The reason why most women hate it when a guy plays video games is that rising through the levels of a game usually doesn’t achieve anything in real life.
Women are instinctively attracted to guys who have the confidence and determination to rise through the levels of life and reach for their true potential as a man. If a woman finds herself with a guy who hides from his true potential behind digital games, she will instinctively lose attraction for him.
4 Reasons Why Women Hate it When a Guy Spends Too Much Time Playing Games
There’s nothing wrong with playing computer games, but if you spend too much time on it and not enough time following through on your biggest ambitions in this reality, a woman will quickly begin to lose respect for you.
1. Women know that playing games usually doesn’t achieve anything in the real world
With the exception of professional gamers who get paid to play or game developers, pretty much every other guy won’t achieve anything tangible in the real world by spending a lot of time playing games.
Instead, he will spend most of his time being distracted by a game that won’t provide anything for himself and his woman. It will be fun for him, but it won’t do anything positive for her or their relationship.
A woman wants to be with a man who is striving to make their survival easier and more comfortable. As such, women are not instinctively attracted to men who hide from achieving that behind their liking for (or addiction to) video games.
A woman doesn’t expect you to fully achieve all of your goals and ambitions tomorrow, but she wants to know that you have a plan, are making progress and believe that you will eventually get there.
If most of your spare time is spent on achieving things in a pretend world, a woman will feel turned off by your lack of care about your life with her in the real world.
2. It makes her feel neglected
In the past, a woman would stick with a man for life even if she was unhappy.
He could neglect her, treat her badly and take her for granted and she would have to stick by him because it was shameful to get divorced. In most cases, women were completely dependant on men, so they really didn’t have any other option but to stick around and put up with it.
These days, women earn their own money and have the freedom to have sex with whoever they want and break up a relationship or marriage if they feel like it. Heck, they don’t even have to get married if they don’t want to.
When a woman finds herself in a relationship with a man who is neglecting her and giving most of his spare time to gaming, she will naturally begin to wonder why she is still with him.
3. She doesn’t share your feelings of excitement or sense of achievement
The person playing the game is experiencing all sort of exciting emotions and will feel a sense of achievement and pride when they finish the level. So, if a woman isn’t playing the game and is simply near her boyfriend while he is playing, she is almost certainly not going to share his feelings of excitement or achievement.
A woman wants to feel included, desired and be the centre of attraction at times (not always). If she is regularly excluded because of a video game and doesn’t feel what you feel about the fame, she will begin to feel disconnected from you.
A woman wants to feel love, respect and attraction for her man and she wants that love to fill up her life. She doesn’t want to be plunged into feeling empty and unfulfilled by her relationship as she sits by and waits for her man to pay attention to the real world.
4. It doesn’t build on her attraction for you
The most important types of attraction that a woman wants to feel with you are based on what you say and do when you interact with her. In other words, does she feel attracted and turned on by you when she interacts with you, or does she feel annoyed or bored?
Watch this video to understand how a woman’s attraction for a man works and how you can use it to your advantage…
These days, a guy has to build on a woman’s love, respect and attraction for him over time. He can’t just take a woman for granted and expect that she will stick around because things felt good at the start.
You can only invest a lot of time into video games if you are also making her feel the type of love, respect and attraction that she yearns to experience in a relationship. If you don’t provide her with that, she will naturally begin to think about getting it from another guy.
How to Make Her Accept Your Gaming Desires
If you want your girlfriend (fiance or wife) to accept the fact that you love gaming, what you need to do is show her that you’re achieving things in this world and you are also paying attention to her.
For example: You are making progress in your career or studies and you also regularly set aside time to talk to her, listen to her, hang out with her and build up the sexual tension between you.
As long as a woman sees that you’re making progress and feels like you appreciate her, she will put up with your need to game. However, as soon as you get out of balance and put too much time into gaming, most women will feel annoyed and start complaining.
It might suck, but that’s life in the modern world. Gaming is a new thing, but a woman’s instincts are ancient.