Women 'Scan' Your Conversation For Clues

When you speak to a woman, she will scan your conversation for clues to determine what you are REALLY like as a person. As she listens to what you are saying (and not saying), she will ask herself questions like:

• Is he on my level?
• Would he be cool enough to hang out with me and my friends?
• What would the sex be like?
• Would he behave like a man or like a boy in the bedroom?
• Am I actually attracted to him?
• Would he fit into my life?
• Would I fit into his life?
• Does he understand me?
• Does he understand women?
• Is he a man or a boy?
• How much of a man is he compared to other guys I know?
• Do people like him?
• Is he a loser?
• Do other guys approve of him, or is looked down upon?
• What do other women think of him?
• Is he trying to impress me?
• Does he think that he's not good enough for me?
• Does he usually attract women of my caliber?
• Does he fit in to the world and with the people around him, or is he an awkward outsider?
• Would I want to talk to him again?
• What would a relationship be like with him?

...and so on.

As Ben says in The Ultimate Guide to Conversation, “The first 3 minutes of conversation with a woman are like a movie trailer...”

During the first 3 minutes, a woman will scan your conversation for clues to find out what life with you would be like. Would it be boring, fun, exciting, interesting, passionate, loving, weird, awkward, average, dangerous, depressing? Would it be an amazing blockbuster movie, or a box-office flop?

This is a GOOD thing. It's actually a secret benefit to you as a man that women do this. Why? Women are very predictable in terms of what they will respond to and feel attraction for when talking to a guy. Once you ‘get it’ and understand how to communicate with women, you’ll find it easy to talk your way into sex and loving relationships with women anytime, anyplace, anywhere.

Most women are attracted to men who are confident, passionate, masculine, funny and who know what they want out of life. When you communicate those traits (and more) during conversation you will AUTOMATICALLY attract women. It won't take any effort on your part to get the woman interested. She will naturally like you and want to keep talking to you.

I could go on now and list off a bunch of great things for you to say to women that demonstrate the qualities I mentioned above, but doing that won’t completely fix your problems. It’s like the old saying, “Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime...”

There are 100s of subtle things that you need to know, if you want to be able to AUTOMATICALLY attract women during conversation. When you use the techniques we teach in The Ultimate Guide to Conversation, it will seem like you have discovered a hidden ‘magical’ power to attract women and make them fall in love with you almost instantly.

Unlike the conversations she's had with other guys, the conversation between you and her will be exactly what she’s been looking for all along. It will be more exciting, fulfilling and meaningful and this will make her want you over all the other guys available. She won't be able to get you out of her mind.