So, how often should you tell your girlfriend that you love her?
Well, while there is no set amount of times that you should tell her per day, per week, or per month, there is an effective time to say it and that is when you genuinely feel it and when you have a relationship dynamic where she is in love with you.
For example: If a boyfriend is in love with his girlfriend and he’s continually telling her that he loves her and it’s genuine, but she doesn’t love him and she’s not in love with him, then him saying that is going to cause problems in the relationship.
She’s going to start to realize that he loves her way more than she loves him.
She’s going to realize that she’s not feeling like she’s in love with him.
She doesn’t feel those butterflies in her stomach around him.
As a result, she may begin to feel that she’s going to have to break up with him and try to find a new guy that she can actually be in love with.
The ideal situation that a woman wants to find herself in, is when she is in love with you so much that she wants to tell you that she loves you and make you feel loved.
When she’s making you feel loved, she feels happy in the relationship.
She feels like the dynamic between you and her is right.
It’s what she wants.
She wants to be in love with a man.
She wants to be good to him.
She wants to feel that motivation, that desire to make him feel loved.
She gets butterflies in her stomach around him.
He means more to her than pretty much anything else, or anyone else in her life.
So, that’s the ideal situation that a woman wants to find herself in.
However, sometimes a woman isn’t comfortable saying the words, “I love you.”
Sometimes she’s a bit insecure about that.
Sometimes she has some issues from her childhood.
Sometimes she’s had her heart broken from a previous relationship, where she really put herself out there and put her heart on the line and she got her heart broken.
Other times, she’s worried that if she says “I love you” too often, it may make her boyfriend start to feel a bit arrogant and take her for granted.
The boyfriend may feel like he’s gotten her to fall in love with him and he doesn’t really need to do anything anymore.
He’s got her wrapped around his little finger.
So, all sorts of problems can arise from your side, or her side simply based on saying “I love you” or not saying it.
To avoid all the problems, the best approach to take is to cause your woman to feel so attracted and in love with you that she really wants to tell you that she loves you and she wants to make you feel loved.
When you have that type of relationship dynamic and you occasionally tell her that you love her, when you genuinely feel like saying it, then she feels excited.
She feels lucky to be hearing that from you.
She feels lucky to be the girl that you’re in love with.
So, there doesn’t need to be any counting of how many times you’ve said “I love you” and there doesn’t need to be a focus on who should say it next and who said it last.
Instead, create a relationship dynamic where a woman feels lucky to be hearing those words from you.
When that type of relationship dynamic is in place, you can say “I love you” whenever the heck you feel like it.
Of course, don’t go overboard with it though.
Saying it every day can be overkill and can turn it into something that a woman takes for granted.
She hears you say “I love you” every day and it becomes, “I love you” and then she responds, “Yeah, I love you too.”
It’s basically just a routine thing that doesn’t have much emotion or excitement attached to it.
It’s important to understand that because even though it might seem like a woman wants to hear it every day, women thrive on the feeling of anticipation in a relationship.
Anticipation (noun): A feeling of excitement about something that is going to happen in the near future. Expectation or hope.
Women love to be thinking about their guy and wondering what he’s feeling, what he’s thinking.
A woman wants to be in a position where she feels motivated to be good to you.
She feels motivated to be on her best behavior, to make you like her and love her more and more over time.
Okay, I hope you enjoyed this video and learned something from it.
If you’d like to learn more about how to increase your woman’s feelings of respect, attraction and love over time, then I recommend that you watch or listen to my program, Make Her Love You For Life.
When you watch or listen to the program, you will learn the ultimate relationship dynamic that causes your woman to feel increasingly respectful, attracted and in love with you over time.
Her feelings do not fade away.
Instead they become stronger and stronger over time.
A Truly Loving Relationship
One final point that I want to make for you in this video, is that when you create a relationship dynamic where both you and your woman are totally in love with each other and you then say that you love her and she says that she loves you, or she says it first and you say it second, it’s an amazing feeling.
It’s an amazing experience to be part of a mutually loving, respectful and attracted relationship where both of you really want to be with each other.
However, what’s important to understand as a man is that the ideal type of relationship dynamic for a woman is where she feels like she is more in love with you than you are with her.
She then has to try harder to make you love her more.
She has to put in more effort into the relationship.
She has to be on her best behavior.
She has to present herself well physically.
She has to make you love her more and more over time.
As long as she knows that you do love her, but she can see that there is even more of your love for her to find and discover, then it becomes a lifelong quest for her to find that, discover it, capture it and experience it.
Love is an unlimited thing so you’re not going to run out of it.
Just don’t give her the impression that what you’re giving her now, the love that you feel for her now is at 100%.
Don’t let her sense that your love has reached its limit.
Based on your behavior and the way that you interact with her, give her the sense that there is still more of your love for her to discover.
If she wants to discover that, then she has to impress you.
She has to win you over more and more over time.