A girl will automatically like you when you trigger her feelings of sexual attraction for you.
A lot of guys make the mistake of trying to get a girl to like them as a friend, but he really wants to have sex with her and have her as his girlfriend.
So, if you want this girl to have sexual, romantic feelings for you, the first thing you need to do is make her feel attracted and aroused when you interact with her.
Watch this video to understand how it works…
When you make a girl feel attracted and aroused by the way you are interacting with her, she will automatically like you and be interested in being more than just a friend to you.
To make her feel attracted, you simply need to display some of the personality traits, behaviors and inner qualities that girls find attractive in guys.
You don’t have to be perfect. You just have to display some of the attractive traits and then believe in yourself enough to make a move.
What are some examples of attractive traits? You can:
- Be confident around her and other people.
- Be charismatic by allowing your true personality to come through, rather than putting on an act (e.g. acting nicer than you really are).
- Make her feel girly and feminine in contrast to your masculine vibe.
- Make her laugh and giggle when she talks to you.
- Use flirting to add a sexual vibe to your conversations and interactions.
When you display attractive traits such as those, you don’t have to try hard to “make” a girl like you because it will happen naturally based on her attraction for you.
Many guys don’t know how to attract girls, so they waste time trying to convince a girl to like them.
Watch this video to understand where guys go wrong and what you should do instead if you want this girl to like you in a sexual, romantic way…
You can immediately create a spark between you and a girl simply by triggering her feelings of attraction for you.
Understanding How a Girl’s Attraction For a Guy Really Works
Many guys are confused about what to do to make a girl like them, because they assume that girls feel attracted to guys for the same reasons that guys feel attracted to girls.
In other words, guys think that it’s all about looks.
While it is true that a girl can feel attracted to a guy’s looks, the majority of girls feel much more attraction to other things about guys (e.g. confidence, charisma, emotional masculinity, charm, humor, etc).
Yet, for most guys, the attraction they feel for girls is INSTANT and it doesn’t even matter if the girl isn’t very intelligent, interesting or even a very nice person.
Most guys will still be willing to have sex with her (and possibly even date her) solely based on how she looks.
For this reason, a lot of guys make the assumption that most girls make a decision about who to have sex with and be in a relationship with based on physical appearance.
Yet, for most women (not all), a man’s personality traits (e.g. his confidence, charm, masculinity, sense of humor) carry much more weight than looks when she is deciding if she wants to have sex with him or date him.
For example: A guy might really like a girl and really want to hook up with her, but since he comes across in a nervous, insecure and self-doubting way when he interacts with her, she rejects him because she feels turned off by his insecurities.
Rather than realize that it is his lack of confidence that is turning her off, he will usually just assume that he is being rejected because he isn’t good looking enough, rich enough or tall enough.
Looks Are Only Important to Some Girls
Some girls place a lot of importance on how a guy looks, but the majority of girls are much more open and flexible when it comes to what they will accept about a guy’s appearance.
This is why you will always see so many ordinary, plain and even ugly guys with a beautiful girlfriend or wife.
How did they get their girl to like them?
Simple: He made her feel attracted to him for reasons other than his looks (e.g. confidence, humor, charisma, charm, masculine vibe, etc).
Here’s the really interesting thing though…
If a guy isn’t very good looking and even has some negative features (e.g. a big nose, eyes too close together, too short, chubby, skinny), these odd features will actually become attractive and appealing to a girl when she is feeling a lot of attraction for him.
Rather than look at his flaw as a bad thing, she begins to see it as a cute thing that only her guy has.
She will say, “I like that he’s chubby…it makes him cuddly” or “I don’t care that he is short, because he is confident and he makes me feel proud to be with him.”
So if you’re wondering what to do to make a girl like you because you think you’re not good looking enough for her; think again.
Rather than focusing on making a girl like you as a person, just focus on making her feel sexually attracted to you instead.
If a girl has been rejecting you or giving you the cold shoulder, you will immediately begin to see that her attitude towards changes without her even realizing that she doing it.
All of a sudden, you will seem attractive and appealing in her eyes and she will wonder how she could have ignored you all this time.
4 Mistakes to Avoid Making If You Want a Girl to Like You
A big part of getting a girl to like you is to know what to avoid doing that might turn her off.
Here are some classic mistakes to avoid…
1. Don’t pretend to be her friend if you want to be her boyfriend
A common mistake that guys make is to assume that the only way they can get the girl they like is to be nice and friendly to her.
A guy like this hopes that by being a good friend to her, listening to all her problems, gossiping with her on the phone or via text and generally being there at her every beck and call, she will one day realize that she likes him and wants to be his girlfriend.
Yet, what he usually doesn’t realize is this: A girl liking a guy as a friend is not the same as her feeling sexually attracted to him and wanting to be his girlfriend.
If you want to get a girl to like you in a sexual and romantic way, you have to focus on sparking her feelings of sexual attraction rather than her feelings of friendship.
For example: Make her feel girly and feminine in comparison to your masculinity (i.e. how you think, feel, behave, talk, move) when you interact with her.
If you don’t trigger her feelings of sexual attraction, she might like you as a friend and enjoy hanging around you, but she’s not going to want anything more than that.
When another guy comes along who can spark her feelings of sexual attraction, she will be going out on dates and having sex with him, while she calls you on the phone to tell you all about it because you’re such a good friend to her and she can always count on you to gossip and discuss love and relationships with her.
She could have actually been your girlfriend, but you were too busy pretending to just want to be her friend.
If you want a girl to like you in a sexual way, you must focus on triggering her feelings of sexual attraction. Only when you have done that should you then focus on showing her how good of a guy you are.
If you make the classic mistake of trying to show her how nice of a guy you are by being a friend to her, a girl will almost always only have friendly feelings for you and won’t be interested in anything sexual.
3. Don’t put her on a pedestal
Sometimes, a guy will feel as though the girl he likes is simply too good for him.
Although he secretly wishes that he knew what to do to make her like him, deep down he actually doesn’t believe that he’s worthy of her, so he puts her on a pedestal and worships her from afar.
For a girl to feel attracted to a guy, she has to be able to feel respect for him as a man by being able to look up to him as someone who is more confident and emotionally strong than she is.
So, when a guy puts a girl above himself in terms of value, she loses respect for him and then finds it nearly impossible to feel enough attraction for him to give him a chance to be with her.
A girl wants to feel feminine and soft in contrast to a man’s emotional toughness and masculine vibe.
She doesn’t want to feel as though she needs to be gentle with a guy because he lacks belief in himself and is emotionally sensitive like a girl.
To get a girl to like you and respect you as a guy, you have to believe that you are good enough for you.
When you truly believe that, she will notice it and feel attracted to you because of it.
She will then feel lucky to be getting a chance with a sexy guy like you who is 100% confidence in himself around girls.
3. Don’t tell her that you like her before she is fully attracted to you
If a guy hasn’t said or done anything to make a girl feel sexually attracted to him and he then tells that he likes her, she’s not going to feel very excited to hear it.
She’s going to be thinking, “That’s sweet, but I’m not interested in him in that way,” or “He’s nice, but he’s really not my type.”
If you want a girl to feel excited about the fact that you like her, you have to make sure that you make her feel a lot of attraction for you first.
It’s easy for you to feel attracted to her because a guy’s attraction for a girl is mostly about how she looks.
He then starts to focus on other positive qualities about her and says that she is special, unique and maybe even “the one.”
However, a guy’s attraction for a girl is instant based on her looks.
Almost all guys will feel more than enough attraction for a girl’s looks to instantly decide, “Yes” or “No” to the idea of having sex with her.
Yet, girls don’t work the same way.
Girls need to be warmed up to the idea of having sex with a guy by interacting with him and assessing whether or not he has the attractive traits that girls look for in a guy (e.g. confidence, emotional masculinity, charisma, charm, etc).
When you spark a girl’s sexual feelings for you (not just her friendly feelings) she will be happy to hear that you like her because she’ll be feeling the same way about you.
4. Don’t lose hope when she tests you
Girls like to test a guy’s confidence.
Testing is a girl’s way of separating the real men from the insecure boys, so to speak.
So, here’s what you need to do…
Assume (without a doubt) that the girl you like is going to test you, so you don’t lose your cool when it happens.
For example: If a guy approaches a girl that he likes, and she might give him a cold look and act aloof and unfriendly.
This is her instinctive, natural way of trying to find herself a confident guy, rather than giving an insecure guy a chance with her.
Another example is where a girl will smile and be friendly towards a guy during the first couple of minutes of conversation, but will then change her approach and start to tease him or pick on him to see how he reacts.
A guy who understands girls will realize that she is testing him, so she will remain confident and relaxed, rather than feel like he is losing his chance with her.
On the other hand, an insecure guy will take her change in behavior as a sign that she really doesn’t like him. He will go away with his tail between his legs feeling rejection and left out.
All Girls Test Guys
Even when a girl is happy in her relationship with a guy, she will still test his confidence to see if he is growing as a man or has become insecure since being with her.
So, don’t be afraid of when a girl tests you.
In fact, you should use it as an opportunity to make her feel deeper attraction for you by remaining confident regardless of what she throws at you.
Experiencing a man’s confidence is irresistibly attractive to a girl. They simply can’t get enough of it and will continue testing you for life to experience it.
If You Like This Girl, Start Making Her Feel Attracted to You
Getting a girl to like you is a lot easier than most guys realize.
When you trigger a girl’s feelings of sexual attraction for you by displaying some of the personality traits and behaviors that are naturally attractive to women (e.g. confidence, charisma, emotional masculinity, humor) you won’t have to worry about coming up with ways to make a girl like you.
She will instinctively like you and feel drawn to you because you are making her feel sexually attracted and aroused.