The secret of how to be sexually attractive to women is to display the personality traits that women are naturally attracted to.

For example: A guy who is confident, charismatic, charming, funny and has a masculine vibe will make a woman feel attracted to him based on those five traits.

However, a guy who is nervous, suppresses his natural charisma because he’s afraid to be himself, lacks charm, is afraid to use risky humor and has a neutral vibe will make a woman feel turned off by him based on those five traits.

Watch this video to understand how a woman’s attraction for a man works and how you can use it to be sexually attractive to women…

As you will discover from the video above, you can attract women in more than 100 different ways.

To be sexually attractive to women, you don’t have to trigger all of the 100 different attraction triggers that she has, but if you trigger more than 5, you will be sexually attractive to a lot of women.

Your Masculinity is a Huge Turn On For Women

How to be a sexually attractive guy

When a woman interacts with a confident guy who thinks, behaves and takes action in a masculine way, she can’t stop herself from feeling sexually turned ON by him.

However, when a woman interacts with a guy who is nervous and thinks, behaves and takes action in a hesitant, shy, self-doubting or feminine way, she can’t stop herself from being sexually turned OFF by him.

This doesn’t mean that you can pick up every woman by being confident and masculine, because not all women are single. However, it does mean that you can spark feelings of attraction in pretty much every woman you meet by being confident and masculine.

What is an example of being masculine?

A guy who has big ambitions in life and is following through on them with unrelenting confidence, drive and belief in himself is masculine.

In contrast, a guy who is afraid of rising up and reaching for his true potential as a man, lacks mental and emotional masculinity. In other words, he lacks the balls to push through challenging situations and overcome obstacles on the way to success.

Women Are Attracted to the Strength in Men and Turned Off By the Weakness

The reason why women feel sexually attraction for confident guys and feel turned off by wimpy guys, is that women are naturally attracted to the strength in men.

This preference for tough men has allowed the human race to become stronger over the generations. Sexual attraction is triggered when we detect certain things in the other person that would be beneficial to our life in general, our happiness, our survival and the survival of any offspring we may have.

A man’s weakness is not beneficial to a woman’s survival and doesn’t make her feel protected and safe.

When we men see a physically beautiful woman, our attraction instincts are automatically turned on because it would be beneficial to breed with her (e.g. better looking children, favorable treatment from others, more enjoyable sex, a feeling of pride for having a beautiful woman, etc).

On the other hand, when we see a physically unattractive woman, our attraction instincts remain off because there is no benefit to breeding with a woman like that.

For a woman’s attraction to a man, it’s not about looks. Why? A man’s physical appearance is NOT the most beneficial thing to her survival.

For most of human history and still to this day, a man’s level of confidence, masculinity and social intelligence directly impacts his ability to survive, prosper and to protect himself, her and any offspring they may have.

A good-looking guy doesn’t mean that she will be protected or that he will be able to succeed in the world. It will just mean that he is good looking.

So, when it comes to your sexual attractiveness and the all-important topic of how to be sexually attractive to women, FORGET what the TV and magazine advertisements are telling you. It’s NOT about cologne, suits, haircuts, muscles, cars, money or penis size; it is about confidence, masculinity (how you think, behave and take action) and social intelligence.

An Alpha Male vs. a Lower Ranking Male

The human being is a special creature and clearly the most intelligent being on the planet (in terms of how we judge intelligence anyway).

That said, we do share a lot in common with animals when it comes to selecting a mate and breeding.

We may have a “dating scene” and be able to sleep with many women before deciding to breed, but if you take a closer look at our behaviors and attraction mechanisms, you will see that we’re not very different to animals when it comes to selecting a woman to breed with.

For example, a female lion will select the most physically strong lion that dominates the other males.

To her, he represents her best chance of survival in a world where animals attack and kill each other to rule a territory.

However, a human female does not need a man to go around beating up, biting or killing other men to show her that he can take care of her, himself and any offspring they may have. Instead, she needs to see that he is mentally and emotionally strong enough to handle the challenges of our complex human society.

Sexually Unattractive Behavior

Sexually unattractive behavior

Every guy has the potential to be sexually attractive to women.

However, if he displays the following behaviors and traits, women will naturally feel turned off by him…

A lack confidence and self-esteem

A guy who lacks confidence and has low self-esteem will automatically come across as insecure and nervous in his interactions with women.

His low self-esteem will cause him to doubt himself and the woman will instinctively pick up on it. She will sense that he doesn’t feel as though he is good enough to be with her and she will reject him because of it.

Why? Women don’t want to feel as though they are doing you a favor by being with you; they want to feel lucky to be with you.

2. Being too nice

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being nice to women. In fact, I recommend that you be a good guy if you want to experience lifelong success with women and in life in general.

Women DO like men who are nice, but they don’t a nice guy who is shy, nervous and anxious. They want a good guy who is confident, masculine and socially intelligent (i.e. a cool guy) in addition to being nice because that is attractive.

Watch this video to understand why nice guys usually get rejected by women and what you can do to succeed with women, while still being a good guy…

As you will discover from the video above, there is nothing wrong with being nice to a woman, but you ALSO have to make her feel sexually attracted to you.

When a guy is just nice to a woman, it doesn’t trigger her feelings of sexual attraction and therefore, there is no reason for her to want anything more than a polite conversation or friendship.

3. Being mentally or emotionally weaker than the woman

Women play all manner of mental games to test if a guy is an alpha male.

For example: She may snub him, act offended or act uninterested, interested and turned off all in the same day just to see how he will react.

A guy who cannot weather these “tests” with strength and confidence will reveal himself to be emotionally and mentally weaker than her. Since most women dream of being with a guy who is mentally and emotionally stronger than they are, a guy like this will get rejected almost every time.

4. Being neutral or feminine

A woman can only feel like a real woman (i.e. feminine, girly, free to be emotional) if the guy thinks, behaves and feels like a masculine man.

If a guy cries at the movies or gets overly emotional if his car gets scratched, then he’s not behaving like a real man. 

A man who is more in touch with his feminine side than a woman is definitely not going to inspire any lasting sexual attraction in her. Although some women will put up with it for a while (before breaking up with the guy or cheating on him), they do not want to feel as though they are the dominant, masculine one in the relationship.

5. Being too afraid to flirt or show sexual interest in a woman

Flirting is essential for interacting with a woman all the way from the first conversation through to a lifetime relationship.

If a guy does not know how to flirt appropriately with a woman he will struggle to create sexual chemistry between himself and a woman during a conversation. He may get lucky one day and meet a woman with whom the sexual chemistry happens automatically, but it will fade away when the initial lust of the relationship wears off.

6. Being too polite and reserved when talking to women

Great conversation skills are a sign of social intelligence and that is a quality that modern women definitely look for in guys.

When a guy approaches a woman, bores her to tears with polite conversation or asks her a series of questions that make her feel as though she’s being interrogated, he’s not going to be getting laid anytime soon.

A guy like that will be wondering how to be sexually attractive to women and since he doesn’t know what you are now learning, he’ll likely get sucked into thinking that it’s all about looks, money, height and muscles.

7. Placing women above him in terms of dominance

Women want to be with a man who feels like “the man” around her. Although women may behave as though they want to boss men around when you see them on TV shows, music videos, etc – that is not what women really think or want.

Women behave that way around guys to test how confident and alpha the guy really is. If a woman can dominate a guy during a simple conversation or interaction, how is she going to feel dominated in the bedroom?

Women don’t go around admitting that they want to feel submissive around a guy, but if you pay attention, you will see that it is the men who make women feel girly (and submissive) around them who are the ones that women chase and lust after. It’s not the super nice, polite, fearful guys who feel intimidated by women.

Be Sexually Attractive to Women Right Now

If you sincerely want to know how to be sexually attractive to women, then stop wasting money on colognes, cars, body building supplements, expensive clothes and shoes, creams and lotions.

Take some time to improve your ability to attract women with your confident, masculinity and personality. When you do that, it won’t matter if you are bald, overweight or wearing non-designer clothes, women WILL feel sexually attracted to you.

Don’t believe it is possible for to easily attract women?

Watch this video and you will see that it doesn’t matter what excuse a guy makes up for his lack of success with women, it always comes down to one, simple thing…

Attraction is an automatic reaction that humans (and animals) experience and if you’re not making women feel attraction to you now, then you are doing it wrong – it’s as simple as that.

Learning how to set off a woman’s feelings of sexual attraction is a quick and simple process. Once you know it, you’re set for life and can get on with enjoying sex, love and relationships with beautiful women.

Are you willing to give this a try?

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