Guys who say, “My relationships never work out,” often end up believing that they’re not good enough for women and are destined to spend a life alone with a trail of broken relationships.
Either that or they blame it on women for being so crazy, demanding, irrational and unstable.
Consider this though…
Could the reason why you haven’t succeeded in previous relationships simply come down to the fact that you don’t really know what women want in a guy?
If so, don’t worry – you’re not alone.
Most guys find women confusing, which is why I have made this video to clear up some of that confusion…
As you will discover from the video above, you shouldn’t try to base your understanding on women based on what they say.
Women don’t go around giving the instruction manual on how to attract them into a relationship and then keep them happy.
Instead, women simply reject or dump guys who don’t understand them. Why? Women don’t want to have to be a guy’s teacher on how to be attractive to women.
If a woman has to teach a guy to be confident and masculine in the way that turns her on, it makes her feel like more of a mother figure or big sister to him, which is a complete turn off.
Women want to be able to relax and just be feminine around a guy who already knows how to be an attractive man.
Did You Make Any of These Mistakes in Your Previous Relationships?
Some of the most common mistakes that guys make, which lead to a woman losing respect, attraction and love for him include…
1. Thinking that being nice to a woman is what makes her want to stick with you.
Most guys have heard women saying, “I just wish I could find a nice guy,” or “Why are all the nice guys taken? I always meet jerks who are only interested in one thing. Why can’t I just meet a nice guy who treats me like a princess?”
When a guy hears that, he might then assume that to attract a beautiful woman and keep her happy in a relationship, he has to be really nice to her and show her that he’s not like all the other guys.
Yet, it doesn’t work. Why? Being nice to a woman isn’t what makes her feel sexually turned on and keen on being in a relationship with you.
When a woman says that she wants a nice guy, what she really means is a good guy who also makes her feel very attracted.
She isn’t looking for a nice guy to kiss her ass and bow at her feet.
Being nice to her is great, but she isn’t going to appreciate that unless she feels very attracted to the guy.
If he’s just being nice, then there’s nothing about what he is doing that will turn her on sexually. Instead, she just feel nice, friendly and platonic around him.
What a lot of nice guys don’t realize is that they’re not alone in being a nice guy.
The fact is that there are millions of nice guys in this world and it is very easy for a woman to meet a nice guy who is willing to worship the ground she walks on if she will just give him a chance to be with her.
If a woman is attractive, most of the guys that she meets in her life are going to be nice to her in the hope that it makes her “like” him enough to be given a chance.
So, when she meets another “nice” guy she’s not going to fall head over heels in love with him, because he doesn’t really stand out from every other guy she’s already met.
The first mistake that I outline in this video is “Thinking that being nice to a woman is good enough” and if you’ve made that mistake in the past, you will probably learn a lot from watching the entire video…
As you will discover from the video above, there’s nothing wrong with being nice to a woman, but it isn’t the thing that is going to make her say, “WOW!” she meets you and it isn’t what will make her want to stick with you for life when in a relationship.
The truth is, a woman really only appreciates a guy’s nice behavior in a relationship when she feels attracted to him, respects him and loves him.
2. Thinking that putting her on a pedestal will make her stick around because she feels worshipped.
Guys who lack confidence in their ability to attract women and keep them interested often make the mistake of putting their girlfriend on a pedestal.
Essentially, a guy will assume that by hanging on a woman’s every word, agreeing to everything she says, allowing her to make all the decisions about where she’d like to go and what she’d like to do, etc., will make her like him more and want to stick with him because he makes her feel so special.
Aww, how sweet.
Although there are some women who enjoy being “worshipped” by a man in this way, most women realize that this type of behavior stems from the guy’s lack of confidence in his ability to attract her and other women.
The woman realizes that he hasn’t been very successful with other women so he is hoping that if he lets her have all the control and power in the relationship, she will stick with him out of pity.
What he doesn’t realize is that in a relationship with a woman, a man has to be the leader.
Yes, a woman will sometimes make decisions and take the lead (and that is absolutely fine), but ultimately it’s the man’s responsibility to lead and a woman won’t fully respect him or feel attracted to him if he hands over his power to her.
3. Being insecure.
Insecurity can manifest itself in many different ways.
For example: When a guy is approaching and talking to women, his insecurity may manifest itself as shyness, trying too hard to be liked or nervousness during a conversation.
Rather than being confident and saying whatever he feels like, he will worry about saying the wrong thing and will soon run out of things to say.
On a date, his insecurity might cause him to try too hard to be liked and he may come across as nervous, which will turn the woman off.
In a relationship, his insecurity might manifest itself as neediness, clinginess, jealousy and over protectiveness.
Although a woman may put up with a man’s insecurities for a short while when in a relationship, she will eventually break up with him if she loses too much respect and attraction for him.
A woman doesn’t want to “baby” a guy and have to teach him how to be a man. If he can’t fix his issues and overcome his insecurities on his own, most women will not stick around to hold his hand.
Some guys feel annoyed that women can’t accept their insecurity, shyness or lack of confidence and just like them for who they are; but it’s not the woman’s fault.
A woman is instinctively attracted to the emotional strength in men and turned off by the weakness because for all of human history, life has been challenging.
Even though modern life is easier is some respects, it’s still very challenging to be successful and a guy needs to have emotional strength to remain strong when life throws him a curveball.
Women might not be able to go around explaining why they feel attracted in that way, but they have a natural instinct to pair up with a guy who has emotional strength.
Instinctively, a woman knows that a real man will rise through the levels of life, reach for his true potential and go after his true purpose in life without fear.
A woman might not be able to explain why she broke up with an insecure man, but she her feelings will be very clear. Deep down, she will know that it’s probably not a good idea to stick with him.
That said, it doesn’t mean that the guy can’t be forgiven. I’ve personally helped 100s of guys to get an ex girlfriend, fiancé or wife back and many times, the main reason why the woman had broken up with him was due to insecurity and him not being enough of a man for her.
Luckily for us guy, that is something that can be easily fixed. All you need to do is learn how to be a confident, emotionally strong man and a lot of your problems with women will instantly begin to disappear.
You Can Be Successful With Your Next Relationship
Rather than going through the heartache of another relationship break up, decide now that you will begin the rapid transformation into the type of man that women desperately want to be with.
Watch this video to understand that relationships go through very specific stages and if you want your next relationship to work out, you’ve got to get past the initial stages and reach stage 5.
When you reach the blissful love stage of a relationship and keep it there, life is just feels so damn amazing together than you never want to leave each other.
I know this from personal experience as well because I’ve been with my wife now for 5 years and it just keeps getting better and better.
It all starts with your ability to attract women when you meet them and then deepen the woman’s feelings of love, respect and attraction for you when in a relationship.
You don’t have to go through life saying, “My relationships never work out,” and feeling like nothing will ever work out for you.
You can be one of the guys who effortlessly deepens a woman’s feelings of love, respect and attraction for you over time.