What Type of Men Do Women Like These Days?

The type of man that women like never goes out of style.

He is:

Confident when he talks to her and other people, confident when takes action in life and confident no matter what challenges come his way.
Masculine in how he thinks, feels, talks, behaves, takes action and reacts and responds to her.
Loving and respectful towards her, but also loving and respectful of himself (i.e. he is a good, loving man, but he doesn’t allow himself to be disrespected).
Funny in the way he makes her laugh and feel good around him.

Regardless of what country you live in, how old or young the woman is or what cultural trends are going on in society, women always like those type of men.

It’s Not All About Looks

Have you ever heard a woman say anything like this?

“Oh, that guy over there is sooo my type…he’s so cute” or “He’s really sweet, but he’s just not my type.”

This can be very confusing to a lot of guys, which is why many guys will ask, “What type of men do women like?” and they will assume that it must all be about looks because they usually just women refer to good looking guys as cute, handsome and sexy.

Yet, the real answer to the question of, “What type of men do women like?” is that most women like all types of men who display naturally attractive personality traits and behaviors.

Watch this video and you will understand why…

The one thing the majority of women can’t help themselves from feeling sexually attracted to, is certain personality traits, behaviors and inner qualities in men (e.g. confidence, charisma, a masculine vibe, humor).

Depending on how a guy behaves when he interacts with a woman, he can either make her feel attracted (and he will then be her type), or he can turn her off (and he will then not be her type).

For example: If a guy approaches a woman and displays nervousness, self-doubt and insecurity when interacting with her, she will instinctively feel turned off by him, and she will likely say, “He’s just not my type.”

Saying that he’s not her type is her way of explaining why she’s feeling turned off by him.

It’s not a conscious thing for her (because the guy might even be very good looking), but if he’s nervous and insecure and behaving in other ways that are unattractive to women, she will just write it off as him not being the type of guy she prefers.

On the other hand, if the guy approaching her is relaxed, easy going and confident, can get her laughing and can make her feel feminine and girly in contrast to his masculine vibe, she is naturally going to feel very attracted to him, and she will see him as being her type.

The way that women feel attracted to guys isn’t what most guys believe it to be.

Most guys go through life thinking that they either have to LOOK like a woman’s type or they will have no chance with her.

Yet, that just isn’t true.

Do You Understand How Women Choose Men?

Imagine this…

You walk into a room full of beautiful women.

There are tall women, short women, women with long hair, and women with short hair. There are women with big boobs and women with long legs.

There are blondes, brunettes, redheads and everything in between.

The one thing all of these women have in common is they are all beautiful and they are all willing to have sex with you.

They want to have sex with you right now, but you don’t even know anything about the women other than them looking beautiful.

Would you…

Go ahead and have sex with as many of the beautiful women as you like?
Say, “Oh, no thanks. I can’t have sex right away. I need to know if a woman has a nice personality first. What if she’s not very intelligent or confident? I just can’t have sex with a woman unless I know she’s a nice person first. She has to be intelligent and have a good job too.”

If you picked answer #1, you are like the majority of guys on this planet: A normal, healthy guy who is mostly attracted to the physical appearance of women.

Why?

It’s the nature of men to be attracted to women based on their appearance.

If a woman is beautiful (or even just attractive) a guy isn’t going to resist having sex with her, simply because she might also be a bit boring, not very intelligent, or even not a very nice person.

Most guys just don’t care what a woman thinks, what she cares about, what she does for a living, what her name is, etc.

If she is physically attractive, most guys will want to have sex with her FIRST and then get to know her LATER.

Yet, the same rule doesn’t apply to how women feel attracted to, and choose, men.

An attractive woman knows that she can have sex with the majority of men she interacts with on a daily basis, but she isn’t interested because most of those guys simply don’t know how to spark her feelings of sexual attraction.

Watch this video and you will see what I mean…

Without really understanding what is going on, most men go through life feeling an instant desire and wanting to have sex with random women based on the woman’s appearance alone.

Most of these guys (about 95% based on my experience helping men to succeed with women) also make the mistake of assuming that women must be attracted to men for the same reasons that men are attracted to women.

They assume that women are mostly attracted to a man’s physical appearance (because that’s what men feel mostly attracted to in women), and that everything else is not really that important to her.

Yet, that’s not the case at all.

For a man to be a woman’s type and to make her feel sexually attracted to him, he needs to also have a lot of other things going on for him that have nothing to do with his appearance.

Are You Making Excuses For Your Lack of Success With Women?

When a guy asks, “What type of men do women like?” he will often be secretly making excuses for his lack of success with women.

Watch this video to see what I mean…

For example: A guy might approach a woman he feels attracted to in a bar and ask her if she would like a drink.

However, because he’s not making her feel attracted (e.g. by being confident, charming, charismatic) she loses interest and rejects him.

Rather than realize that it was his behavior (e.g. he was being insecure, self-doubting, too serious) that caused her to reject him, he assumes that it’s because he’s not good looking, rich, or successful enough for her.

He then goes through life assuming that the type of men women like and choose to have sex with and be in relationships with, are the good looking, rich guys with big muscles and fancy cars.

However, that is clearly not accurate.

You can prove it to yourself the next time you are out in a public place.

Just take a look at all the couples around you, and you will see that most of the guys with attractive (and even beautiful) girlfriends and wives are just average looking guys with average jobs.

So what is their secret?

They have discovered that almost all women don’t select guys purely based on looks, money, social status, muscles and penis size.

Yes, some women do select men for superficial reasons, but the majority of women feel attracted to how a guy can make her feel when he interacts with her.

If a guy is triggering her feelings of sexual attraction (e.g. by being confident and charismatic around her, making her feel sexy and desirable in contrast to his masculine vibe, making her laugh and feel excited to be talking to him), a woman will usually feel more than enough attraction for him regardless of his appearance, money or status.

So, if you want to be successful with women, you’ve got to be able to attract her in more important ways that just by the way you look, or the car you drive, or the balance in your bank account.

Just Because a Woman Tests You, it Doesn’t Mean You’re Not Her Type

One of the main reasons why many guys assume they are not a woman’s type, is because when they approach her and try to hook up with her, she either acts cold and aloof, shows interest one minute and then ignores him the next, or tests him in some other way.

When a woman behaves in this way, it is her way of testing to see how the guy will react.

Is he going to be nervous and self-doubting, or will he remain confident and relaxed?
Will he maintain his cool and positive vibe, or will he crumble as soon as he’s faced with a challenging situation?

Why do women test guys?

A woman’s instinct is to find a guy who will be capable of surviving in today’s challenging world.

She needs a guy who will be able to do well in life, protect her and any offspring they might have together, make her feel good, get along with her family and friends, and be able to stand up for himself without crumbling at the first sign of a challenge.

So, rather than hook up with a weak man who will crumble under social pressure, she would rather test him first.

If a guy passes a woman’s tests and remains relaxed, confident and self-assured, she will assume that he is her type, because he is triggering her feelings of sexual attraction via his behavior and personality.

Most Women Like All Types of Men

Worrying about what type of men women like is actually a waste of time.

All you need to focus on is making a woman feel attracted to you by displaying the types of behaviors and personality traits that are naturally attractive to women (e.g. confidence, charisma, masculinity, humor).

Just like any other guy, you won’t be able to pick up every woman in the world (no one can), but you will be able to attract most women and from that, you can select who you want.

When a woman feels the way she wants to feel when she interacts with you (i.e. attracted, emotionally connected), she will rarely to stop herself from having sex with you or becoming your girlfriend just because you’re not tall enough, or have big enough muscles.

When a woman feels attracted to a man and emotionally connected to him, she will see him as her type regardless of what she might have said before she met him.