Here’s what to do if a girl says she likes you:
1. Build on Her Feelings of Sexual Attraction For You When You Interact With Her
A girl saying that she likes a guy doesn’t automatically mean she’s interested in having sex or getting in a relationship with him.
For example: Sometimes a girl will say she likes a guy because:
- She thinks he’s nice and she likes him as her friend.
- She is just flirting with him in a friendly, good-natured way but it doesn’t mean that she’s romantically or sexually interested in him.
- She’s grateful for something that he’s done for her (e.g. helped her with a project, run an errand for her) and she tells him she likes him because she perceives him as being a nice guy.
Regardless of a girl’s reasons for saying, “I like you,” she will not be interested in having sex with you or being in a relationship with you if you are not actively making her feel a lot of attraction by the way you interact with her.
A woman will feel attracted to you based on what you say, do and how you behave when you interact with her.
- Are you confident and charismatic around her, or are you nervous, insecure and self-doubting around her?
- Does your conversation style make her feel excited to be talking to you, or does she feel bored or uncomfortable?
- Does she feel feminine and girly when she’s talking to you, or does she feel friendly or sisterly affection for you?
- Does she flirt with you, or is she serious and maybe even a bit cold and aloof towards you?
Basically, the more ways you can make a girl feel attracted to you when you interact with her, the more she will be interested in being your girlfriend.
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If you interact with a girl and you are displaying confidence, being charismatic, making her feel girly in comparison to your masculinity (e.g. how you think, behave, talk, move), then she is going to feel attracted to you.
As a guy, you have to actively make a girl feel attracted to you when you interact with her. You can do that by displaying the personality traits, behaviors and inner qualities that girls find attractive in guys (e.g. confidence, charisma, etc).
You then need to have the confidence to make a move by moving the conversation to a kiss, to sex and then into a relationship.
Just because she made the first move and told you that she likes you, don’t expect her to make yet another move and try to kiss you first.
You have to believe in your ability to attract her and then make a move when the moment is right.
2. Turn Her On With Your Confidence
In just the same way that you feel attracted and turned on by a woman’s body and face, she will feel attracted to your confidence and belief in yourself.
So, make sure that you let this girl experience your confidence when you interact with her, rather than coming across as shy, self-doubting or insecure around her.
She has already told you that she likes you, so don’t waste time second guessing yourself like other guys do.
For example: Some guys will worry and ask themselves, “What if she didn’t mean it?” or “What if I ask her out and she changes her mind?” or “What if she realizes I’m not as good looking or rich as other guys out there, and decides she can do better than me after all?”
Like a lot of guys, he simply doesn’t know that a guy can CREATE feelings of sexual attraction inside of a girl by the way he behaves and interacts with her.
He then wastes most of his life feeling as though he’s not good enough for hot girls and misses out on opportunities to enjoy sex, love and relationships.
Yet, all along, he could have simply just believed in his ability to make girls feel attracted to him.
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Girls want to see that you are confident in yourself and believe in your ability to make them feel attracted when you interact with them.
If a girl says that she likes a guy and then he reacts by behaving in a nervous, shy, insecure and self-doubting way around her, she will quickly lose attraction for him.
She will realize that he doesn’t even have the fundamental trait that all girls are looking for in guy; confidence.
By allowing your confidence to come through when you interact with this girl you like, not only will she be glad that she confessed to liking you, she will feel herself getting sexually attracted and liking you even more.
Confidence is not some magical thing that some guys have and some guys don’t. It is simply having belief in yourself and in your abilities. Anyone can choose to be confident; it is a state of mind.
You can choose to believe in yourself or doubt yourself. You are in control of your confidence.
To be truly confident, you have to decide that you are going to believe in yourself and then stick to it.
However, be warned: Pretending that you are confident is something that a girl can see right through.
A truly confident man doesn’t need to put on an act of being confident. He simply believes in himself no matter what, so being insecure simply doesn’t enter his mind.
He knows that the majority of girls (not all) feel much more attracted to a guy’s personality traits and behaviors, rather than to the superficial things like his appearance or financial status, so he doesn’t let negative thoughts about looks or money stand in his way of his success with women.
He knows that some girls only want a really good looking guy or a rich guy, but he also knows that most girls are more interested in how a guy’s personality and behavior makes them feel.
So, when a girl says she likes you, enjoy it.
Feel confident about it and then focus on making her feel even more attracted to you.
3. Avoid Showing Too Much Interest Too Soon or Being Too Impressed By Her
If a girl is attractive, it will be very easy for her to attract guys for sex and a relationship.
As long as she is attractive and can make herself look sexy by the clothes she wears, her makeup, her hairstyle, etc., most guys will be interested in having sex with her.
Most girls are aware of the power of their pussy and it’s not very exciting to them because they know that most guys are way too easy to impress.
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So, when a girl tells you that she likes you, she wants to experience something different from you than the usual puppy dog devotion she gets from most of the guys she meets.
For example: Sometimes, when a guy lacks experience with women, he will become so excited when a girl tells him that she likes him that he makes the mistake of coming across as being too eager.
- He might begin to follow her around like a puppy dog.
- He might begin to call her, text her or instant message her nonstop.
- He might begin to shower her with attention and gifts.
- He might run errands for her, help her out with work projects or homework, pay for everything, etc., just to please her.
However, rather than making her like him even more, this type of behavior only turns the girl off, because he is behaving like all the other guys who want to have sex with her or get in a relationship with her.
So, when a girl says that she likes you, the best way to show her that you’re interested in her too, is to allow your interest to ebb and flow depending on how she behaves when she interacts with you.
For example: If she’s flirty and nice to you, then you can respond by being flirty and nice back.
If she is cold and aloof, you can respond by ignoring her or by walking away and talking to another attractive girl instead.
When a woman realizes that you’re not like all the other guys she knows, she will be the one working hard to impress you.
4. Don’t Make the Mistake of Becoming Her Friend
Some guys make the mistake of thinking that to get a woman into a relationship, they first have to become her friend.
A guy like that will believe that it’s rude or ungentlemanly to rush a girl into a sexual or romantic relationship with them.
Yet, another guy will come along and kiss her the first time he meets her and then begin a sexual relationship with her. That guy will then become her boyfriend, rather than just a friend.
So, when a guy makes the classic mistake of taking things slowly, remains the perfect gentleman and never does anything to trigger her feelings of sexual attraction for him, her initial interest in him will eventually fade.
She will perceive his neutral behavior as a sign that he is not interested in her in a sexual way or that he lacks the all-importance confidence that she seeks in a guy.
She will stop liking him as a potential boyfriend and only see him as a friend or as another clueless guy who has a crush on her, but has no idea how to make her feel attracted to him.
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If you like this girl and want to have sex with her or start a relationship with her, then stop pretending that you are just a nice, innocent friend.
There’s nothing wrong with being a nice guy, but being nice to a girl is not enough to make her feel sexually attracted to you.
You have to trigger her feelings of sexual attraction for you and you can’t do that by being a neutral nice guy who acts like he is just an innocent friend.
If you want her to be your girlfriend or lover, you have to actively make her feel attracted and turned on by every time you interact with her from now on.
5. Make Your Move or Stand the Chance of Losing Her
If you don’t make a move on her after making her feel attracted, she will eventually begin to wonder, “What’s wrong with him? Why doesn’t he make a move?”
If she is attracted to you and you get along, don’t waste time waiting for extremely obvious signals.
Make a move by guiding her from a conversation to kiss, to sex and into a relationship with you.
If you only ever talk to her or even flirt with her, but you never escalate getting to kissing, dating and sex, then she will eventually lose interest in you.
Even if a girl told a guy that she likes him, she will still want a guy to take the lead and be the man from then on.
If a guy doesn’t take the lead, she will decide that he’s too insecure to be her boyfriend and she will simply wait for a more confident guy to come along who won’t be afraid to make a move and take the interaction from flirting to kissing and beyond.
It’s Really Up to You Now
If this was a tennis match, a girl telling you she likes you is like her having taken the first swing.
Now the ball is in your court and you have to make the next move.
Don’t waste time worrying about what to do when a girl says she likes you, because she’s already made this very easy for you by making the first move.
It’s up to you now to take the lead by building on her attraction for you when you interact with her.
When you are certain that she feels attracted to you, either get her phone number and set up a date or get her somewhere private and move in for a first kiss.