What women look for in a man physically differs from woman to woman.
For example: Some women like tall, muscular guys with dark hair, while other women prefer blonde guys who are shorter.
There are women who like bald guys, but there are also women who really like guys with long hair.
Some women like guys with blue eyes while other women prefer guys with dark eyes.
Basically, the list can go on and on.
However, saying that there’s something specific that all women look for in a man physically (e.g. that he be tall, that he have a muscular body, that he have long hair), is like saying that the only women that men prefer are short blondes with big boobs.
It just isn’t true.
Men are attracted to many different types of women (e.g. blondes, brunettes, black, oriental, sporty, curvaceous), and women are attracted to many different types of men as well.
The Most Important Thing You Need to Know About What Women Look For in a Man Physically
Other people won’t tell you this because they just don’t get it, but the truth is that majority of women are a lot more flexible about what they find attractive in a man than most guys realize.
Most women won’t admit it when asked, but if you look at the types of men that a woman has been with throughout her life, you will see that they vary physically and are not all the same type of guy.
This is because what a woman looks for in a man physically is usually less important than how a man makes her feel emotionally.
For example: If a woman says, “I like guys who are tall, dark and handsome,” is approached by a guy who is short and average looking, it doesn’t mean that he won’t have a chance with her.
If he can make her feel attracted to him in other ways (e.g. by displaying confidence, being charismatic and charming, having a masculine vibe or making her laugh), she isn’t always going to reject him simply because he isn’t tall and doesn’t have model looks.
Just like other women do, she might let go of her superficial preference for “tall, dark and handsome” if she finds that her attraction to the shorter, average looking guy is strong enough.
This is why you will often see women with guys who really don’t seem like a good match to her.
In some cases, the guy will be rich, famous or whatever, but in most cases (i.e. most guys aren’t rich), he will have simply attracted her by displaying personality traits and behaviors that are naturally attractive to women (e.g. confidence, charisma, charm).
Naturally, not all women will accept a guy who isn’t very good looking or who doesn’t have big muscles and lots of money, but most women will.
Essentially, when a woman feels attracted to a guy for other reasons (e.g. he’s confident, can make her laugh, is interesting to talk to), she will usually be less worried about whether or not he is her type physically.
Attraction Gets Sparked Differently in Women Than it Does in Men
It wouldn’t be taking too much of a leap to say that guys are mostly attracted to a woman’s appearance.
When you see a physically good looking woman, you don’t really care what she does for a living or what her hobbies are right?
You’re willing to have sex with her simply based on how she looks.
Don’t worry, it’s not just you.
For most guys, as long as a woman is physically attractive, they will be open to hooking up with her for sex (and possibly even for a relationship as well), regardless of whether she has a nice personality, is interesting to talk to, or has a great sense of humor.
The attraction men feel for women is sparked by her appearance.
In other words, if a woman is attractive, most guys will be attracted to her.
It’s that simple.
However, a woman’s attraction for a man usually doesn’t work in the same way.
Before a woman has a chance to experience a man’s personality (i.e. Is he confident? Does he get along well with her?), she will naturally have to judge him about something, and his physical appearance is all she’s got to go on.
This is why you might have seen women looking at good looking guys and saying, “Wow, he’s soooo hot!” or “Look at the sexy muscles on that guy. He can take me home any time,” yet at the same time are having one night stands, or being in relationships with guys who are just average looking, or even overweight, or what some people would perceive as being ugly.
Yes, you will some women with good looking guys or rich guys, but the majority of women aren’t as picky as most guys think they are.
Even though a woman will definitely notice a man’s physical appearance, and openly comment and feel attracted to him because of it, it isn’t always the most important thing to her or other women.
For a woman to feel a strong sexual attraction for a man and want to have sex with him or want to be his girlfriend, she usually has to experience his personality.
For example: The initial attraction a woman feels for a man’s physical appearance can easily die, if when he interacts with her, he behaves in ways that are unattractive to her and other women (e.g. he is nervous, self-doubting, arrogant, too easily impressed by her).
On the other hand, a woman might not feel much attraction for an average or below-average looking guy’s physical appearance at first sight, but when he interacts with her and behaves in ways that are naturally attractive to women (e.g. confident, masculine, can make her feel girly in contrast to his masculine vibe), her feelings of sexual attraction will be triggered.
Here’s the really interesting part…
When a woman is feeling attracted to an average or below-average looking guy for other reasons (e.g. his confidence, charisma, charm, humor), she will then begin to see his physical appearance as being more attractive to her.
Watch this video for more info on how it works…
An example of this is when a woman (who claims that bald men are not her type) meets a bald guy who makes her feel attracted in other ways.
He then picks her up, has sex with her and gets her into a relationship. She then begins to say things like, “Oh, I love my boyfriend’s bald head. It makes him look so sexy!”
She is feeling attracted to him for different reasons (e.g. he makes her feel girly in response to his masculine vibe, makes her laugh), and she actually starts to look at his physical appearance in a positive light.
His physical appearance is part of who he is and he is the guy that she is attracted to and falling in love with.
Most guys go through their entire life never knowing that a woman’s attraction actually works in that way.
You are now one of the small percentage of men who know the secret and you will see it happening all around you from now on.
2 Personality Traits That Will Make Any Guy Instantly More Attractive to Women
If you don’t fit the stereotypical ideal image of a man portrayed by the media (e.g. tall, movie star good looks, a perfect gym body), you might decide that you just don’t have what it takes to get the women you really want.
If you simply focus on displaying some of the personality traits and behaviors that women find attractive (e.g. confidence, charisma, charm, masculine vibe), you will always be attractive to most women even if you don’t have male model looks.
Here are 2 personality traits (there are 100s more) that women always find attractive in men…
1. Being confident
Confidence (noun): Belief in oneself and one’s powers or abilities; self-confidence; self-reliance; assurance.
Women are naturally attracted to a guy’s confidence, so the more confident a guy is when he interacts with her, the more she will want to hook up with him.
Of course, I’m not talking about over the top, loud, bragging, arrogant confidence. That type of “confidence” is usually based on insecurity and a guy is simply going overboard to hopefully conceal his lack of confidence.
He feels the need to show off, be rude or be an asshole to hopefully make people think that he is confident.
Yet, we all know that he is insecure.
The type of confidence that is most attractive to women is relaxed, masculine confidence where a guy doesn’t feel the need to show off.
There’s nothing wrong with being loud at times if you want to, but only if you want to because you feel like it – not because you hope it will make people think you are confident.
If you have relaxed, masculine confidence, you will spark the initial attraction of most women you meet.
You then simply build on that attraction by displaying other personality traits and behaviors that are naturally attractive to women.
Watch this video for more info…
As you can see from the video above, looks aren’t everything to women.
If a good looking man is insecure around a woman (e.g. is nervous and self-doubting when he interacts with her), it will usually turn her off and she will either just only want to be friends, or will feel that she doesn’t want to waste her time with a guy who she will have to boost up emotionally all the time because he lacks confidence in himself.
Of course, unattractive women will happily take the insecure, good looking guy. However, that isn’t what he really wants.
He wants to be able to attract hot women that he is really attracted to, but unless he gets lucky and scores one by accident, he will have to put up with accepting less attractive women who want him because of his looks.
Why is being a confident man so important to women?
We humans live in a challenging world where the strongest and smartest usually find it easier to survive, thrive and prosper compared to weak people.
This is why women aren’t attracted to emotional weaknesses like insecurity, nervousness and self-doubt in men.
Women are instinctively attracted the strength in men (e.g. confidence, masculinity) and turned off by the weakness (e.g. nervousness, insecurity, self-doubt), because she knows that if she hooks up with an emotionally strong guy, she will have a better chance for survival during difficult times.
So, if you want a woman to be your girlfriend, you must focus on making her feel sexually attracted to you and one of the easiest ways to do that is by being a confident man around her.
Being confident while interacting with a woman will turn her on in the same way that a man gets turned on when a woman wears a short, sexy dress.
We men feel intense attraction for a woman’s looks and women can feel an intense attraction for us when we display attractive personality traits and behaviors.
When you accept how easy it is to attract women, you will realize how much power you really have.
2. Having an attractive style of humor
According to a Men’s Health survey of more than 1,000 American women aged between 21 and 54, 77% of women stated that being with a guy who has a sense of humor is more important to them than good looks, money, intelligence and even generosity.
Of course, that doesn’t mean that those women don’t appreciate good looking guys.
Instead, it means that if a guy can make a woman laugh and enjoy interacting with him, she really isn’t going to care so much that he doesn’t have male model looks.
It really is true.
However, be warned: Not all humor is same.
For example: A guy sitting around telling random jokes that he knows is not necessarily going to make a woman feel sexually attracted to him.
She might have a good laugh, but that’s not what is going to turn her on and make her want to have sex with him.
Lots of guys can tell jokes, but having an attractive style of humor is about using the situation you’re in to make a woman feel attracted to you.
Here is an example of how it works…
Imagine a guy is standing at a crowded bar getting a drink, when a beautiful woman pushes in next to him.
A typical guy will say, “Oh, go ahead, you can order first.”
The woman will most-likely smile, say “thank you,” order her drink and go back to her friends, and another perfect opportunity to make a woman feel sexually attracted to him will have gone down the drain.
On the other hand, a guy who is confident and knows how to use humor to make women feel attracted would use this as an opportunity to create attraction.
So, if a beautiful woman pushes in next to him to order a drink, he might approach it this way:
Him: (Smiling and saying in a joking way) You’re pushy, aren’t you? Where’s your manners?
Her: (Most likely blushing) I’m sorry.
Him: That’s okay. You can order first; but it’s going to cost you… I will have 3 tequilas, 4 beers and 8 vodka jellies, thanks.
Her: (Most likely laughing or smiling)
Him: (Smiling) Nah. Only joking, I’ll let you go first because you look cute in that red dress. By the way my name is Dan, what’s your name?
Her: (Smiling and telling him her name)
Why does this type of humor trigger a woman’s feelings of sexual attraction?
Basically, even though initially she might be a bit shocked that he (jokingly) suggested that she was pushy and didn’t have manners, she will then relax, smile and enjoy talking to a guy who is a bit of a challenge compared to every other guy who is a pushover.
Most guys that an attractive woman meets are so impressed by her looks, that they would never say something bold because the fear it might lead to her not liking them as a person.
What these guys don’t realize is that attraction and liking someone as a person are two very different things.
If you want a woman to want you sexually and romantically, the number one thing that you must establish first is attraction.
Only when you’ve sparked a woman’s attraction will she then care about your likeability as a person.
When a guy is bold enough to use a challenging style of humor, a woman naturally feels attracted to him because she gets to experience many attractive personality traits and behaviors all at once (e.g. confidence, social intelligence, masculinity).
You Are Probably More Hung Up About Your Looks Than Women Are
If you’ve been worrying about what women look for in a man physically (because you think you’re not good looking enough to get the women you really want), hopefully you know understand that attracting women is a lot easier than most guys realize.
As long as you focus on making a woman feel sexually attracted in different ways (e.g. being confident, charismatic, masculine, funny) when you interact with her, she will usually let go of her superficial ideas of what she looks for in a man physically, and she will fall in love with the guy (i.e. you) who is making her feel a lot of attraction.
It really is true.
Do you believe it?
If you don’t, then you’ve got a lot of insecurity to look forward to for the rest of your life.
If you do believe, then you’ve got a lot of confidence and greats times with women to look forward to for the rest of your life.