Above: Behind the scenes for the making of The Ultimate Guide to Conversation – a 10 hour audio program. The above video includes some free techniques for flirting, keeping conversations going and keeping them interesting.

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“Hi Dan.

I have been meaning to send you one of my success stories for some time now.

There is one in particular that has happened recently that I would like to share with you.

I was at a friend’s house party and there was a girl there that I’ve known for some time.

I have been wanting to get with this girl for quite a while, but I never had the foggiest notion on how to approach, what say to her, or have the confidence to (due to my way below average looks, etc).

Anyways, had to leave the party early, unfortunately, but while I was there I merely used some of the teachings from “mastery methods and mindsets and the ultimate guide to conversation”.

After applying some of the simple techniques (being real, not being too nice, avoiding nervousness, etc), the following day I got a text message from an anonymous number, that eventually turned out to be the girl at the party that I’ve been after all this time. She was asking me out!

I couldn’t believe what was happening!

I literally thought that I was dreaming.

The funny part is that I was simply just being myself! The same friendly guy! I honestly believe that it’s paramount that every decent man out there should know about the modern man. I have truly being struggling in my life.

All I needed (which I obviously didn’t know) was a few simple changes and a push in the right direction. I am still taking it one step at a time and these two products alone have opened my eyes in ways I could never have imagined.

I can’t wait to get hold of some of the other products and see what else my life has in store for me. I would like to say a monumental thank you to you guys. You have got me out of this dark, lonely hole that I’ve been hiding away in.

You have completely turned my life around for the better and not just in regard to relationships with women.

Everything from my new job to meeting new people. EVERYTHING! I will never be able to emphasize the impact you have had on my life. So a great big thank you again and I wish only the best for you guys. Sincerely, Jonathan”

“Hey guys,

My first approach since I listened to ultimate guide to conversation. I’m not even halfway through the program and I got results!

I used Stu’s approach of saying two words and pausing to start the conversation. The response was hilarious. Here’s what happened:

I was grabbing a coffee at Starbucks and saw this hot woman sitting in front of me. Her back was facing me so it was awkward positioning but it opened up as I settled for about 5 minutes.

We smiled at each other immediately and she started playing with her hair. She turned around to stretch back and I said “nice shoes”. She said thank you. I said it wasn’t a compliment.

She put her feet out and looked at her shoes with a smile and said they are cute. Now we are off in conversation. We talked about basic stuff what she does for work, exercise etc.

I spoke from my perspective, threw in some flirting and humor and after 15 minutes of talk got her number and left. Texted her last night and arranged a date for tomorrow. Unbelievable how well this works.

The funny thing is when I saw her I immediately started feeling anxious inside because she was so pretty.

It wasn’t until I relaxed and activated confident mindsets that I calmed down and started thinking clearly and waited for my opportunity to begin the conversation.

Thanks for making this program and sharing your knowledge and experience with us guys. It really works! Wes”

“I got Dating Power, Better Than a Bad Boy, Alpha Male Power and your Conversation product after using The Flow to get laid three times in about 6 months.

I wasn’t putting much effort into using The Flow because I am busy with my work but I think getting laid 3 times was good especially when I hadn’t had sex for 2 years prior to that.

Something hit me though about 3 months ago when I saw my friends getting into relationships and I was still just getting laid and not following up to keep the girl.

So I decided to keep learning from you and deepening my knowledge. I watched those 3 programs and listened to the ultimate guide to Conversation and then hit the bars in my city about 1 month ago.

I made a conscious decision to only talk to the very attractive women as you suggest and to my surprise I was able to get them attracted to me.

I was genuinely surprised but I know that your advice does work so it was sort of like another confirmation that I was doing this right.

I got 2 phone numbers and a kiss that night and then had a date the following week with the woman I liked the most. She and I started having casual sex and now we are seeing each other at least twice a week.

I am not yet fully ready for a relationship though I think. Something in me tells me to keep having fun and maybe settle down in about a year or more.

So I have been going out on Friday nights and I have had sex with 2 more women and I have another few who text me and call me looking to set up dates. It feels good to have this power.

I spent most of my life clawing and fighting to just get one woman interested enough to date me and now I have plenty of offers.

I will let you know when I have more success stories to share Dan but that is all for me now! Jake”

“Hey Dan!

At first I was unsure about learning from The Modern Man.

Eventually, after a failed relationship (in which I felt “whipped”) and continuous failure with women, my frustration made me realize that I needed a little help.

I decided to take a leap of faith and learn from the guys at The Modern Man. Now, I can definitely say that learning from you guys was one of the best decisions I have ever made.

The programs you guys provide are extremely detailed yet very easy for men to relate to and understand.

The material is geared towards women, but becoming good with women is only one of the benefits one gains from learning from these guys.

Better Than a Bad Boy, The Ultimate Guide to Conversation, and of course The Flow have improved all areas of my life, including my work, happiness, relationships, and of course my ability with women.

After learning from Dan, Ben and Stu a few months ago I still feel like I am dripping with confidence!

I can now chat and attract any woman I meet and that usually leads to something sexual now which has been a lot of fun.

My occasional depression has been replaced by an excitement for life, and all my social anxiety has disappeared.

People can see my masculinity and confidence, and treat me better.

I used to have seemingly endless problems with women. Now my problems revolve around deciding which women I want to date!

My ex girlfriend loves me more than ever now that she can relax into her feminine mode.

Even though I don’t want an exclusive relationship anymore, she still wants to date and have sex with me. I could write way more about how my life has turned around, but it would get too long!

Thanks Dan, Ben and Stu! From Cameron”

“Just a quick note to you guys as I know you get a lot of emails!

Anyway, I used the tips from your conversation program to FINALLY talk to a woman I’ve liked for about 6 months…I know her through a friend.

I’d always been too shy to talk to her and worried about stuffing up because I didn’t really know what to say and how to ask her out.

Well, I said what you guys recommended to say and it worked!

We went out on a date last night and it ended with a passionate kiss next to her car. The conversation on the date was exciting, interesting, funny and her eyes were basically popping out of her head with excitement. Was so cool!

She texted me this morning saying she had a great time! Unbelievable result! Thanks guys – couldn’t have done it without your guidance. PJ”

“Awesome guys! You’ve really done it this time.

Your other information on approaching women is stellar and has helped me get dates, but I have to admit that I’ve been struggling with keeping conversations going and keeping them interesting – and that has been holding me back from really achieving what I want with women.

The best part of this program is the amount of examples of what to say. I feel like I am ready for battle this weekend for sure! Chad”

“Hey guys, loving the program!

The things that are really standing out for me and are really helpful are: conversation jam session, fixing women’s problems, listening, fears and frustrations, questions to keep conversations going.

You covered all the questions I needed answering about difficult women which is what I was looking for!!!

When Stu said if a woman is giving 20% you gotta give 80% and so on really helped, because I used to feel that if a woman isn’t giving much, it is wrong to continue the conversation because feels forced, but now I know its the right thing to do!

I have to stick with the conversation instead of giving up because women often test a guy by not saying much. Now I know how to handle that. Thank you!

Also when you were talking about Ash and if woman doesn’t like him “well she’s boring, she doesn’t deserve my time and effort, bad luck for her.”

I started to look at women that way too, but hearing it from some one else made me think I’m really on the right track. Go out and have fun, and bring women into your good nite.

If they don’t join in, go find someone else who is up for a good time. That’s the key! Dinesh T”

“Hey guys, just wanted to let you know I’m working through the ultimate guide to conversation, and so far it’s really entertaining and educational, which is great. Shaun”

“It’s an amazing revelation for me that your stuff works so well. 2 weeks ago my super hot hairdresser was asking if I had my own place, flirting with me and arranging to meet out at a club etc.

Before I listened to the Ultimate Guide to Conversation I was so socially/emotionally dumb I would have just thought she was just making conversation and taken everything literally…lol!

But now I know that there’s a whole world of sub communication as you well – VERY COOL to know this stuff! I met my hairdresser out last night and kissed her! Lol…I feel amazing right now!! AB”

“I’ve just recently bought the conversation product. I’m half way through it and it iss brilliant.

I’ve always been good with conversation, been a good listener and able to connect but this has just upped my game so much because I am now getting to understand the attraction side of things.

This has already improved the quality of my conversational ability ten fold … I’ve put some of it into practice and I’m consciously seeing some of the things I was oblivious to, like signs of interest from women. I was missing all the cues from women who liked me. This is a game changer! Michael”

“I got your conversation program 1.5 months ago and got a girlfriend within 2 weeks of using the material (I met this girl at the cafe she works at).

Now, I haven’t had a proper girlfriend for 7 years prior to this, so you can imagine the boring life I’ve been living.

Anyway, I just wanted to write you and say thanks for teaching us guys this stuff, because I am now in a relationship with an amazing, loving and caring woman who is also beautiful.

On the weekend when she was staying over my place, we were lying in bed in the morning and she turned to me and said I love you. Man, I can’t tell you how good that made me feel!

I feel like a new man and I owe a lot of thanks to what I got from your conversation program…it really helped me bring out the more interesting side to my personality.

Most women found me boring when I talked to them, so they would lose interest pretty quickly.

Now people love talking to me and I feel like I’m really being my true self these days…and that makes me feel so good as a person.

I also no longer feel awkward when talking to people I don’t know, or to beautiful women who used to made me feel nervous – now I just speak with confidence and ease, which makes me feel so good as a person.

Women at work are now treating me with more respect now too. I can’t thank you guys enough – keep up the great work! Paul”

“I would also like to congratulate you for the quality of the content of the material. You are really professional and I am glad with my purchase. Fabrico”

“…have only listened to about 2 hours so far and I’m smiling ear to ear. I’ve been wondering how to talk to a girl I like at work and now I have the answers…I’m going to give it a try tomorrow. Wish me luck! PH”

“I’ve almost completely gone through your guide to conversation now.

I must say, at first, I felt a little reluctant to buy your product over the internet because I ‘d never bought something in this way and I also didn’t know what the quality of your product would be.

But now I’m glad I did.

It’s been a lot of fun to listen to, and of course very enlightening. It really exceeded my expectations.

In this way I want to thank Ben, Stu and you for supplying this kind of product.

Now I have some guidance in conversations with women. I still need a lot of practice, I know that, but I’m eager to get out there and go for it. Mark”

“I skipped straight to the part on flirting because it is what I need the most.

When girls talk to me they get the idea that I’m just ‘too nice’ and there’s no spark or anything between us…I’ve tried to flirt before but couldn’t get it to work.

Now I get it, finally. Thanks a bunch for all the flirting examples – I’ll be using this stuff on Friday night at my local bar. It’s going to be fun I know it. Gary”

“Dan I got laid today when I went for my CPR class.

We had lunch during our break then we wound up having sex in the woods next to our campus.

I can’t wait to listen to the rest thank you so much for your help. It was the craziest thing that ever happened to me! Jordan”

“The Ultimate Guide to Conversation is so satisfying that I feel obligated to help you convince other guys to take a leap of faith and buy it.

I suppose I should start with the condition I was in before I bought the product about two and a half weeks ago. I was (and still am) a 17 year old senior in High School.

I know that your first thought will probably be that at this age I am too YOUNG to be worrying about this sort of thing (I notice that a lot of guys who buy your stuff are between 20 to 35), but I have had unusual difficulties, and it is not in my temperament to procrastinate even with things I know are easy.

I avoided girls on purpose until I had my first crush at the age of 15.

It was a terrible shock to suddenly find a girl I had ignored for the previous decade to be indescribably delightful.

After about three months of careful observation and thought, I realized that girls love to talk, and so talking to the girls I liked might be a good way of dealing with my new emotions.

I started by simply announcing to the girls I liked that I liked them, and telling them that I would like to get to know them better if they were willing.

That only worked only partially with one girl who unfortunately lives in Alabama (I live in Kansas).

I was so clueless that I set myself up for rejection on purpose because I felt as though that was a more honest way of going about picking up girls.

After a few failures, I became methodical in the way I got myself rejected so that I could try to isolate certain factors that might have caused the rejection.

At the time I bought the product, I was at the point where rejection was almost guaranteed, but not a horrible ordeal that would make the girl not want to talk to me again.

After several weeks of going through about one girl a week in nearly the same pattern, I had stopped learning new things and had run out of ideas, so was getting ready to ask out the girls I thought were likely in the order I saw them until something happened or I thought of something new.

Luckily I made up my mind to buy the product the day before I was going to do that, and canceled my previous plan because I had a new approach to take.

I listened to two hours of audio the first night I bought it, and was so excited that I stayed awake for 4 hours after first trying to sleep because I kept thinking of new applications of the information I could use.

I managed limited and sporadic use of some of the techniques at school, and by the end of the week I got girls in nearly every hour of class showing signs of romantic attraction.

The results were so fast that I found myself skipping to whichever section in the guide that had most immediate need, and lost a lot of opportunities simply because it hadn’t occurred to me that I could get results so fast.

The Saturday after I bought it there was a winter formal in which I got three consecutive hours to do nothing but try out the techniques. It was great!

I asked for two numbers and got both, and got another I didn’t ask for.

I was so successful that I must have spent half as much energy trying to stay away from the girls I didn’t like without hurting their feelings as I did going after the ones I did like.

I spent two nearly consecutive hours with one girl.

I did initially try to avoid spending too much time with her like was suggested in the audio, but she kept coming back to me, and I liked her, so I didn’t stop it.

I have since been over to that girl’s house twice. The second time we snuggled during a movie and then played a board game. I am happier now than I have ever been.

I have also found that many of the techniques work on males as well for making friends, which means a lot to me because I’ve only ever had 1 or 2 friends at a time…now I have heaps of new friends and am getting invited to parties, which is really cool.

Thanks a lot guys – really enjoying what I’ve been learning from this program. Jack”

“Dan,

Thanks so much. Because of the Ultimate Guide to Conversation I am dating one of the HOTTEST girls from High School that guys, including me used to drool over.

We’re both a little older now (I’m 52 and she’s 53), but she is still SMOKIN! And succesful.

After running into her and her good looking friends at a club this past Friday word got around to each of us that the other was single.

I noticed her checking me out and giving me the “green light” with her eyes and smile.

I approached confidently, started chatting, dancing and when she was leaving I handed her my phone and told her to put her number into it, which she did, just like one of your stories from the program.

While I was still at the bar she sent a text saying our chat time was too short and that she was going to leave the bar even earlier, but is glad she didn’t.

The NEXT morning she sent a text telling me her plans for the day and asked if I had plans that night, which I didn’t.

She asked ME out!

I took her to a romantic restaurant then to a few different clubs.

End of the night after making out for a little while, she had to get home to her teenage kids.

We hadn’t been apart for 5 minutes and my phone rang it was her saying that she missed me already!!!

I’m a good looking guy, but none of this would have been possible before I used your product cause I was lacking confidence and obviously women could sense this.

I also have 2 other women on the back burner that are interested in me.

I have also chosen to purchase the Mastery Methods and Mindsets today because I am on such a roll and want to keep it going.

Thank you, Fred”

“Hey Dan

Thanks for all your help with the new dating advice videos, they have been really insightful.

By the way things have been going great.

In the last six months I’ve met and subsequently dated a whole bunch of girls, met 2 in a shopping mall (one being a promo girl), a model I knew from a couple years back, had a blind date that lasted 3 months before I moved provinces and the newest girls I met are; at a pharmacy and a pizza store.

At the moment I have 4 girls on the go, the model, the pharmacist (will prob have a first date next week), a friend with benefits and the promo girl in Durban (I live in Joburg now).

I must tell you about the promo girl, was on holiday in Durban visiting the family.

While walking through the mall on Sunday I spotted her in a clothing store and just thought … wow, she’s hot … so walked straight over and started a conversation, about 10 minutes later I got her phone number and left the interaction.

I was completely honest about where I live and that I was going back in 3 days time so she knew where I stood.

Phoned her the next day and set up a date for Wednesday morning.

Within 15 / 20 minutes on that date we were kissing quite intimately.

Looking back on it I can see the change.

Before I would have been all in my head about how hot she is and wouldn’t it be great to talk to her and then kicking myself afterward knowing I would never see her again.

It’s not just with girls but the confidence I’ve gained in all area’s of my life have helped me tremendously.

I have a great job as Financial Manager in a private hospital which my new found social intelligence and understanding of women helped me a great deal in getting. Have a busy social life where I have to plan the days I’m at home so I can make sure my place is clean and the washing is always done.

So I just wanted to say thank you very much to you, Ben and Stu.

If it wasn’t for you guys I’d still be clueless, lacking confidence and trying to make any average girl like me. So while I’m not at mastery level yet, I feel like my entire life has changed and that’s all thanks to you guys. Michael”

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