"How to Tell if a Woman Likes You"

Read a woman’s signals of interest, avoid rejection and get what you want, every time...
Knowing how to tell if a woman likes you means that you can avoid rejection and get to what you really want: Dates, sex and maybe even a relationship.

There's a big list of signs to look for when trying to tell if a woman likes you or not. Let's look at some of the top signs to begin with:
  • The first sign: Initial attraction between a man and a woman takes place when their eyes meet. If she doesn't like you, she will usually avoid eye contact or won’t hold it when it happens. If she focuses on your eyes for a few seconds, or keeps trying to catch your eye contact, then she is definitely, without a doubt, telegraphing her desire for you.

  • What she says without words: If you don’t know how to tell if a woman likes you, look at her body language. Body language lets you know if you are getting a 'red light' or 'green light' from a woman.

    If she is crossing her legs, sitting with her breasts pointed towards you, touching and rubbing against you now and then, playing with her hair, showing more skin than usual, trying to draw attention to her lips, keeping her eyes focused on you and ignoring what else is happening around her, these are definite signs that she likes you.

  • Communication: When it comes to talking to a woman, the signs are easy to spot for men wondering ‘how to tell if a woman likes you’. If she seems absorbed in your conversation, asks plenty of questions, laughs and jokes with you, then she is definitely interested in knowing you better.

    If her eyes are wandering around the room, focusing on others and putting you in the position where you have to try hard to get a response from her, then she probably isn’t interested.
These are great techniques to understand how to tell if a woman likes you. Once you know that she likes you, make sure you don’t show obvious signs of being very excited about it. Desperation is the #1 turn off for women. No matter how much the woman likes you initially, desperation is a surefire way to kill her interest.

By the way...if you notice that she isn't immediately using her body language to showcase her interest in you, it doesn’t mean that she doesn’t like you. She may be using more subtle body language, which may be more suited to her natural personality.

Now that you know to tell if a woman likes you, what do you do next? Chances are, you still need to know how to show your interest back to her. Flirting, getting her to laugh, listening to what she has to say and occasionally touching her on the arm or leg, will show your interest in her.

These are just a few examples though. If you’re like most men, you still need help to understand how to build on that attraction and move it to kissing and sex, while avoiding rejection. First impressions are great, but to hold and build on a woman’s interest, you have to know more than a few signs of her attraction.

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