If you’re looking for advice now on how to get your woman back, you’ve no doubt tried a bunch of things already and it just hasn’t worked.
You might have been able to get some initial results with her when she was breaking up with you, and you might have been able to get another chance with her, but you’re most likely at the point now where nothing is working anymore.
She is not changing her mind.
She is not changing how she feels.
So, you’re stuck.
To help you with that, I’m going to give you the 5 best ways to get a woman back, so you can choose the quickest approach for you to get her back.
What I’ve found by helping hundreds of phone coaching clients now is that every relationship is unique, every break up is unique and you can’t just use the same techniques and tactics that you’ll find out there online to get every or any woman back.
You’ve got to tailor your approach to get her back and then follow that through to the end.
So, the way I’m going to explain this all for you is to first point out the low success rate techniques that guys use, and then give the five high success rate methods that I give my phone coaching clients to get their woman back.
10 Low Success Rate Ex Back Tactics and Techniques
Low success rate ex back tactics and techniques include:
- Begging and pleading.
- Promising to change.
- No contact.
- Not giving her any space at all.
- Crying to her.
- Asking her to help you to change.
- Pouring your heart out to her.
- Being her new ATM (i.e. buying her lots of things or paying her way in life).
- Trying to convince her to give you another chance via endless texts, emails and messages.
- Getting her friends and family involved.
So why are they low success rate tactics and techniques to use to get a woman back?
1. Begging and pleading
Begging and pleading is a low success rate tactic because a guy can usually get another chance with a woman by begging and pleading with her when she is initially breaking up with him, if she cares about him enough.
However, if she gives him another chance and he doesn’t really change and the dynamic of the relationship is really just the same, she’ll eventually break up with him again within a few days, a few weeks or a month or so.
Then, when he tries to beg and plead again, she will just say no and she won’t want anything to do with him unless he can get her back using other methods.
2. Promising to change
When a woman is breaking up with a guy initially, she will sometimes accept his promises to change and that’s why it’s a low success rate tactic in ex back situations.
Some guys are able to get a woman to give them that extra chance, but when she sees that he hasn’t changed and it’s still the same thing, she will most likely just break up with him again, and then when he promises to change, she won’t believe him.
3. No Contact
No contact essentially means not contacting a woman for 30 to 60 days after a breakup.
In most cases that I’ve seen over the years, avoiding a woman for that long just doesn’t work.
Of course, it does work in some cases where a woman really loves the guy and she can’t deal with the pain of their breakup and the pain of not having him in her life, so when he stops contacting her, she feels that pain, she contacts him and wants to get back together with him.
However, with the majority of ex back situations that I’ve dealt with over the years, a guy is at the point where his woman doesn’t have feelings for him anymore and she’s had enough.
When he stops contacting her, she just uses that time to move on.
This is why the No Contact Rule is a low success rate tactic to use to get a woman back.
It can sometimes work with women who are inexperienced with relationships and don’t really know what to do if their ex suddenly stops contacting them.
Yet, the majority of women will either contact their ex just to check that he’s still missing her, and if he is, then she thinks something like, “He’s using that no contact rule that people talk about online,” and then loses more respect and attraction for him as a result of trying to use a tactic like that on her.
4. No giving her any space at all
In some ex back cases, (e.g. when a guy has been clingy and needy and controlling and jealous), it is a good idea to give the woman 3 to 7 days of space before contacting her.
Any longer than that though and it’s just a waste of time because 3 to 7 days is usually more than enough time for a woman to calm down, feel like her ex isn’t stalking her and harassing her and things, and then she becomes open to interacting with him, meeting up with him, etc.
However, despite the fact that a little bit of space can help to get a woman back, it is also possible to get a woman back by not giving her any space at all.
Some guys are able to do that by jumping all over the situation, being in her face, constantly going around to see her, constantly meeting up with her, and then they get her back and they get another chance.
Yet, it’s not a high success rate technique because a lot of women get annoyed by that and they end up asking the guy to give them some space, and in most cases, the guy is not able to do that and he turns her off even more by being needy and clingy and desperate, and then she breaks up with him for real.
5. Crying to her
Not every guy makes this mistake, but some guys do.
About 30-40% of my clients have told me that they made the mistake of crying to their woman or breaking down and sobbing to her.
Sometimes, crying can make a woman give a guy another chance, because she feels sorry for him and she feels bad that she is making him feel that way.
However, it’s a very low success rate technique because women don’t feel respect and attraction when a guy can’t control his emotions in a moment like that.
She doesn’t want to see her man going to desperation mode and feel like he’s got no control over a situation and start crying like a boy would cry to his mother.
Over the years, some of my female friends have shared their thoughts with me while going through a breakup, and some of the things that I’ve heard women say about a guy who cried to them during a breakup include, “I’ve lost all respect for him at that point. I was disappointed to see him in that way. I just can’t look at him the same way anymore. I didn’t think he would be like that.”
Essentially what those women are saying is that they stopped looking at him as being their man. They stopped looking up to him.
Don’t stress and don’t worry if you have made any of the mistakes that I’m talking about so far. You can always recover from mistakes that you make with your girlfriend, fiancé, or wife.
These types of mistakes here where begging, pleading, trying to convince her, not contacting her, potentially crying, etc, are all recoverable. You can recover from it with a conversation where you get her to forgive you and to not see that as such a serious mistake.
6. Asking her to help you to change
This is a low success rate tactic because some women will be willing to help their guy change and improve, but the majority of women don’t want to be in a position where they are a man’s teacher in life about how to be a man.
A woman doesn’t want to feel like she’s in a mother-son, or big sister-little brother or teacher-student type of relationship.
She wants to feel like she is with a man that she can look up to, she is with a man who knows how to be a man without her instructions. She wants to have a ready-made man.
7. Pouring your heart out to her
In some cases, this can work because the woman might feel as though the man is really sincere, he really loves her, and there is no point getting rid of that love if it’s so strong, and she then gives him another chance.
Yet, in a lot of the cases that I’ve seen where a guy has poured his heart out to a woman, it’s been a situation where he is already being clingy and needy, or on the opposite end of the scale, he has taken her for granted and hasn’t really cared about her, and now that she has broken up with him, he is pouring his heart out, telling her how much he loves her.
The problem with that approach is that when a guy is pouring his heart out, he is often coming across in a way where he seems desperate and lost without her.
The thing is, a woman does want a man to love her and want her and appreciate her, etc., but she doesn’t want a guy to be pouring his heart out and giving her the impression that his whole life is destroyed and ruined without her in it.
She doesn’t want to have that sort of control over her man.
8. Being her new ATM
Some of the guys that I’ve helped via phone coaching have told me all sorts of things that they’ve bought for their woman, and ways that they’ve started to support her since the breakup.
For example: A guy taking his girlfriend for granted, she dumps him, and then he goes and buys her a really expensive ring. She takes the ring and doesn’t get back with him, and just keeps taking advantage of him and his generosity.
Other examples include paying for her expenses in certain areas of life, and also offering to buy her things to make her happy.
In some cases, that can get a woman back temporarily where she takes advantage of her guy and gets a bit of revenge on him, but in most cases, it just doesn’t work, because you can’t really buy a woman’s love.
A woman has to be able to respect you and look up to you and feel attracted to you in the ways that are really important in a relationship, and then the other things like buying her something every now and again is seen as a very welcome bonus and nice part of being with you.
Yet, buying her things, giving her money or paying for her expenses in life isn’t the way of getting a woman back.
9. Trying to convince her to give you another chance via endless texts, e-mails and messages
Pretty much every guy that I’ve helped has used this tactic.
Sometimes, it does get through to a woman, something that the guy says gets through to her and she then says, “Alright, I’ll give you another chance,” or “Alright, I’ll meet up with you,” or “Okay, you can come around or I’ll come around,” etc., and he gets another chance with her.
However, the reason why it’s a low success rate tactic to use to get a woman back properly is that it doesn’t last.
A guy might get an initial chance back with this woman by bombarding her with loads of messages and trying to convince her, but if the dynamic of their relationship is still the same and he’s still making the same communication mistakes in person, then she is most likely just going to breakup with him again.
10. Getting her friends and family involved
Sometimes, this tactic can get a woman back if the woman’s parents or friends really like the guy, and they put in a good word for him and they tell her to give him another chance.
Yet, in most cases, it’s one of those backfire techniques where when a guy does it, it makes the situation even worse.
People start saying bad things about him and start saying that she needs to distance herself from him because he is out of control.
The 5 Best Ways to Get Your Ex Back
Now that we’ve got the low success rate techniques out of the way, what I’m going to do now is give you the high success rate ways to get a woman back.
- Get her to forgive you, get her respect back, make her feel attracted to you, and then get her to agree to a two-week trial where you’re back together to see how it goes.
- Get her to forgive you, get her to feel respect for you, get her to feel attracted to you then hook up one last time when you meet up, and then ask for a two-week trial.
- Meet up with her, make her feel respect and attraction for you, and then hook up with her.
- Meet up with her, make her feel respect and attraction for you, get her to agree to another catch up, then at the next catch up, make her feel more respect and attraction and hook up with her.
- Get a new attractive girlfriend, make her feel jealousy and loss, meet up with her, have a discussion that results in mutual forgiveness of each other, make her feel respect and attraction for you, and hook up with her.
By the way..
Most guys don’t have to use the approach of getting a new, attractive girlfriend because the other methods work fine.
I know that most guys who want to get their woman back aren’t interested in dating other women right now. Thankfully, the other 4 approaches listed above work and what works even better is the 7-step solution that I provide in my program, Get Your Ex Back: Super System.
Get Your Ex Back: Super System is the very best approach that any guy can use to get his woman back. More than 100 of my phone coaching clients have successfully used the Get Your Ex Back: Super System approach to get their woman back and you can do it too.
What Are You Going to Do About Your Woman?
At this point, you’ve really got 3 options.
1. Do nothing.
you might decide that you don’t want her back or you’re not prepared to do what it takes to get her back. You might then continue to live with the pain of not having her as your woman anymore and hope that you get over it at some point.
2. Take what you’ve learnt from this post and try to figure out what to say and do on your own.
Some men are capable of getting a woman back on their own, but a lot of men really do need help at this point.
A guy will be feeling emotional, he will be feeling insecure, he might be panicking that he’s going to lose her, or that she’s going to fall deeply in love with another guy, and he really can’t control the way that he is acting and talking to her and interacting with her, and he needs some guidance.
So, if you feel like you can figure it out on your own, then I recommend that you go ahead and do that, but if you do need some help, I recommend that you have to think about option number three.
3. Get her back by following the simple steps in my program, Get Your Ex Back: Super System.
All you have to do is watch the 10 hours of video, and by the end of it, you’ll be ready to contact her and get her to respect you again, get her to feel attracted to you again, and get her to open up to giving you another chance.
My system is designed to get a woman back no matter what the situation is (e.g. if it’s a new relationship, if she lives overseas, if she lives with you, if you’re married, if you’re only together for one year, if you have children, if you don’t have children, if she hates you, if she kind of likes you, if she is seeing someone else) because the same fundamental rules apply.
What you’ve got to do is the same as what other guys have got to do.
You’ve got to get her respect you again, you got to get her to feel attracted to you and you’ve got to establish a new relationship dynamic. So if you want me to help you get her back, I recommend that you watch my program, “Get Your Ex Back: Super System.”
It also comes with two bonuses.
The first bonus is all the Facebook, Phone and Text Message Examples from the “Get Your Ex Back: Super System” program.
So, it’s a quick reference guide.
Rather than you having to sift through the 10 hours of video and trying to find examples of what to text her and say to her on the phone, you’ve got all that in a quick reference PDF guide that you can open up on a phone, on a tablet, or on a computer.
The next bonus is Ultimate Make Up Sex and it’s 2 hours and 47 minutes of video. I explain exactly how to give her the type of sex that will completely change her mind about the breakup.
My Mission is to Help You
Something, I want to point out here for you is that all I really care about is you getting results.
I really do understand the situation that you’re in, because I went through it.
A long time ago, before the internet had people online helping each other out, I met a girl at a party and I got lucky with her, because I was a bit drunk, she was a bit drunk, and we started kissing and then we got into a relationship.
I became clingy and insecure, needy and jealous and she eventually went out with her sister and a friend one night, cheated on me, and then dumped me the next day over the phone.
To say that I was devastated is an understatement.
I was destroyed.
I was absolutely destroyed.
She was the love of my life, and everywhere I turned, people were just saying, “Oh, don’t worry about her. There are plenty of fish in the sea. You’ll find another girl. If it wasn’t meant to be, it wasn’t meant to be. Give it time. Time heals all wounds,” all that sort of crap.
They were telling me that kind of thing nonstop, but I didn’t want to hear it.
I wanted to get her back.
Back in that time though, there was no internet with people helping each other out. So, I was stuck.
What happened for me is that I went on after that for a couple of years or so, where I was lonely, and I couldn’t get an attractive woman, somewhat unattractive women were interested in me, but I wasn’t interested in that.
I wanted to get my ex back, or to get a new, hot, attractive woman, but I just didn’t know how to attract women.
Eventually, I got to the point where I had enough of missing out on love and sex and relationships, so I decided to go out and approach women every weekend until I worked out how to actually attract women on purpose, how to have my choice with women.
Initially, approaching and meeting new women was a horrible experience. I got rejected constantly, because I didn’t know what I was doing, but eventually, I worked out the secrets.
I went on to have sex with more than 250 women. I lived the Playboy lifestyle for about 10 years and really enjoyed that and then I found the girl of my dreams.
She was 20 when I met her, and I was 35, and we’re now married. I’m 38, she is 23, and we are very happy married. We’re at the point now where we’re working on starting a family.
So, it didn’t turn out so bad in the end for me after all. I ended up with a very beautiful wife and we’re very happy.
But if I had a time machine, I would definitely want to go back and give myself the advice that I have in my “Get Your Ex Back: Super System” program and say, “Dan, guess what, you can get her back. Don’t listen to all these other people saying that you can’t get a woman back. There’s plenty of fish in the sea. If she walks away, and doesn’t come back, then it’s not meant to be, all that sort of crap is crap. You can get her back. Here is what you got to say, here is what you got to do, go on do it.”
I then would have gotten her back.
But, I suppose, I wouldn’t have been sitting here now ready to help you.
What I am going to teach you in Get Your Ex Back: Super System is proven to work. I created the ex back process by helping more than a hundred phone coaching clients to get their woman back.
I’ve helped guys from all over the world who were trying to get women back at a point where she was saying, “No, get away from me. I don’t want anything to do with you. I don’t have feelings for you anymore” and he then got her back.
What you’re going to learn in Get Your Ex Back: Super System turns the situation around and makes her want you back.
You really can make her feel differently about you, even if she currently doesn’t want anything to do with you.
As you might have noticed throughout life, you can go from disliking someone when you first meet them to liking them.
You can go from disliking a person that you’ve known for a while and then they change the way that they interact with you and they talk to you in a different way, and then you start liking them, and you might even really like them.
That’s how the psychology of human emotions work.
Human emotions are not set in stone. They’re not unchangeable.
You can make her feel respect for you again. You can make her feel attracted to you again. You can bring down her guard, and when her guard is down, you can guide her back into a relationship.
Get Your Ex Back: Super System – Frequently Asked Questions
The other thing that I want to do for you in this video is answer a bunch of frequently asked questions that I get about Get Your Ex Back: Super System.
- How quickly will I get the program?
- Will it work for my situation?
- What is she says that it’s too late to get her back?
- How fast can I get her back?
- What if she’s already seeing someone else?
- What if she has blocked me on social media and won’t answer my calls or texts?
- What if she doesn’t want to give me another chance?
1. How quickly will I get the program?
That’s an easy one to answer. It’s an instant download. You will also have lifetime access to come back in and watch it at any time in your customer account and you can download it on as many devices as you want — your phone, your tablet, your computer, etc.
2. Will it work for my situation?
I understand that every situation is unique.
Your situation is not the same as other guys, but the fundamentals remain the same.
You need to get her to respect you, get her to feel attracted to you and establish a new, better relationship dynamic.
When you approach it in that way, it does work.
The woman does change the way that she feels. Her guard does come down, and you can guide her back into a relationship.
3. What if she says that’s it’s too late to get her back?
Most woman say that when they go through a breakup. They say things like, “Get away from me. I don’t have feelings for you anymore. It’s too late. I don’t want to be with you. I’m over it.”
Yes, that’s how she is feeling at the point of the breakup, but you can change the way that she feels. Other guys gotten a woman back even though she wasn’t initially interested and so can you.
4. How fast can I get her back?
Some guys are able to get their ex back immediately, some guys need a few days, some guys need a week or two, and sometimes it takes a bit more than a month or so.
It really depends on how strong the relationship was and how bad the breakup was.
For some guys, they finish watching the 10 hours of video and they then contact their ex and get back with her.
Some guys contact their ex, they arrange a time to meet up, they meet up with her, and then she’s a little bit stubborn for a while, she doesn’t want to meet up, she’s still a bit 50-50, and then they’re able to get her back the next week.
Some guys are blocked from everything (i.e. social media, phone, in person visits), and she doesn’t want to talk to them, so they need to use techniques prior to being able to get her on the phone, to be able to get her to answer a text, get on the phone, and then meet up with him.
Sometimes, that process (of getting her to unblock and be willing to meet up) can take a couple of weeks depending on how bad the break up was and how turned off the woman is.
It really depends on your situation, but what I can guarantee for you is that my approach to getting a woman back is the fastest way to get her back because it’s not about ignoring her.
I’m not telling you, “Hey, go no contact and stop talking to her for 30 or 60 days.” Instead, I’m saying, “Get this done now.”
I’m saying watch the 10 hours of video, and at the end of the 10 hours of video, start getting her back right away. Start contacting her and start doing what you need to do to get the relationship back together.
5. What if she’s already seeing someone else?
A lot of guys start off at this point, but they still get her back.
In my program, I explain exactly what to text her and what to say to her on the phone to get her to agree to meet up with you regardless of how close she is with this new guy and how protective this new guy is of her.
The way that I recommend that you explain the meet up to her is a non-threatening meet up. The new guy doesn’t have anything to worry about and he has to accept it. She just has to go and catch up with you.
When you get her to catch up with you and interact with you in person, that is when the real magic happens.
That’s when all of my attraction techniques and persuasion techniques start to come into play, and you’re able to get her to forgive you, get her to feel respect for you, get her to feel attracted to you, and get her to bring her guard down and open back up to having feelings for you again.
6. What if she has blocked me on social media and won’t answer my calls or texts?
This is actually pretty common, so don’t think that you’re the only one who is in that situation.
A lot of guys are at a point where their woman has either blocked them or is no longer responding.
All of the texts, social media messages, examples of what to say when you actually get her on the phone are all included in my program, and if she has completely blocked you and you’ve only got email, you can also send a message via email to get her to unblock you, answer a text, and get on the phone call with you.
7. What if she doesn’t want to give me another chance?
In my program, I provide two plans of action.
The first plan is Plan A and the second plan is Plan B.
Plan A most guys are able to get their woman back by following that strategy. However, in extreme ex back situations, where the woman is very stubborn and she is continuing to say no matter how much respect and attraction you make her feel, you then need to go to Plan B.
Plan B makes her feel a whole range of painful and positive emotions as well as making her feel more respect and attraction for you, and you can then contact her again, meet up with her, and get her to give you another chance.
Hundreds of guys have already used my programs to get woman back and I’ve help countless guys via my phone coaching service, and you can do it too.
You are capable of making her feel differently. You are capable of getting her to bring her guard down.
All you have to do is watch the 10 hours of video, and then begin to follow the steps, and you’ll see that things begin to change.
As soon as you use the techniques, she changes the way that she responds to you. She changes the way that she looks at you. She changes the way that she talks to you, and her guard starts to come down and you can then guide her back into a relationship with you.
So, if you are serious about getting her back, I don’t recommend that you waste any more time ignoring her or trying to convince her to give you another chance.
I also don’t recommend that you waste weeks and maybe months trying to figure this stuff out on your own when you learn it all in 10 hours of video training.
I offer a 30-day money back guarantee, and you’re welcome to try my program.
All you’ve got to do is go through the training, start using the techniques, and you will see that she changes the way that she feels about you, responds to you, talks to you, and behaves around you.
Her guard will start to come down, and you can then guide her back into a relationship with you.
You Getting Her Back is What Matters the Most
I hope this post has been helpful for you, and I also hope that you take the next step and watch my program, so I can help you get her back as soon as possible.
By using the Get Your Ex Back: Super System method, you’re going to save time.
Rather than wasting weeks or months trying to figure it out by trial and error, and potentially turning her off even more, you’ll be ready to contact her in an attractive way after watching the 10 hours of video.
The techniques and methods in my program changes how she feels and she then drops her guard and opens back up to being in a relationship with you.
When you do get back with her, the relationship is going to be better than, before because it’s going to be a new dynamic without the old mistakes.
You’re going to be making her feel respect attraction and love for you in ways that she hasn’t experienced before. It doesn’t matter how good your relationship was in the past, that has to be put aside for now.
What you need to do, if you want to get her back, is create a new relationship dynamic that feels attractive and interesting and exciting and enjoyable to her, and you can do that.
I’m ready to guide you through the process of doing it. I’m ready to give you all the examples of what to say and do to make it happen. It’s now up to you to take the next step and watch my program.
Okay, so to close up here, I just want to say that, I hope this post has been helpful for you and I really do look forward to helping you get your ex back.