If you want to get women to like you, the one and only thing that you need to focus on from now on is sexual attraction.
When you interact with a woman, you simply need to arouse her sexual desire and she will automatically like you.
Women don’t care how intelligent you are, how good of a guy you are or if you have good intentions before you make them feel sexually attracted to you.
So, don’t waste time trying to get women to “like” you as a person when you can cut through all the “getting to know her” or “building a friendship” stuff by getting straight to the point with sexual attraction.
How can you make a woman feel sexual attraction for you?
You can make a woman feel sexually attracted to you by displaying confidence, making her feel girly and feminine in comparison to your masculinity, being charismatic, charming, making her laugh, etc.
There are many different ways that you can trigger a woman’s feelings of sexual attraction and desire for you and when do it, she will automatically like you and be interested in you.
However, if a guy talks to a woman and comes across as a typical nice guy who is trying to impress her by showing how honest, sincere, trustworthy and nice he is, she might like him as a person, but she isn’t going to be feeling sexually aroused by his approach.
Women only care about all the nice things about you after you’ve made them feel some sort of sexual spark.
Prior to attraction, pretty much all guys are seen as being the same to a woman and she has little or no interest in them.
A woman will only switch ON and be interested in a guy if he is able to trigger her feelings of sexual attraction and then build on that throughout and interaction.
Watch this video to understand how it works…
So, if you’ve been wondering, “How can I get women to like me?” you really need to understand what makes a woman want a man sexually and romantically.
What Makes a Woman Want a Man?
What makes a woman want a man is his ability to trigger her feelings of sexual attraction and then build on that as she continues to talk to him and interact with him.
If a man is making a woman feel a lot of attraction when he interacts with her then she will want him, and if he isn’t making her feel that way then she will either ignore him or only see him as a friend.
If you want to make a woman like you and want you in a sexual and romantic way, you have to be able to spark her feelings of attraction by displaying the personality traits and behaviors that women find attractive, when you interact with her.
For example: Some of the qualities that women look for and feel most attracted to in a guy include:
- Masculinity (how he thinks, feels, behaves, talks, takes action).
- Determination and drive to succeed in life.
If you want a woman to want you in a sexual way, don’t waste time trying to show her how nice of a guy you are in the hopes that she will think, “Wow, he’s so nice!” and then want to have sex and be in a relationship with you.
Women don’t choose to have sex, and get into a relationship with a guy based on how nice and sweet he is. Why?
Watch this video for the answer…
What matters most to a woman is whether or not you make her feel sexually attracted and turned on when she interacts with you.
Once her attraction has been triggered, she will then begin to pay attention to and like other things about you (e.g. the fact that you are intelligent, a good guy, have good intentions, etc).
Sometimes a woman will agree to go out on a date with a nice guy that she doesn’t feel much attraction for, but her interest will soon fizzle out if he’s not actively making her feel turned on by the way he interacts with her.
For example: A guy might be really sweet and nice and treat a woman like a princess on a date. He might take her to an expensive restaurant, buy her flowers and gifts and try to show her that he can take care of her.
Yet, even though she will enjoy the five star treatment, it doesn’t mean that she will be thinking, “I don’t feel attracted to him, but that’s fine because he is buying me things.”
That’s not how it works.
Mutual attraction needs to be at the foundation of a successful relationship.
If it’s only one-sided (e.g. you’re attracted to her and she only likes you as a person), then it’s going to end in a break up unless you can start making her feel attracted.
Understanding What Women Really Want
Most of the guys who are failing with women simply don’t know what you are about to learn in this section.
Here are two common myths that will destroy your dating and relationship life if you believe they are true…
1. Beautiful women only want to have sex with and date good looking guys
It is 100% true that some beautiful women only want a good looking guy who has male model looks, but what is also 100% true is that the majority of beautiful women place less importance on looks and more importance on how a guy’s personality, behavior and inner qualities make her feel.
That is the truth.
If it weren’t true, the most guys (including me) wouldn’t be able to attract, have sex with and have relationships with beautiful women.
So, if you have been asking yourself, “How can I get women to like me?” just make sure that you don’t waste time looking in the mirror and asking, “Am I good looking enough for women?”
Yes, it is true that some women will only accept a good looking guy, but the majority of us guys are just average or below average looking and we can still attract and keep hot women.
Here’s how it works…
When a guy can trigger a woman’s feelings of sexual desire in different ways (e.g. by displaying confidence, charm, charm, being masculine, making her laugh, etc) she will naturally feel attracted to him.
If he has what he thinks is a physical flaw (e.g. he is bald, overweight, skinny, has a big nose, is short), most women (not all) won’t care about it because he is making her feel attracted in other, more important ways.
If he really builds on her attraction during the interaction, she will even begin to see any physical flaws he might have as being cute.
For example: She might think, “I don’t usually like guys with big noses, but his nose is cute” or “I don’t usually like bald, overweight guys, but this guy is sexy.”
That really is how a woman’s attraction works.
Of course, I’m not saying that all women will accept a guy who doesn’t look like a perfect male model, but most will.
For example: A guy might be tall and good looking, but if he can’t make a woman feel attracted to him while talking to her (e.g. because he is nervous, insecure, self-doubting, puts on a fake persona), she will look for reasons why she doesn’t like him.
She might begin to think, “I originally thought this guy was attractive, now I don’t like him” or “I initially thought he was attractive, but now I think he’s ugly…I’ve got to get out of this conversation.”
Why would a woman think that way?
Well, a female friend of mine once helped me understand the inner workings of a woman’s mind and how she really feels attracted to a guy.
She said, “Insecurity makes a guy look ugly. Confidence makes him look sexy.”
In other words, even if a guy has good looking features, a woman can feel turned off by him and see him as “ugly” if he displays traits that women find unattractive in men (e.g. nervousness, self-doubt, insecurity).
The truth is that most women (not all) place a lot less importance on a man’s physical appearance than most guys think.
As long as a guy can trigger her feelings of sexual attraction and make her feel attracted to him in other ways, a woman usually won’t get hung up about the fact that he doesn’t have male model features.
If you’re still not convinced that this is true, the next time you go out, take a look around you and you will notice plain looking, overweight, skinny and even “ugly” guys with beautiful girlfriends or wives.
If women only wanted to have sex with and date good looking guys, most of the guys in this world (including me) would be single, because most guys are average or below average looking.
So don’t waste another day thinking that women don’t like you because you don’t look like a male model. It simply isn’t true.
When you have the ability to trigger and build on a woman’s attraction for you during an interaction, you will find that most of the women that you meet like you and be interested in you.
2. Women say they want nice guys, but only date bad boys
When a woman is asked what she is looking for a in a guy, she will usually say something like, “I just want a nice guy who can take care of me, who is sensitive and doesn’t put on a big macho act to impress me.”
Many guys completely misinterpret what the woman is saying and assume that if he is nice to her, she will then like him and want to be in a relationship with him.
Then, when he tries the nice guy approach on women, they reject him and say things like, “Umm, you’re nice, but I don’t like you in that way sorry.”
It’s simple: He is trying to establish a romantic or sexual relationship without first making the woman feel sexually attracted to him.
Women do want a guy to treat them well, but if all a guy is doing is being nice, then she’s not going to be interested in anything sexual because there is nothing to feel turned on about.
If a guy doesn’t realize that, a woman will simply lose interest in him and then hook up with another guy who actually makes her feel attracted.
When the nice guy sees that the other guy didn’t treat her as nicely as he did, he then comes to the conclusion that women want bad boys or that women lie about wanting a nice guy.
What he doesn’t understand is that a woman will choose a nice guy over a bad boy every time, but only if the nice guy can trigger her feelings of sexual attraction (e.g. by being confident, charismatic, making her feel girly and feminine in comparison to his masculinity, making her laugh).
Here’s the truth…
Almost all women do not want to be treated badly, but a woman would rather hook up with a bad boy who makes her feel attracted, than a weak, wimpy, nice guy that only makes her experience friendly feelings.
What women really want is a good guy who:
- Is confident around her and other people.
- Is respected and looked up to by others.
- Knows how to trigger her feelings of sexual attraction.
- Makes her feel girly and feminine in comparison to his masculinity.
- Uses humor in a way that makes her feel attracted, challenged and feminine.
There’s nothing wrong with being nice to a woman, but niceness is not what makes a woman feel sexually turned on or aroused.
You don’t have to be a bad boy (at all) to get women to like you, but you do have to display the behaviors and personality traits that are naturally attractive to women (e.g. confidence, charm, humor, charisma).
Stop Trying to Get Women to Like You and Start Making Women Feel Sexually Aroused When They Interact With You
Getting a woman to want you and feel intense desire for you is not as difficult as most guys think….and you don’t have to be good looking, rich, successful, or a bad boy to make it happen.
You simply have to be able to display some (not even all!) of the personality traits, behaviors and inner qualities that are naturally attractive and arousing to women.
When you do that, a woman cannot stop herself from feeling attracted to you because it happens naturally and automatically without her even having to think about it.
Making a woman feel a lot of attraction for you during an interaction also causes her to want you to get you to like her.
When that happens, you will enjoy your choice with women from that day onwards.