Keeping a woman interested in you is very easy to do when you use the right approach to attraction, dating and relationships.
Here is correct, fundamental approach to use at each step of the way with a woman, to ensure that she remains interested in you and never wants to leave you…
1. When you first meet her
The main thing that you need to do when you first meet a woman, is trigger her feelings of sexual attraction for you.
For example: If a guy walks up and begins talking to a woman and displays signs of nervousness and self-doubt, while also putting on an act of being an ever nicer guy than he really is, then the woman’s feelings of sexual attraction are not going to be triggered.
She will feel turned off by his emotional weakness and lack of authenticity as a man.
On the other hand, if a guy approaches a woman and displays signs of confidence (e.g. relaxed, easy-going body language, confident tone of voice, believes in himself and allows his natural charisma to come through), the woman’s feelings of sexual attraction will be triggered.
Yet, even if a woman is attracted to you, she won’t always respond or behave in the exact same way as other women you meet.
For example: Sometimes you will meet a woman and sparks will fly immediately and she will then make it very easy for you to touch her, move in for a kiss, get her phone number or take her home for sex.
Other times, it might take you 30 minutes to 2 hours of hanging out with a woman before she feels ready to kiss, give you her phone number or go home and have sex with you.
There are also women who will play really hard to get, even if they really like you.
For example: If a woman only wants a very confident guy, she will test him by acting uninterested, teasing him (e.g. “I hate your hairstyle” or “That’s a lame shirt you are wearing”) and even saying that she doesn’t like him.
She tests a guy like that because she wants to see if he has the balls to remain confident and believe in himself, no matter how challenging she gets.
The most important part of keeping a woman interested in you in cases like that, is to make sure that you don’t buckle under her pressure.
You need to remain calm, confident and continue to display the personality traits, behaviors and inner qualities that are naturally attractive to women (e.g. confidence, charisma, the ability to make her feel girly in comparison to your masculinity, getting her to laugh and relax around you – especially if she is testing you by acting cold, etc).
2. When you’re on a date with her
One of the biggest mistakes that guys make when trying to keep a woman interested on a date, is to try too hard to impress her and end up coming across as nervous, self-doubting and awkward as a result.
There’s nothing wrong with showing a woman that you do like her, care about her and are interested in her, but she doesn’t want you to try so hard that she ends up feeling like she’s probably too good for you.
She wants you to believe in yourself, relax and let your personality naturally make her feel attracted to you. She then wants you to seduce her into kissing you, having sex with you and falling in love with you.
If you can’t do that, she will lose interest in having a second date and may even tell you, “We’d be better off as a friends” or “This was nice, but I just want to make it clear that I’m not looking for a relationship” as a way of trying to end the dating process.
There’s nothing wrong with impressing a woman on a date by taking her somewhere nice, dressing well and treating her well.
However, the point is that you need to make sure that you believe in yourself and know that you are good enough for her no matter where you take her for a date, or what clothes you happen to wear that day.
Watch this video to understand some of the classic mistakes that guys make when trying to get a woman interested and keep her interested….
As you will discover from the video above, guys who try too hard to keep women interested are usually the guys who have no idea how to make women feel attracted to them.
Without that skill, they over-compensate by being really nice, buying her things, over-complimenting her and essentially being willing to do whatever she wants as long as she doesn’t lose interest.
There’s nothing wrong with being nice to a woman, buying her something, giving her a compliment or even being willing to do what she wants every now and then.
However, women hate it when a guy goes overboard with those things because he doesn’t even know how to attract her and turn her on with his natural personality.
When on a date, the main thing that you need to do is make her feel relaxed by being confident and relaxed yourself, while also building on her feelings of sexual attraction for you by displaying some of the personality traits, behaviors and inner qualities that naturally attract women.
The video above explains how a woman’s attraction for a man really works.
After you watch it, you will know things about attraction that most guys on this planet are clueless about and probably won’t ever find out.
3. When you’re in a new relationship with her
The secret of keeping a woman interested in you when in a relationship, is to deepen her feelings of love, respect and attraction over time.
The start of a relationship is the easy part, because both of you will be feeling a lot of lust and excitement about being with someone new.
If you begin having sex, that will usually be more than enough enjoyment and pleasure to make both of you want to see each other on a regular basis.
Yet, once you get past that initial stage of the relationship, you need to start to deepen her feelings of love, respect and attraction for you over time.
- Being a man of your word.
- Being emotionally strong.
- Being a man that she can look up to and respect.
- Having purpose in life.
- Rising through the levels of your true potential as a man, by striving to achieve your biggest goals and ambitions in life.
- Making her feel girly and feminine in comparison to your masculinity (i.e. how you think, feel, behave, move, take action compared to her).
There are many different ways that you can deepen a woman’s feelings of love, respect and attraction for you, which I teach in my programs here at The Modern Man.
4. When you have been together for many years
If you have been deepening a woman’s feelings of love, respect and attraction for you over time, then she’s not going to want to leave you even if she has been with you for 20, 30 or even 40 years.
She will know that if would be a mistake to leave an amazing man like you and risk never being able to find another guy who could deepen her feelings the way you have.
The fact is, most guys don’t really know what is involved in deepening a woman’s feelings and they simply take their girlfriend, fiancé or wife for granted, until one day she turns around and says, “I don’t feel the same way anymore. I think we should break up.”
Statistically speaking, approximately 50% of relationships and marriages end in a break up or divorce, while at least 25% of couples still together even though they are unhappy.
So, that is 75% of people who either break up or stick around in unhappy, unfulfilling relationships.
That leaves us without 25% of people who are happy and have the ability to deepen each other’s feelings when in a relationship, so they can stay together for life.
Most guys (up to 75%) tend to make classic mistakes with their woman (e.g. being insecure, taking her for granted, creating unhappiness, ruining the sexual attraction, etc).
If you want to keep a woman interested in you for life, all you need to do is be one of the 25% of guys who actually know how to love a woman and deepen her feelings over time.
When you are that type of guy, no woman is going to want to leave you.
You can see evidence of this being true when you see couples who are still madly in love and excited to be together after 20-50 years of being together.
The woman has found herself a man who is much better than anything she could find if were leave him.
Leaving a man like that is just way too much of a risk for a woman because she will almost always know (from past relationship experience) how difficult it is to find a real man.
Rather than wasting time and energy jumping from relationship to relationship, she is able to fall more deeply in love with her man over time, which is much more fulfilling and rewarding for the both of them.
Keeping a Woman Interested in You For Life
Keeping a woman interested in you for life, essentially comes down to you being a consistent man.
You need to understand that you have the capacity to learn, grow and become a bigger and better man over time.
Don’t ever think that you’re finished and that you can’t become any better of a man than you are right now, or achieve even bigger things over time.
You have unlimited potential.
To ensure that your woman is able to maintain and deepen her feelings of respect for you over time, you need to always strive to rise up to the next level of your potential as a man.
As long as you love her, care about her, respect her and treat her well while you live the life of a man who has purpose, your woman will always remain interested in you.