A blind date is when you go on a first date with a woman you don’t know.
Usually, a friend or coworker arranges for you to meet a women they know who is single and looking to find a guy like you.
It all sounds good in theory, but in most cases the woman you’re set up with isn’t very attractive. Why? If she was, she wouldn’t need to go on a blind date.
About 20% of the time, you will get lucky and be introduced to a beautiful, emotional stable girl, but from all the cases I’ve heard of over the years, 80% of the women arriving to blind dates are unattractive or a bit on the crazy side, which explains why they can’t get a date on their own.
Don’t Agree to Meet Her Before Seeing a Few Recent Photos
In the past, blind dates really were blind. Most people didn’t have cameras and photos weren’t taken as often as they are today.
However, nowadays, each women has plenty of photos of herself, so before agreeing to meet her, make sure you see a few recent photos of her. If you can, make sure you check out photos that show her full body.
Start Off With a Brief Date
If your blind date turns out to be boring, weird or unattractive, pre-planning an entire evening with her will be a mistake. Instead of committing to a long date, have an exit plan by set up a Quickie Date (i.e. a one hour date/meet up).
That way, it won’t be awkward when the hour ends and you say, “Okay cool, well it’s been nice to meet you. I’m going to head off now. Good luck with your stamp collecting project – that sounds interesting.”
You’ve helped out a friend, weren’t rude to your date and only had to hang out with her for an hour or so. On the other hand, if she is beautiful and you are compatible, it will be an acknowledgement from both of you that you like one another if you want to keep the date going as long as possible.
Setting up the Date
Be sure that the person who is setting you up for a blind date, first lets the woman know that you will be calling her to say hi. When you call her, simply introduce yourself and remind her about who suggested that you call her.
Have a chat with her first and get to know her over the phone for at least five minutes before setting up a time and place to meet. Don’t call it a date; just refer to it as you and her catching up to say hi. Keep it casual and relaxed, rather than formal and serious.
Being the man, you should have a few ideas ready about where to meet her. Don’t ask her to take the lead and suggest meet up places for you. It’s usually best to choose a lounge bar or café that will be close to where you both live or work.
Just say something like, “Okay cool…so, you’re working in the city. How about we meet at XYZ bar on XZY Street?”
It’s totally fine to discuss different venues with her and be accommodating, but just make sure that you have location suggestions ready, rather than expecting her to think of everything. Women like to relax into the masculine direction of a man, rather than having to take on the masculine role themselves.
On the Date
The most important things to remember for any date that you go on with a woman are:
Attraction: Just like you want to have sex with women that you are sexually attracted to, a woman wants to feel sexually attracted to you. So, make sure that you make her feel attraction for you by being confident, masculine (in how you think, behave and take action) and by flirting with her.
Relaxation: Always aim to make a first date feel like you’re hanging out, relaxing and having a good time. Don’t ruin the vibe by turning it into a serious interview type date. Just relax and enjoy the time that you’re spending together. If she feels relaxed and comfortable on a date with you, she will be much more interested in seeing you again.
Conversation: Keep the conversation fun, interesting and light. Express your real personality, rather than being overly formal or trying to be perfect.
What to Do if You Don’t Like Her
If you find yourself on a crappy blind date with a woman who just doesn’t interest you, simply tell her the things that you like about her as a person and then tell her that you’re happy to just be friends.
For example: “You seem like a great girl. You’re very pretty, intelligent and interesting. I will be honest though, I don’t think we are a match, but we could be friends. I’d rather be honest with you now, so we neither of us leave this catch up wondering what to do next.”
Even if you don’t think she is a great person or pretty, it’s good manners to at least compliment her. That way, you won’t ruin the relationship you have with your friend or coworker.
If you are asked, “Why don’t you think we’re a compatible match?” you can simply say, “I can just sense it. I’d rather be honest with you now than pretend that I want to start a relationship. You’re a great girl and you deserve an honest response from me.”
Approaching and Picking Up Women That You Choose
Blind dates are great if you are actually set up with beautiful women. However, in most cases the woman won’t be exactly what you’re looking for. If you do happen to start a relationship with her, it might be cool to have sex for a while, but imagine getting her pregnant and then being stuck with her for life.
If you want to live a happy life with a woman of your choosing, I don’t recommend that you leave it to chance. The best approach to success with women is to have the confidence and skills to approach and pick up women that YOU find attractive. When you’re out looking for a woman in a bar or club for example, you have control over which women you approach.
If you want to end up with a beautiful girlfriend or wife (or just have sex with hot women) only approach women that you feel a lot of physical attraction for. Don’t approach ugly or unattractive women because you think they are easy targets because you will end up having sex with some of them.
If you accidently get a woman pregnant and you don’t feel much attraction for her, then you’re stuck with her for life. She is most-likely going to be a huge part of your life from now on.
So, choose women wisely. Don’t accept a woman that you’re not attracted to.
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