Meeting new women is easy when you know how to attract women.
If you try to meet new women and you don’t even know how to attract them, it will usually be a horrible experience full of women playing hard to get, not showing interest back or just plain rejecting you.
However, when you do know how to attract women, they immediately open up to you, want to talk to you and want to be with you.
Watch this video for an introductory lesson on what you really need to do to attract women:
Some Guys Make it Look Easy…Because it Actually is Easy
Have you ever noticed how some guys in a group always seem to know the right things to say and do around women to get attention and have their choice with women?
I’m not talking about the loud mouth guys who show off or put other guys down. I’m talking about the guys who have a relaxed confidence about themselves and are able to create a spark of attraction with pretty much every woman they interact with.
Looking on the from outside, you might assume that the girls like him because he is better looking than you or, if you don’t know him, you might assume that he’s rich and the girls know it. However, in most cases, it’s a lot simpler than that.
The guy is simply creating a spark of attraction when he meets a woman and he is then building on that attraction throughout the interaction. If he is good at making women feel attracted to him, he will easily be able to get a woman feeling intense attraction and wanting to be with him…even if he isn’t good looking or rich.
Right now, the idea of meeting new women might seem scary or frustrating to you. You may have tried it in the past and gotten a bad reaction from women.
However, that doesn’t mean that women don’t like you. There is nothing wrong with YOU. The thing that needs to change is that you need to focus on making women feel attracted and turned on when you interact with them.
That’s the missing piece of the puzzle.
Are You Enough of a Challenge For Women? Do You Make the Process of Meeting You Feel Exciting or Typical?
Here’s the thing…
Most men immediately choose a woman based on how she looks. For example: A guy might look at a woman and automatically think, “Yes, she’s hot, I’d have sex with her and date her” or, “No, she’s fat. Definitely not.”
We men can’t help it that we are “visual” creatures and that we feel intense attraction for a woman based on the way she looks. This is why many guys will have sex and even get into a relationship with a woman even if they doesn’t like her personality, or even if they know the relationship won’t last.
Most guys are simply happy to have sex with the woman and spend some time with her and if it doesn’t work out, it really doesn’t matter because at least they got laid or got loved.
Women know this.
Women know that men are attracted to them for their looks. If a woman happens to be attractive, she knows that all she has to do is put on some make up, do her hair and wear a tight dress and she will be hit on by numerous men.
This is boring for her.
It is typical.
There is no challenge.
She knows that she can easily get hit on and have sex with men, even if she doesn’t have a good personality or can’t impress the guy in any other way than her looks.
So, when a guy comes along and is smart enough to be a bit of a challenge for her, he instantly gets her attention.
This is also why you will see plain, and even ugly or fat guys with beautiful girlfriends or wives. It might not make any sense to you why on Earth the woman would be with that guy, but she actually loves him and feels attracted to him. She is excited to be with him…even if you think he is ugly or doesn’t deserve her.
Let me ask you here…
How do you feel when you see guys who aren’t good looking with beautiful women? Does it annoy you or does is it now starting to make sense to you?
Are you one of the guys who assume that if a beautiful woman is with an “ugly” guy or an overweight guy, then the guy MUST be rich. That is the only way she could be attracted to him, right?
Women can feel attracted to men for so many different reasons. When you look closely, you will see many plain or ugly guys who have little or no money, but are still dating beautiful women. Why? These guys have realized that women are more attracted to a man’s personality than to his looks.
They are attracting her based on how they talk to her and interact with her. They are using their personality and charm to turn her on, not their looks.
How could a woman like a guy who isn’t good looking?
Most women have what I call an “Open Type,” which means that she will be willing to be with all different types of guys, as long as the guy has the personality type (i.e. is confident, masculine, mentally and emotionally strong, has purpose an direction in life, etc.) that can make her feel the way she wants to feel.
3 Tips to Help You Meet New Women
Now that you know that you don’t have to be Mr. Olympia, a male model and Warren Buffett all rolled into one to meet and attract new women, here are a few tips that you can use right now.
1. Go out with the intention of talking to some new women and making them feel attracted to you
This seems a bit obvious, right?
Yet, you would be surprised at how many guys will say they REALLY want to meet new women and then when I ask them, “What did you do this weekend?” I will hear things like…
“I just stayed at home.”
“I’m too busy to meet women.” (Yet, he spends loads of spare time at the gym, watching TV, hanging out with friends, etc).
“I went to a friends house.”
“We had a boys night out…it wasn’t about meeting women, so none of us approached any women.” (Yet, they looked at girls all night and wished they could have sex with many of them).
“I was playing video games all weekend with my buddies.”
I also hear guys complaining that their city or country is a difficult place to meet women. Guys will literally say to me, “I don’t try to meet women in my city because they are all stuck up bitches” or…
“Women in my city play hard to get…it’s impossible to get a girlfriend here because they expect you to be rich or good looking” even though other guys (who know how to attract women and aren’t good looking or rich) are picking those women up, enjoying sex and relationships with them and even marrying them.
So, if you want to meet new women, you have to leave any excuses at the door. You’ve got to be prepared to at least TALK to some new women.
When you do talk to women, you must know how to ATTRACT them. If you try to talk to women and you don’t even focus on attracting them during the interaction, of course they will play hard to get or reject you.
Women want to feel attracted to the way you interact with them (i.e. what you say and do), so if you don’t know how to do that, you can’t expect things to go well. Don’t expect women to be nice to you if you are nice to them. You have to start the interaction by making them feel attracted to you.
If you want to meet new women, you have to make a point of going out with the intention of actually meeting women and this means going to places where women can be found standing or sitting around.
This is not difficult.
Women are everywhere; at the mall, at the park, in bars, clubs and restaurants and many of these women are single and open to meeting a new man.
If you’re too afraid to approach women in those places, at least go to a speed dating event where all the women are single and looking to meet a guy. If you don’t know what to say and do when interacting with the women there, read my ebook The Flow or listen to the section on speed dating in 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend.
2. Display confidence
Women are naturally attracted to the strength in men and turned off by weakness, so confidence is an essential trait that you need to have as a man when picking up women and when in a relationship.
If a guy is confident and self-assured, a woman will naturally feel attracted to him because he is “strong.” On the other hand if a guy is nervous, insecure, and uncomfortable around her, a woman will perceive him as being “weak” and she will find it difficult, if not impossible to feel any real attraction for him.
If a woman perceives you as a weak guy (mentally and emotionally), she will not feel sexually attracted to you unless she is the sort of woman who wants a weak guy that she can control. However, such women usually end up dumping or divorcing those guys when they are ready to move on and hook up with a real man.
If you are nervous and unsure of yourself, a woman might want to be your friend, but when it comes to choosing a guy she would willingly have sex with and date, a woman will chose a guy who makes her feel sexual attraction as a result of his confidence and other personality traits that demonstrate he is a strong guy.
Fortunately, confidence is something that can be developed very quickly. If you want to learn how to have the confidence to approach women, start by watching the free video below:
3. Create an unforgettable connection
In addition to creating a spark of attraction between you and the woman, you also need to know what to say to keep a conversation going and keep it interesting for long enough to create an unforgettable connection.
Not knowing what else to say, some guys resort to asking the woman as many questions as they can, hoping that it will somehow keep things going long enough to create a connection.
Yet, when a guy is asking things like, “What’s your name,” “What do you do for a living,” “Do you have a boyfriend,” it usually just makes the woman feel bored and like she is going through the typical, interview style conversation that most guys use.
A woman wants to feel very attracted to you and to then truly connect with you. To do that, you have to be willing to talk to her in a way that creates an exciting connection. You have to be prepared to take some risks and say things that you’re probably not used to saying around new women that you meet.
Once you know what to say and do when meeting new women, you realize how easy it is to create a distinct, unforgettable connection with women. You also realize that the majority of guys that a woman meets have no idea how to make her feel attracted and truly connect with her.
This is a power that you can have.
You can instantly stand out from the crowd in a woman’s mind. You can be the guy that she is so glad that she has finally met. You can be the guy who doesn’t talk to her in the same old way as every other guy who is hoping to get a chance with her.
You can be the guy who makes HER feel attracted to you, rather than only you feeling attracted to her and then hoping to get a chance with her by being nice, polite and friendly. You can be the guy who turns her on.
It’s Easier Than You Might Think
Meeting new women is something you can do right now.
Don’t hide yourself away and waste your life thinking that you’re not good enough for women.
You are good enough.
You can make women feel attracted to you when you meet them.
If you are unsure about what to say or do when you approach women, don’t worry – these are things you can easily learn and that we teach here at The Modern Man.
If you need some help, why not try one or more of my programs and experience the amazing results that 1,000s of other guys from all over the world have been experiencing?
You can do this.