When you’re in a relationship with a woman, should you ever ask her, “Are you still attracted to me?”
The answer is not only “No,” it’s “Heck no!”
The reason why is that when a guy asks a woman a question like, “Are you still attracted to me?” in that moment, he is displaying traits that are unattractive to a woman; those being insecurity and self doubt.
That is not attractive to a woman.
So if a man asks a woman, “Are you still attracted to me?” he will usually get answers like, “I don’t know. Don’t ask me those sorts of things. You’re being annoying” or, “Maybe, maybe not, I’m not sure.”
The reason why, is that women are attracted to confidence and turned off by insecurity and self doubt in a man.
So in that moment, she’s going to be unsure about her feelings of attraction for him and, as a result, will make comments like, “I don’t know, I’m not sure, maybe,” or she’ll try to avoid hurting his feelings by answering the question in that moment and will instead ask him, “Why are you asking me this?”
The thing is understandably, some guys find themselves in a situation where they’re in a relationship and they don’t really know if their girlfriend or their wife loves them and feels attracted to them anymore.
It’s understandable for a guy to think that or to consider it, but it’s not something that you should go and ask a woman.
Instead, as a man, what you need to understand is that attraction is something that you CREATE based on how you interact with her.
She is looking at you and if she can see that you’re being confident, emotionally masculine, you’re not placing her above you in terms of dominance and you’re able to make her feel the kind of respect for you that makes her feel motivated to treat you well, then she’s going to feel attracted to you.
Additionally, if you’re approaching the relationship correctly, then her love for you is going to deepen over time rather than fading away.
She’s going to fall more and more in love with you because of the man that you are and how you make her feel.
So to avoid ever becoming insecure and doubting your attractiveness to your woman, what you need to do is understand how to make her feel attracted, understand how to approach a relationship in a way that builds on the love, respect and attraction that you and her feel for each other.
Then focus on what is most important to you in life, other than her, that being your purpose in life, your goals as a man, your dreams and so on.
Make that your main focus in life, rather than her.
It’s fine for her to be the most important person in your life, but not the most important thing.
If you make your woman the most important person and the most important thing, then you’re naturally going to start to feel insecure.
You may begin to worry that your life is going to start falling apart if you see changes in her behavior, mood and the way that she is approaching the relationship with you.
After all, everything in your life is based on her and the relationship.
As a man, you should never put yourself in that situation.
It’s completely fine to love, respect and appreciate your woman and see her as the most important person in your life, but don’t make her the most important thing in your life.
Don’t get the two confused.
The way to do is to love and appreciate her, but put the majority of your focus into what is most important to you in life, other than her.
When you approach your life in that way and you also know how to make her feel attracted and how to approach the relationship in a way that builds on the feelings between you and her, then you have nothing to worry about.
She’s going to feel attracted to you because you know how to make her feel sparks of attraction as you interact with her.
You also know how to approach your relationship in a way that builds on the feelings of respect, attraction and love over time.
The thing is though, even though you know how to make her feel attracted, you know how to approach a relationship correctly and her feelings are building, you still shouldn’t ever go and ask her, “Are you still attracted to me? Do you still love me?” because in that moment you’ll be displaying traits that are unattractive to her and as a result, in that moment, she won’t feel very attracted to you.
She will feel turned off by your insecurity and self doubt.
So you have to know what you’re doing, believe that it’s working and then get on with being the man that you want to be in life.
As a result, she will naturally look up to you, respect you, feel attracted to you and be in love with you.
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When you watch or listen to the program, you will learn everything that you need to know to make a woman feel increasingly respectful, attracted and in love with you over time.
The techniques and methods that you will learn in the program make your woman want to treat you well, be attentive, be affectionate, be loving and always look her best for you.
She wants to impress you.
She doesn’t want to lose you.
She only wants to be with you.
You Have a Lot of Control Over How Much Attraction She Feels
One final point that I want to make for you in this video, is that it’s important to understand and remember how much control you actually have over a woman’s attraction for you.
It’s essentially based on how you talk to her, how you interact with her, how you approach the relationship and how you approach your life in general.
She’s looking at you and if she can see traits that make her feel attracted, then she’s going to fee attracted.
For example: If she sees that you’re confident and emotionally masculine, then she’s going to feel some attraction for you as a result of that.
If you also know how to approach the relationship in a way that makes her feel loved and appreciated while also feeling motivated to make you feel loved and appreciated, then she’s going to respect you and love you for that.
When a woman finds herself in a relationship like that, she feels lucky that she feels loved and appreciated, but also feels excited and lucky that she feels the motivation to make you feel loved and appreciated.
Women love to be in that type of situation where they feel motivated to treat you well, be attentive, loving and so on.
Yet, all of that stuff can begin to be ruined by simple insecure questions like, “Are you still attracted to me?” or, “Do you still love me?”
Don’t go to her with questions like that.
Instead, make her feel attracted to you, make her love you and then get on with being the man that you want to be in life.
She will respect you for that, she’ll feel attracted to you for it and she’ll love you for it.