat me good enough. It’s not fair. He’s seeing all these other women. He’s bad.”
Yet, they kept coming back every week.
Although women won’t go around admitting it, women do find men attractive when other women find that man attractive.
It’s not the same for us men.
We men can instantly find a woman attractive and want to have sex with her simply based on her appearance.
It doesn’t matter if other guys find her attractive.
We have an instant reaction to women because most of our attraction for a woman is based on her physical appearance initially.
Of course, when a guy talks to a woman, that doesn’t mean that he’s going to continue feeling attracted to her.
He may be turned off by her personality and behavior and not want to have sex with her anymore.
However, the main thing that we find attractive about women is their physical appearance initially.
For a relationship, we also want a woman to be a good woman, to be down to earth, easy-going, intelligent, warm and loving and so on.
On the other hand, what women find most attractive about a man is his emotional attractiveness, who he is as a man, his confidence, his charm, his charisma, his sex appeal.
Do other women find him attractive?
Are other women finding his personality and behavior attractive?
If so, then a woman sees that as a signal that the guy is attractive.
Women have been interacting with him, they’ve found his confidence attractive, they’ve found his personality attractive, they have found him emotionally attractive.
Therefore, she doesn’t need to go through a long process of trying to find out whether he is attractive to her emotionally.
She can just look at how other women are reacting to him and say, “Wow. This guy is attractive. Other women have interacted with him. They like his confidence. They like his personality. They find him attractive. He is a catch.”
So, how all of this relates to getting your ex back when you have cheated on her is that although she might be upset and hurt by the fact that you’ve cheated on her, the truth is that she doesn’t see it as being all that bad.
Even though she most likely won’t admit it to you or anyone else, there is a part of her that likes the fact that other women find you attractive.
Depending on the woman, it definitely can hurt her that you cheated on her and it definitely can make her feel like she’s not good enough, but there has got to be a part of her that likes the fact that other women want you as well.
That said, cheating on your woman is definitely not a great way to keep a relationship together.
You have made the mistake, but it’s not the end of the world. You can fix this situation and get her back.
How do you do that? Here are 6 tips to help you.
6 Tips to Get Your Ex Back After Cheating on Her
1. Apologize and accept the breakup, but tell her that you love her.
You’ve most likely already apologized to your woman.
If you haven’t done that already, go ahead and do that.
Apologize for cheating on her, accept the breakup, but tell her that you love her as well.
It’s not about apologizing, accepting the breakup then saying, “See you later. If you don’t want to talk to me again, the ball is in your court. I’m gone.”
Tell her that you love her.
Throw her a bone.
Give her something to hold on to.
Now, of course, not every guy does that when he’s cheated on his woman and she’s breaking up with him.
Some guys make the mistake of begging and pleading and apologizing over and over again, sucking up to her, trying to be super nice and trying to convince her that things will be different.
Don’t worry if you have made that mistake or have done something similar.
You can still fix the situation and get her back.
What you need to do is what I will explain later in the video.
For now, let’s move on to the next tip.
2. Re-attract her and then give her a week of space
After a breakup where you have cheated on your woman, it’s best to give her a week of space.
I don’t recommend giving any longer than that because giving her a week of space proves the point.
You never need to give your woman more than a week of space after a breakup to then contact her again, re-attract her and guide her through the ex back process.
If you wait too long, what happens is that most women just move on.
They want to make themselves feel better so they hook up with a new guy or they start flirting with guys at work or where they study or through friends and the next thing you know she’s in a rebound relationship.
So, what I recommend is that before you give her a week of space, create a spark of attraction inside of her.
Interact with her, make her laugh, make her smile, make her feel attracted to your confidence, make her feel attracted to your charm and charisma that she loves so much about you.
Give her that spark, give her that feeling and then give her a week of space.
3. Attract her if she contacts you during the week of space
If your ex-woman contacts you because she’s missing you, you don’t have to ignore her texts and continue giving her that full week of space.
Each woman is different.
Some women just need 1 or 2 days and then they’re missing you terribly and they want you back. Some women need 3 or 4 days, some women need a full week before they realize that you’re not desperately chasing after them.
She feels attracted to you, she is missing having you in her life, she feels like she can forgive you for cheating on her and she wants you back.
Yet, you’re not chasing her.
You’re not desperately asking for another chance.
You’re not blowing up her phone with text messages.
You’re not trying to explain yourself and apologize over and over via text messages or emails.
Instead, you attracted her before you gave her a week of space and she’s missing you now.
She is feeling like the cheating is something that she can forgive.
Who cares about that other woman that you cheated on her with? She wants you. She feels so attracted to you. Why should other women now get to have you when she wants to be with you?
4. Call her to say hi and make her feel attracted again.
If a guy texts his ex-woman and he tries to get a conversation going with her, she might decide to ignore his text.
She might decide to show him that she’s not chasing him and that she’s not going to be that easy to get back.
The guy then might make the mistake of thinking that he’s losing her and something is wrong and he might start to text her in a bit more of an insecure or desperate way.
Then she really starts to feel turned off by him.
There are so many things that can go wrong when you’re texting your ex woman, so I always recommend to get her on a phone call.
That way you can instantly create a spark of respect and attraction and love.
You can make her smile and laugh and feel attracted to your confidence.
You can be charming and charismatic and get her to feel that spark, get her to feel drawn to you again, get her to remember how much she feels for you.
5. Meet up with her
When you meet up with her, don’t go overboard with trying to make her feel so appreciated now or make her feel so wanted because it can come across as appearing desperate.
Also don’t go overboard with apologizing.
You don’t want to apologize over and over again and be bowing your head in shame.
That isn’t going to make her feel respect and attraction for you.
It isn’t going to make her feel like she can look up to you and you are her man.
If you go too far with that sort of stuff, it can come across as though you’re groveling like you’re trying to suck up to her and that you desperately need another chance with her.
If your relationship was the type where you were in the position of power and she enjoyed that, you don’t want to be coming across as though she has all the power now.
If she’s the sort of woman who likes a guy to be in a position of power, then she’s not going to want to see you groveling and sucking up to her.
So, make sure that you don’t go overboard with trying to apologize and make her feel really special and wanted now.
6. Get her to realize that we all live and learn
Yes, you made a mistake by cheating on her.
It wasn’t the best thing to do.
It wasn’t the nicest thing to do.
It potentially made her feel upset and unloved and not good enough for you.
You made that mistake.
However, everyone makes mistakes throughout life.
Sometimes when you make a mistake, it’s a wake-up call for you.
It’s a crossroads moment in your life where you realize that you shouldn’t be like that.
You know that it was a mistake you don’t want to repeat.
You feel much better not being that sort of guy.
You want to be the sort of guy who sticks with his woman, who is faithful to his woman.
You want to be the sort of guy who has a relationship with a woman that gets better and better over time.
You look at her and you find her so attractive. She’s more than enough for you.
Of course, don’t go overboard trying to say that stuff to her.
If you are going overboard and saying all these things to her, saying that, “I’ve realized so much. You’re just the best. I don’t need any other woman. I just want you,” and you’re coming across as desperate, it’s not going to make her feel respect, attraction and love for you.
So, just make sure that you maintain your cool.
Telling her that we all live and learn and getting her to realize that people make mistakes is important because it gives her a reason to try, especially if when you’re talking to her she can think about a mistake that she has made or something that she has learned along the way and how it made her become a better person.
She can realize that she’s not such a bad person for making that mistake she made in the past.
It actually made her become an even better woman.
It made her become who she is today.
Likewise, your mistake has made you become a better man.
It has made you become who you are today.
You are a better man as a result of making that mistake.
You certainly won’t make that mistake again in future.
You have no desire to and you know that it’s just not going to happen again.
However, just focusing on talking about that is not the one thing that is going to make her want you back.
You need to be making her feel attracted to you again.
You need to be making her feel that spark when she interacts with you.
When she interacts with you, sparks fly, she feels respect, she feels attraction, she feels love, she feels drawn to you, she wants to hug you, she wants to kiss you, she wants to be in your arms.
That is what makes all the difference.
I hope this video has helped you and if you need more help to get your ex back, I recommend that you watch my program, Get Your Ex Back Super System.
It’s a 7-step system and the same rules apply whether you’ve cheated on her or you haven’t cheated on her. The same rules apply.
What you need to do to get her back is the same.
You need to go through the same series of steps and you need to make sure that you’re making her feel attracted and drawn to you again.
You need to make sure that she’s feeling that love, she feels drawn to you, she wants to be with you, she wants to be in your arms again.
A Mistake That Can Be Fixed
Okay, so one final point that I’ll make for you in this video is that, yes, you’ve made a mistake and yes, she may be upset, but it’s not the end of the world.
You can change how she feels about you.
You can get her to smile and laugh and feel happy with you again.
You can get her to look at the mistake you made as something that was a learning process, it didn’t mean anything to you and she is what you want.
However, just make sure that you don’t go overboard saying that she is the one that you want and you don’t want anything else and your life is horrible without her and you just want to be with her and, “Please, please, please give me another chance.”
Women don’t respect desperation, so just maintain your cool, focus on making her feel attracted and get her back.