The easiest way to arouse a woman with words is to flirt with her.
When you flirt with a woman, you automatically make her feel attracted to you because you display confidence, social intelligence and charisma. It’s a very powerful, instant way to get women aroused in your presence.
Watch this video by Dan Bacon (founder of The Modern Man) for some examples of how to flirt with women…
We’re Lucky to Be Men
We men are lucky that we can arouse women with what we say and do.
It’s very easy to do. If we are confident, charismatic, funny and flirtatious, we can attract and arouse a woman regardless of how we look.
Of course, some women only want a guy who is extremely good looking, but most women are open to being aroused by all sorts of guys. This is why you will see all types of men with beautiful women, rather than only seeing model looking men with all the hot girls.
When you know how to attract a woman during an conversation, it’s very easy to get laid or get a girlfriend.
The Secret is to Trigger Her Feelings of Attraction
Most guys talk to women in a way that only makes the woman feel friendly or neutral emotions. However, if you want to get laid or get a girlfriend, you have to make her feel sexually aroused by you.
Here’s a great video by Dan Bacon (founder of The Modern Man), which explains how to arouse a woman with your words…
Before a woman can feel physically aroused, she needs to feel mentally aroused.
For women, sexual arousal is all about feeling real sexual chemistry, and that’s something that begins in her mind and then works its way through the rest of her body. When a woman is with a man who has what it takes to mentally arouse her, the physical arousal this naturally generates leaves her feeling powerless to resist him – and this is a feeling women love.
However, unlike in the Mr-Darcy-type romantic novels set in the 19th century, the words a woman wants to hear to feel mentally aroused are no longer anything to do with flowery poetry or any other kind of over-romanticised mush.
Instead, she wants to hear the words that let her know the man she’s with is a confident, masculine man who knows who he is and feels secure in himself as a result. This means any kind of shy, nervous behavior or any kind of stuttering, stammering awkwardness is a complete turn off.
Real life is not like romantic fiction or the movies. In fact, there’s a classic example of what not to do in the 90s movie, Four Weddings and a Funeral.
If you’ve seen it, you may remember the famous scene where Hugh Grant stutters and stammers his way through an attempt to tell Andie MacDowell how he feels about her before resorting to reciting the lyrics from a David Cassidy song to say, “I think I love you.”
It works a treat in the movie, and women watching the movie all gush over it and say, “That’s so sweet,” Yet, in the real world, a guy approaching a woman in the same shy and awkward way would find himself rejected. Insecurity is not a turn on for women and almost always leads to the guy being rejected or a very awkward conversation.
It’s More Than Just Words
When a man knows how to approach a woman in the kind of confident, charismatic way that all women like, his body language will already be speaking volumes about him before he’s even said a word. Women will automatically feel attracted to him and the interaction will start off more smoothly and easily.
If you want to know how to arouse women with words, you also must understand that attraction is about more than just what you say.
For example: All women are instinctively attracted to men with alpha male characteristics.
It’s an instinct that has remained a part of human nature since the days of our early ancestors and it’s basically nature’s way of ensuring the survival of the species. Women seek to breed with men who are going to be good survivors and men seek to breed with women who are healthy and youthful looking.
For most of human history, a woman saw an alpha male as being able to offer the best potential for staying alive and producing healthy offspring. Despite the progress that humans have made with technology, supermarkets and a safer society, women still feel an instinctive attraction to alpha male qualities in men.
All women, no matter how independent they may be, ultimately long to find a man who has what it takes to make her feel like a woman. If a guy is like the Hugh Grant character who stutters and stammers and struggles to string a sentence together because he’s intimidated by the woman, then he’s not that guy.
The types of traits that will arouse women when you talk to them are:
- Social intelligence.
- Being a challenge.
Arouse Her By Being a Challenge
If the woman that you like is beautiful, sexy or attractive, then most of the guys that see her will be willing to have sex with her. A beautiful woman doesn’t even have to have a great personality and guys will still be willing to have sex with her and even start a relationship with her.
This is very boring for women.
If you want to stand out from the crowd and arouse a woman with your words, behavior, attitude and vibe, then try to be more of a challenge for her. Make her feel attracted to you and then make her feel the need to impress you and maintain your interest.
You will be surprised at how easily it makes women feel attracted, aroused and excited to be interacting with you. Here’s a great video by Dan Bacon (the founder of The Modern Man) that explains exactly why women like a guy who is a challenge and what you need to do to be that guy…