If you’re looking for tips on how to get your woman back, you may have already tried everything you could think of, but it hasn’t worked.
No matter what you’ve tried to say to her or what you’ve done, she just doesn’t seem interested in getting back together.
Now, you’ve decided to look online and see if anyone can teach you exactly what you need to do to get her back.
If that sounds like you, then start by watching this video…
As you will discover from the video above, your woman will only become interested in getting back with you when you begin to trigger feelings of respect and attraction for you as a man.
To get your woman back, you have to make her feel what she wants to feel, rather than trying to convince her to understand where you are coming from or that you are truly sorry and will now do better.
Making Her Your Woman Again
You can’t ever own a woman and say that she is completely yours. You don’t own her and she has the right to leave you if she wants to.
However, what you CAN do is make her feel the kind of love, respect and attraction that will make her want to be with you and want to stay with you.
Before you are able to do that, you can’t expect her to want to get back with you unless she becomes lonely and is unable to find a replacement guy. A woman is only ever “your woman” in the sense that she’s in a relationship with you…and that is her choice, not yours.
When you look at it this way, the answer to the question of how to get your woman back is quite simple: It has to be her choice to come back and be your woman.
The woman you want back has always been her own woman. She was an individual before she met you, an individual during her relationship with you, and she’s still an individual now that the relationship has ended. To get her back, you need her to want to get back with you and that’s her decision to make as her own woman.
Watch this video to understand the process that she likely went through before breaking up with you and what you need to do to get her back…
As you will discover from watching the video above, you can get her to become open to coming back when you guide her through the 3-step process once again, but this time in reverse.
First get her respect back (you can learn how to do that on a phone call, by watching my program Get Your Ex Back: Super System), get her attraction back (on the phone call and in person) and then get her to fall back in love with you again (when she lowers her guard after feeling a strong, renewed sense of respect and attraction for you).
Mistakes Guys Make When Trying to Get a Woman Back
There are a lot of classic mistakes to avoid when trying to get a woman back, but a very common one is when a guy begs and pleads with his woman to be given a second chance.
1. Begging and pleading with her
Some guys mistakenly think that by showing her how devastated he is, she will sorry for him and get back together with him. He will essentially grovel, plead and beg for just one more chance to prove himself.
This sometimes works with young women, women who haven’t had much relationship experience or unattractive women who know that it will be difficult for them to find another guy, but even still, the relationship will break up again shortly afterwards when she realizes that he still hasn’t changed.
For most women, a man begging and pleading for another chance further eats away at her feelings of respect and attraction for him. She goes from feeling upset about having to break up with him to feeling disgusted, disappointed and repelled by his lack of emotional masculinity.
There’s nothing wrong with asking a woman for another chance, but you have to do it in an emotionally balanced and strong way. She has to see that you love her and want her in your life, but you don’t need her for your emotional stability.
2. Saying that you will change
When a woman finally makes a decision to break up with a guy, she usually isn’t impressed if he says that he WILL change. To get her to give the relationship another chance, he has to actually show her that he HAS made some serious changes.
For example: If a woman is breaking up with a man because he has been insecure in the relationship and unable to control his jealousy, she will need to see that he understands where he went wrong and has already made serious changes.
How can she see that? It will come through in his body language, conversation style, reactions to her tests of him during conversations, his vibe, his attitude, etc.
Just like you can sense when another person is insecure or jealous, your woman can sense that sort of thing too.
If a guy says to a woman, “I promise that I can change. I can do whatever it is you want, just tell me what you want me to do,” he’s actually making things worse by highlighting the fact that he doesn’t know what the problem really is or what needs to be changed.
Not knowing what the problem is shows her that he’s not mentally and emotionally tuned in enough to be able to pick up on her body language and to understand what she wants without her having to spell it out. This then leads to her feeling that he isn’t enough of a man for her and therefore, isn’t someone that she can maintain feelings of respect and attraction for.
Women don’t want to have to put into a position where they become a guy’s teacher on how to be a man. A woman wants you to know that already or seek help to get it figured out, rather than asking her to guide you.
When a woman is put in a position where she has to teach a guy or “mother” him through relationship issues, she loses respect and attraction for him. She’s unable to look up to him and respect him as her man and instead looks at him like a little brother or friend that needs her help in life.
3. Lacking masculinity around her
Women are naturally attracted to and respectful of guys who have the type of mental masculinity that makes a woman feel girly in his presence.
When you’re interacting with your woman, she wants to be able to relax into being a feminine woman around you. It doesn’t matter if you and her are currently broken up – you can still make her feel that way when you interact with her.
Don’t hold back on being your confident, masculine self around her. Let her feel your strength (mental and emotional strength) coming through when she talks to you on the phone and interacts with you in person.
If you supress your masculinity around her and instead come across as being neutral like a friend, you will be missing out on creating that all important sexual spark between you and her.
In order for a sexual spark to exist, either the man or the woman has to be on one end of the masculine/feminine spectrum. Being neutral cancels out the spark and you end up just feeling like friends.
How to Get Your Woman Back From Another Man
If another man has taken your woman, it doesn’t mean that she is his for life now.
He is possibly a “rebound guy,” which means that the relationship has a 65% chance of ending within the next 6 months. When a woman gets into a rebound relationship (the relationship she has immediately after breaking up with her ex), she is usually attracted to the new guy because he is offering her what her ex couldn’t.
For example: If her ex took her for granted, refused to commit to her and treated her like crap, she will usually go for a sweet, nice guy who treats her like a princess. Yet, after a while, she will begin to feel turned off by the fact that the nice guy lacks balls and she has too much control over him and the relationship.
If you want to get your woman back from another man, what you still need to do is get her to meet up with you in person. At the meet up, she will see that you are now a much better man than you ever were when you and her were together.
She will almost certainly test you by saying that she’s enjoying herself with the new guy. Your response (by way of your body language, vibe, conversation style, attitude) needs to show her that you are not threatened by the comment and do not see him as being better than you.
Smile and tell her that you’re happy for her, but you’d be much happier if she were with you. Don’t be afraid to say that – it will not give her any power over you, unless you decide it does.
Simply be fearless in telling her that you love her and miss her, but make sure that it is couple with you triggering her feelings of respect and attraction for you.
Most women will not get back with a guy simply because he wants it. You have to focus on making her feel the type of respect and attraction that would make her feel like seeing you again in person would be a good thing.
If you need help on how to do that, I will teach you and provide you with examples of what to say and do via my program, Get Your Ex Back: Super System
Getting Her to Want You Back
The bottom line is that knowing how to get your woman back comes down to knowing how to make her feel sexually attracted to you again.
Words alone won’t completely change her feelings, but showing her that you have taken action to resolve the issues that led to the break up and have made improvements to yourself as a man in the process will change the way that she sees you and the way she feels about you as a result.
You can only expect to truly get her back if you are willing to make some improvements, changes or adjustments to how you’ve been coming across to her. When you interact with her and she feels differently about you, she will then begin to think differently about you and the relationship.
She will begin to wonder why she has been so cold and uninterested in being with you and why she suddenly feels like getting back with you seems like a good idea. You then simply need to lead things forward to a hug, kiss and sex and the relationship will naturally rekindle.
Some guys are able to get their woman back in 30 days or less, but some other guys need to be a bit more patient. If you use my proven to work methods in Get Your Ex Back: Super System, what I can guarantee for you is that she will agree to meet up with you and you will have an opportunity to make her feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you in person.
You will also know what to say and do to get past all of the typical resistance that women put up when a guy is trying to get her back, so you can convince her to give the relationship another shot.
In most cases, guys are able to convince the woman to give the relationship another shot and they then go onto rekindle their relationship and are happier than ever. However, in other cases, guys need to take it a bit slower and begin seeing their woman once a week because she wants to see how it feels first.
With my program, Get Your Ex Back: Super System, you will know exactly what to say and do during the reconciliation process to ensure that you are making her feel the type of love, respect and attraction that she needs to feel to want to be back with you for real.
Are you ready to give this a shot and get your woman back for real?