When a woman loves you but isn’t in love with you, it means that you have lost her respect and attraction somewhere along the line.
When a man gets into a relationship with a woman at the start, he is usually able to make her feel respect and attraction for him and make her fall in love with him, but somewhere along the line he loses his way.
For example: He becomes insecure, jealous, controlling, argumentative, or he gives her too much power and starts sucking up to her. She then feels like she can’t look up to him and respect him anymore.
When a woman can’t look up to and respect her man, she doesn’t feel good about having sex with him anymore.
It just doesn’t feel right to her to submit to a man that she doesn’t look up to and respect.
She loses that urge to want to lay down and spread her legs and receive the man because she just doesn’t look up to him and respect him so it feels it feels kind of awkward for her.
She feels like she’s stronger than him, so why should she be submitting to him?
It just doesn’t feel right to her.
So, when a man is in a relationship with a woman who loves him as a person, but isn’t in love with him, what she’s waiting for is for him to regain her respect and flick her attraction switch back on.
The thing is, when a woman is in a relationship with a guy, she doesn’t actually want to fall out of love with him.
She wants to be in love with him and she wants to look up to him and respect him and feel attracted to him, but she can’t make that happen on her own.
It comes down to how you interact with her, what you say, how you behave, how you react to her.
In other words, when you’re interacting with your woman, are you making her feel respect and attraction for you or are you turning her off?
For example: If a guy is interacting with his woman and he’s being insecure, jealous, or controlling, that isn’t going to make her feel respect and attraction, obviously.
However, if a man is interacting with his woman and he’s being confident and emotionally strong, then she’s going to feel respect and attraction for him.
Regain Her Respect First and Everything Else Will Flow on Naturally After That
So, what you need to understand is that if you want to make a woman love you again in a relationship, you’ve got to regain her respect (which is very easy to do) and then her attraction automatically starts to come back.
When that happens, the love starts to flow again.
She starts looking at you the way that she used to. She has those loving eyes. She wants to be affectionate towards you.
She wants to be close to you. It feels good to hug you and have sex with you and kiss you and be close to you. That makes her happy again.
Whereas, if a woman doesn’t respect her man and she doesn’t feel attracted to him, then it doesn’t make her happy to be close with him.
It doesn’t make her happy when he’s trying to have sex with her and she’s just not in the mood because she just doesn’t feel it.
She doesn’t respect him, doesn’t feel much attraction for him and therefore she’s not in love with him.
Yet, she’s waiting.
She’s waiting for him to flick that back on.
She’s waiting for him to regain her respect and allow her attraction to flick back on and the love to begin to flow once again.
By the way…
If you’d like to learn exactly how to get your woman to fall back in love with you again, I recommend that you watch or listen to my program, Make Her Love You for Life.
When you watch or listen to the program, you’ll learn exactly what to say and do to make your woman respect you, feel sexually attracted to you and be totally in love with you for life.
Love Doesn’t Die
Another thing that you need to understand about love is that it doesn’t die.
When a woman loves you in a relationship and then falls out of love with you, the love doesn’t die and completely disappear.
What happens is it that just goes into the background. It’s there in the background and it’s waiting to be activated again.
You can reactivate your woman’s feelings for you.
They don’t have to be turned off forever.
Feelings are not set in stone.
They can be turned back on and the process is that you get her respect back then her attraction starts to come back and the love starts to flow again.
It’s a completely natural process and it’s very easy to do.