Most people you ask will give you a “Yes” or “No” answer to the question of, “Do women like men with long hair?” but the real answer is that “it depends on the woman’s preferences and whether or not she is attracted to the guy’s personality.”

Watch this video and you will realize that the length of a man’s hair usually isn’t the reason he gets rejected or accepted by a woman….

Some women love men with long hair, some women hate long hair on men and some don’t care either way.

Yet, just because a woman might say she doesn’t like long hair on men, it doesn’t mean that a guy with long hair will never be able to have sex with her, date her or even marry her.


What really matters to a woman is whether or not she is attracted to him.

Some women are extremely picky and will NEVER accept a guy with long hair, but most women have what I call an Open Type, which means that they are open to being with all different types of guys, as long as the guy can make her feel enough attraction for other reasons.

For example: If a guy has long hair and he is confident, charismatic and funny, most women (those who have an Open Type) will be attracted to him and open to being with him. However, if a guy has long hair and is nervous, self-doubting and insecure around women, then most women aren’t going to be attracted to him.

Nervous guy with long hair. Boring date

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Confident guy with short hair. Nervous guy with short hair.
Confident guy with long hair. Nervous guy with long hair.
Confident bald guy. Nervous bald guy.

Get the picture?

Women are attracted to confident men and are turned off by nervous, low self-esteem, self-doubting guys.

Women feeling turned off by insecure guy

If you are shy, nervous or self-doubting around women, it doesn’t matter if you have long, short or medium length hair – they usually aren’t going to be interested in you.


Women are attracted to the emotional strength of men (e.g. confidence, high self-esteem, determination to succeed, etc) and turned off by the weakness (e.g. shyness, insecurity, nervousness, self-doubt, etc).

A confident man can have no hair and be irresistibly attractive to women, but a nervous, self-doubting guy with no hair will be a turn off.

Get it?

“But, I Heard a Woman Say That She Hates Men With Long Hair”

When you ask a woman what she finds attractive in a man, she will say all sorts of superficial things.

For example: Most women will say, “I want a tall, handsome man with lots of money. He should drive a luxury car, work as a doctor or some other high-paying profession, listen to me, buy me lots of expensive things and treat me like a princess.”

Yet, when you look at the boyfriend/husband of most women, you will see he’s just an average or below-average looking guy, with an average job and an average life.

Ugly guy has a baby with a beautiful woman

Black guys with white women

How is this possible?

Everyday couples

Asian guy with white girlfriend

Ugly guy with hot cheerleader girlfriend

Guy with a weird nose with a beautiful girlfriend

Guy with big ears with beautiful girlfriend

White man marrying a black woman. Asian guy marrying a black woman

Fat Asian guy with pretty girlfriend

Asian guy marrying pretty white girl

Fat guy with a skinny girlfriend at the pool

Fat guys with pretty women

Fat men marrying beautiful women

If you look at what women ask for via their online dating profiles, they will usually be requesting a tall man with lots of money.

Yet, that doesn’t mean it will be impossible for her to hook up with a short guy, a guy of average heigh or a guy who has a normal job. It’s just what she is putting out there.

The same applies to men…

If you ask a guy what type of woman he wants, he’ll usually think of model-looking women or sexy women like the women he sees in porn. Yet, he will be just as happy with a pretty, “girl next door” type of woman who works in a normal job.

The point is, you shouldn’t don’t base your confidence on the superficial things that you’ve heard women say.

Women usually say things as a test of your confidence and belief in yourself, rather than saying what they really mean.

If you hear a woman say that she only dates guys with short hair, then it is usually just a veiled test of your confidence.

For example: Will you suddenly lose confidence around her now because she said that she only dates guys with short hair, or are you truly confident in himself no matter what a woman says?

Changing Your Hairstyle Doesn’t Change Who You Are as a Person

Hair trends come and go just like fashion trends pop up and then disappear the next year.

Some guys get sucked into changing their hairstyles to fit in with the latest fashion (in the hope that women will finally like them as a result).

Yet, changing your hair doesn’t change who you are or make women say, “Wow! I don’t care that you’re not very confident and can’t make me feel attracted to your personality. You have an AMAZING hairstyle, so I want to get down on my knees and suck your…”

Of course, your hairstyle and the clothes you wear does create a certain “look” for you, so it is important to consider what message you’re sending out about yourself in the way you dress and style your hair.

If you have long hair, you’re usually going to stand out because it goes against the cultural norm (i.e. men wear their hair short and women wear it longer). As long as you are confident in yourself and believe that women find you attractive, man of them will feel attracted to your confidence and as a result, they will also like your long hair.

Long hair can make you appear:

1. Like a rebel

Depending on how you wear it, long hair can mark you out as a bit of a rebel. It might give you a sexually attractive “rough and ready” manly image, but it could also make you look scruffy and unclean if you don’t style it properly.

2. Unconventional

Many artistic and creative men favor long hair as a way of breaking away from convention and the norm. When a guy is very confident in who is as a person and what he stands for in life, wearing his hair long is a cool statement. However, when a man is shy and lacks social confidence, long hair can make him look like a bit of a loser or social outcast.

3. Intelligent

Long hair on a man is often associated with him being more of an intellectual, studious type of guy than an outdoorsy, hands-on kind of guy. Obviously, there are always exceptions to every rule, but sporty guys who live an active lifestyle are less likely to have long hair simply because it gets in the way.

4. Carefree

Many guys have long hair for no reason other than it suits their lifestyle. They’re not trying to create any kind of image, in fact, they’ve got far too much going on and they’re having way too much fun to worry about their hair.

What is the Best Look to Have For Success With Women?

To be successful at attracting the types of women who are currently compatible with you, I recommend that you “dress for your scene.”

Essentially, this means that if you want to approach women who work as fashion models, then you need to wear fashionable clothes that will be perceived as being “cool” for the scene.

You can still pick up fashionable women without wearing fashionable clothes, but it will make it that little bit harder for you.

Focus on Building Your Confidence, Not on Styling Your Hair in Different Ways

If you lack self-confidence and are shy, nervous and generally awkward around women, then women are not going to be attracted to you regardless of how you style or cut your hair.

Having short, long or medium length hair isn’t going to make much of a difference to the majority of women because hair is such a superficial thing.

A woman’s attraction for a man is based on her survival instincts. In other words, you are either displaying the personality traits and behaviors that mark you out as a man who can easily survive, thrive and prosper in this world…or you’re not.

Having long hair can make you stand out in a crowd, but it’s not your hair that holds a woman’s attention. Instead, what your personality and behavior represents to her is what really counts.

A guy can look as though he’s just stepped off the front cover of a glossy men’s magazine, but if he lacks the personality traits and behaviors that women are instinctively attracted to in men, most women will not be interested in him – regardless of how long or short his hair is.

From now on, I recommend that you focus on improving your ability to attract women with your personality and behavior, rather than wasting time thinking about the length of your hair.

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