How to Tell if a Woman Likes You
If you don't know how to tell if a woman likes you, many great opportunities with women will slip through your fingers. You'll also end up getting rejected by women who are clearly showing you that they aren't interested.
There are many signs to look for when trying to tell if a woman likes you or not.
How to Tell if a Woman Likes You: 3 Basic Signs
1. Her eye contact: Initial attraction between a man and a woman takes place when their eyes first meet. If she doesn't like you, a woman will usually avoid eye contact or won’t hold it when it happens.
If she holds eye contact with you for a few seconds and smiles in a shy, loving way or keeps trying to catch your eye contact, then she is definitely interested in you in a sexual way. You have to believe her when she tries to show her interest in you this way because most women will never directly say, "Hey, I like you - let's hook up." Instead, they will hint at it and wait to see if you have the confidence to move in for a kiss or organize a date.
2. Her body language: If you don’t know how to tell if a woman likes you, take a close look at her body language. Body language lets you know if you are getting a 'red light' or 'green light' from a woman. If she is crossing her legs, sitting with her breasts pointed towards you, touching and rubbing against you now and then, playing with her hair, showing more skin than usual, trying to draw attention to her lips, keeping her eyes focused on you and ignoring what else is happening around her, these are definite signs that she likes you.
3. Her style of conversation: If want to know how to tell if a woman likes you or not, pay attention to her style of conversation. If she seems absorbed in your conversation, asks you plenty of questions, laughs and jokes with you, then she is definitely interested in knowing you better. However, if her eyes are wandering around the room, focusing on others and putting you in the position where you have to try hard to get a response from her, then she probably isn’t interested.
These are great beginner techniques to begin your understanding of how to tell if a woman likes you. Next, you have to make sure you don't ruin her feelings for you, as explained in the next section.
Don't Get Desperate if She Doesn't Make it Obvious That She Wants to Have a Sexual Relationship With You
No matter how much she likes you initially, her feelings can change very quickly if you don't play your cards right. A lot of guys ruin a woman's feelings by behaving too keen or desperate to get somewhere with her. This only makes her play hard to get, so make sure you don't get carried away. While learning how to tell if a woman likes you, I recommend that you also learn how to make a woman like you so much that she tries to pick you up. This approach is much easier because it is then you who has the power and you can make her work harder to win your attention and affection. Have you ever noticed that the guys who try too hard to get women to like them often end up being rejected or being placed in the dreaded "friend zone"? Have you also noticed that the guys who are great with women look like they don't even care if they get the girl or not?
A lot of guys start to worry if they don't see obvious signs of interest from a woman. However, you need to relax and understand that there is a more complex game at play. For example: If you notice that she isn't using her body language to show a lot interest in you, it doesn’t mean that she doesn’t like you. She might be using more subtle body language to show her interest, because she is a shy-type.
How to Tell if a Woman Likes You: Advanced Techniques
Now that you know the basics of how to tell if a woman likes you, what should you do next? Chances are, you still need to know how to show your interest back to her effectively, as well as how to move in for a kiss without getting rejected or ruining your existing relationship. Flirting, getting her to laugh, listening to what she has to say and occasionally touching her during a conversation are great ways to show your interest in her.
First impressions are great, but to be successful you need to understand how to maintain a woman's interest and attraction long enough for something to happen. I'd like to teach you all of the steps right now. If you want to learn more, sign up here for free and I will e-mail you a link to a secret, free video series I've created to help you secure a relationship with this woman you like so much.
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By Dan Bacon, Founder of The Modern Man. Dan Bacon on Google+ (Personal photos with women)