Women find facial hair attractive on men who are confident and masculine.
If a nervous, self-doubting guy grows out a beard or a moustache, women aren’t going to be looking at him and saying, “Wow! He’s got facial hair. I want to have sex with him!”
They will feel turned off by his nervousness and self-doubt, which will then prevent them from feeling attractive to his superficial, masculine traits like facial hair or even muscles.
However, if that same guy was able to change and become confident and masculine in his thinking, behavior, attitude and vibe, women would then find his facial hair appealing. This is because a woman’s attraction for a man is mostly based on how he makes her feel when she interacts with him or observes him from a distance.
Women can feel attracted to a man’s physical appearance, but they can also feel turned off by a good looking guy if he doesn’t display the type of personality traits and behaviors that naturally attract women (e.g. confidence, charm, charisma, the ability to make her laugh, etc).
Watch this video to understand how a woman’s attraction for a man really works…
The Deciding Factor
There have been a number of studies in recent years that have concluded women are more attracted to men with stubble than they are to clean shaven men. However, the studies are all flawed and the results pretty meaningless because the women were only shown photos of the men. Had the women actually met those men in person, the results would be completely different.
For example: If a woman looks at a photo of a guy and says that he looks attractive and she likes his facial hair, it is based on her superficial impression of him. She does find him attractive in a photo, but if she meets him in person and notices that he’s actually very shy, nervous and insecure around her, she is going to be turned off by him.
At that point, she isn’t going to care whether or not he has a beard, stubble, moustache or goatee because she will be turned off by his personality and behavior, which is the most important thing to the majority of women.
What most guys don’t realize is that the things that women find most attractive about men cannot be seen with the naked eye. For example: Confidence, charm, charisma, the ability to make her laugh, the ability to make her feel girly in response to his masculinity, etc.
Women Are Much More Flexible About What They Find Attractive
Just because a woman says that she likes guys who have stubble, a beard or messy facial hair, it doesn’t mean that she can’t feel attracted to clean shaven men. In fact, if she meets a guy who is clean shaven and he makes her feel attracted in the more important, fundamental ways then she might actually change her opinion and start liking clean shaven guys.
Men do the same thing too.
You may have heard one of your friends say how much he likes blondes with big tits, but then he falls madly in love with a brunette with little perky tits. A couple of years later, he marries her, has some children and enjoys a happy marriage for life.
If you hear women going around saying, “I like clean shaven men” or “I don’t like beards” it doesn’t mean that they can’t feel attracted to guys who don’t fall into that category.
Usually, it just means that she’s met a guy in the past who made her feel a lot of attraction for many different reasons (e.g. he was charming, confident, charismatic, etc) and she then thinks that she likes guys who have his type of facial hair.
Facial hair is a very superficial thing. You don’t need it to be attractive to women, but it can make you appear more masculine (if you’re a confident guy), which will make you more appealing to a lot of women.
Personally speaking, I always have stubble on my face (I use a particular setting on my shaver that doesn’t shave it off completely) and I’ve had sex with more than 250 women. However, I had sex with about 100 of those women when I was clean shaven.
In other words, it doesn’t really matter. If you like facial hair, then you should grow it out because you want to. Women are attracted to guys who do what they want and love who they are, not guys who are always trying to look their best to hopefully attract women.
The truth is, you are already good enough for most women as you are right now.
If you haven’t been able to attract and have sex with beautiful women lately, it simply means that you’re not saying and doing the types of things that turn women on during interactions. If you change that, women will begin feeling attracted to you regardless of whether you have facial hair or not.