If you ask most people the question, “What makes a guy attractive to women?” almost all of them will list off things like this:
- Social status.
- Big penis.
Yet, although those things can make a guy attractive to women, the fact is that most guys aren’t good looking, very tall, rich or hung like a rhino.
So, how do normal guys (like me) get hot girlfriends?
Watch this video and you will find out…
The real secret to being attractive to women is using your personality (e.g. confidence, charisma, charm, humor, masculinity) to trigger a woman’s feelings of attraction for you.
When a guy displays attractive personality traits, behaviors and inner qualities during a conversation with a woman, she can’t stop herself from feeling attracted to him.
It happens naturally and automatically without her having to do anything, just like your attraction to a woman’s physical appearances happens automatically.
So, What Type of Guys Do Women Like?
If you’re wondering what type of guys women like, the answer is quite simple: Most women like all sorts of guys.
Of course, some women like tall guys and some like guys who are shorter.
Some women like dark guys, and others like blonde guys.
Some women like guys with big muscles, or blue eyes, or long hair, or tattoos, and so on and so forth.
Just as guys like different types of women (e.g. blonde, brunette, with big boobs, petite, sporty), each woman has different tastes and preferences.
However, something that the majority of women agree on, is that they all like guys who can make them feel attracted.
When you can trigger a woman’s feelings of sexual attraction by behaving in the ways that are naturally attractive to women (e.g. confident, charismatic, funny), a woman will usually like you no matter what her preferred type might be.
The Little Secret About Women You Might Not Be Aware Of
Generally speaking, when it comes to feeling attraction for women, most guys know that as long as a woman is attractive, it’s pretty certain they will feel attracted to her and will want to have sex with her.
However, what most guys don’t realize, is that women are attracted to men for many different reasons besides their appearance.
For example: When a guy sees a beautiful woman, he is instantly attracted to her and is willing to have sex with her regardless of her personality.
Most guys aren’t going to think, “I don’t know… Yes she has a great body and the face of an angel, and yes, she has the sexiest legs I’ve ever seen, but I don’t think she’s very intelligent. Oh, and she’s not very funny or interesting to talk to. I just don’t think I can bring myself to have sex with her.”
For most guys, if a beautiful woman is willing to have sex with him, he will easily overlook the fact that she’s not very interesting, intelligent or is really boring during conversation.
On the other hand, most women might initially feel attracted to what a man looks like when she first notices him because she has nothing else to base her opinion on, but, once she is interacting with him, she will base her decision to have sex with him (or be his girlfriend) mainly on how he is making her feel.
If he is triggering her feelings of sexual attraction by being confident, charismatic, funny, masculine, or by displaying any of the other behaviors that women are naturally attracted to, she will want to have sex with him and be with him, even if he is not very good looking.
On the other hand, if he’s nervous, insecure, self-doubting and boring during conversation, even if he is exactly her type in appearance, she will lose interest in him because he is not making her feel the way she wants to feel in his presence.
Being a Woman’s Type Doesn’t Guarantee That She Will Want to Have Sex or Be Your Girlfriend
Asking what type of guys do women like is like saying the winning numbers of a lottery ticket are going to be the same every week.
It’s impossible for a lottery ticket to have the same winning numbers every week, and it is impossible for women to only like one type of guy.
If all women only dated one type of guy, most of the guys in the world would be single and lonely. Yet, that isn’t the case at all.
If you don’t believe this is true, take a look around you the next time you go out to a public place. Notice that there are many different types of guys, many of them with beautiful girlfriends or wives.
Yet, most of them are not typically good looking. Many guys who are average, or below average looking, short, bald, overweight, have big ears or are flawed in other ways, have attractive and even stunning girlfriends.
On the other hand, you will also see really good looking guys who are single and lonely (and not by choice).
The plain, unattractive guys have mastered the skill of attracting beautiful women with their personality (e.g. by being confident, charismatic, interesting to talk to), while the good looking guys who fail with women rely mostly on their good looks to maintain a woman’s attraction, but lack the personality traits that are most attractive to women.
The majority of women are attracted mostly to how a man makes her feel when she’s with him.
If he can make her feel attracted by being confident, charming, making her laugh, she will be open to being with him, and over time, the more he makes her feel attracted with his behavior and personality, the more attractive he will become in her eyes.
Even if he’s perceived as being ugly by other people, to her he will look attractive because of the way he thinks, behaves and acts when he interact with her.
Naturally, this isn’t true for all women. There are women who will only date good looking, rich or successful guys, but the majority of women are open to feeling attracted to all sorts of guys as long as the guy can spark her feelings of sexual attraction for him by behaving in the ways that are naturally attractive to her.
Fortunately, even if a guy doesn’t have these personality traits and behaviors, it’s something he can develop.
2 Reasons Why a Woman Might Say That a Man is Not Her Type
When a guy is not making a woman feel sexually attracted to him, she will often say, “You’re nice, but you’re not my type.”
Where many guys go wrong, is they assume that this means she is saying that they are not good looking enough, rich enough, successful enough or some other similar excuse.
However, when a woman says a guy is not her type, it’s usually because he is making some of the following mistakes…
1. He’s behaving like the perfect gentleman
Growing up, many guys are told by their well-meaning mother, “If you want to find a nice girl you have to be a gentleman. You have to be nice and respectful towards her, buy her flowers, open doors for her, pull out her chair and treat her like a princess. Nice girls don’t like men who don’t have good intentions towards them.”
However, as good as his mother’s intentions might be, in reality this type of advice often leads men down the wrong track with women.
Although there is nothing wrong with being a nice guy and treating a woman in a gentlemanly way, if she’s not feeling sexually attracted to the guy first, she’s not going to care if he’s a gentleman or not.
In fact, even the well-meaning mothers will admit that the reason they first fell in love with their husbands is because, “He was a bit of a bad boy,” or “He was so determined and had so much purpose.”
The reason women are attracted to so-called bad boys is because these guys know how to trigger her feelings of sexual attraction by behaving in ways that are naturally attractive to women (e.g. confident, charismatic, funny, masculine).
You do NOT have to be a bad boy to get women to feel attracted to you. Instead, you simply need to trigger a woman’s feelings of attraction while also being the good guy that you are.
The bottom line is, if you want to be a woman’s type, you have to forget about trying to be liked for being nice and focus instead on sparking her feelings of sexual attraction for you first.
The more attraction you can make her feel for you, the more she will see you as being her type, and the more she will appreciate the fact that you’re also a gentleman and a good guy.
2. He’s pretending to be her friend
If you want to start a sexual relationship with a woman, you have to make her feel attracted to you first.
A common mistake guys make with women they like is pretend they only want to be her friend, even though their desire is to have sex with her and start a relationship with her.
If you pretend to be a woman’s friend she will develop nice, friendly feelings towards you. Then, if you suddenly come out and tell her, “I really like you. Do you want to go on a date with me,” she will more than likely give you the, “I like you too, but only as a friend,” or “You’re like a brother to me. I really care for you but you’re just not my type,” speech.
The fact is: When you interact with a woman you want to have sex with, don’t pretend that you don’t. You might think that if she likes you first as a friend and as a person you stand a better chance of her wanting to have sex with you, but that’s not the case.
A woman will have sex with the guy who is triggering her feelings of sexual attraction and is making her feel the way she wants to feel when she’s interacting with him.
So, if you want to get into a sexual relationship with a woman, focus on making her feel attracted by behaving in the ways that are naturally attractive to women (e.g. confident, charming, masculine, interesting to talk to).
Focus On Making Her Feel Attracted
Instead of wasting time trying to figure out what type of guys women like, you need to focus on making them feel attracted to you.
The more ways you can make a woman feel attracted to you (e.g. by being confident, by making her feel girly and feminine in contrast to your masculine vibe, by making her laugh), the more interested she is going to be in you.
When a woman is attracted to you she will show her interest in you depending on her personality (e.g. some women will play hard to get while others will be easy).
The key is not to give up and think, “I’m just not her type,” if a woman is playing hard to get. She is simply testing you to see if you have the confidence and emotional strength to handle her tests.
Just stay confident, focus on making her feel attracted and then confidently move things forward to kissing, sex and a relationship.