If you are asking, “Where can I find single women?” you’d already be aware that you can find single women pretty much anywhere (e.g. at the mall, gym, on the street, at your workplace, at a dog park).
Statistically speaking, if you are in a public place, about 35% of the women will be single and secretly hoping to meet a guy.
All you need to do is be willing to start a conversation, make her feel attracted to you (e.g. by displaying confidence and charisma) and she will either tell you that she is taken or wait for you to make a move and ask for her number or to add you to social media.
Of course, despite single women being everywhere, there are some common places where there are lots of single women…
6 Common Places Where You Can Find Single Women
Some of the common places where you can find a lot of single women who are open to meeting and hooking up with a guy are:
1. Speed dating events
All the women and men who go to speed dating events are open to meeting someone they can hook up with, either for a one night stand, or for something more meaningful and long-lasting.
As long as you make the women feel attracted (e.g. by displaying confidence, charisma, being charming, making her laugh), you will get a lot of women who tick, “Yes” next to your name and want to exchange contact details with you.
In most speed dating events, you can expect to get a “Yes” match with at least 5 out 10 of the women you meet.
If you’re really skilled at making women feel attracted to you, that number might reach 8 out of 10.
You conversation skills will be very important if you go speed dating, so if you need a bit of help in that area, I recommend that you watch this video…
When talking to women at a speed dating event, be the good guy that you are, but be sure to add in some cheeky humor or challenging conversation at times.
For example: If she says that she works as a nurse, don’t just say, “Oh, that’s nice.”
Instead, smile and say, “Oh, a naughty nurse. I thought you looked innocent, but now I’m looking at you in a whole new light” and she will almost certainly laugh, smile and enjoy talking to you.
Being confident enough to joke around like that is attractive to women. Women know that in this challenging world that we live in, it’s usually much better to get into a relationship with a confident guy than an insecure, self-doubting guy who is too afraid to say anything out of the ordinary.
Although an insecure guy can succeed in life, a woman’s instincts tell her that she will have a better chance of surviving and prospering in life if she sticks with a confident guy.
2. Bars or nightclubs
Most of the single women who hang out in bars or nightclubs are open to meeting a single guy if he’s confident, easy-going.
Single women hope to find a guy who can make them feel attracted during an interaction and then lead that interaction to a phone number, kiss or sex that night.
3. Singles parties
Singles events are designed for single men and women to meet each other in a relaxed setting, mingle and have fun together with the possibility of hooking up.
If you go to a singles event, don’t be shy about approaching and having a chat with women.
Women want to be approached in a setting like that because they are hoping to find a match.
You could be that guy and she doesn’t want you to stand off to the side and just look at her.
She wants you to have the confidence to walk up to her, start a conversation, spark her feelings of attraction and then lead her to give you her phone number, kiss you or have sex that night.
4. Dance classes
These are great places to meet single women because the women usually outnumber the men in the class.
It is also the type of environment where you are given the opportunity to physically interact with women in a fun environment, while sharing a common interest.
Although not all the single women in dance classes will be there hoping to meet a guy, many of them will.
If you are getting along well with women at a dance class and none of them are single (highly unlikely, but possible), just ask them, “Hey, so do you have any single girlfriends you could set me up with?”
Women love to set people up and play matchmaker, so don’t be surprised if you get a few dates lined up.
5. Online dating sites
Although there are loads of single women on online dating sites and apps (e.g. like Tinder), the problem is that 1,000s of guys are hitting on the same girl as you.
Over the years, we’ve found that if you want to get laid or get a girlfriend via online dating, you have to be very good-looking or very persistent (often years of trying) before you get a result.
In our opinion, the best way to find single women is to approach them in person.
That way, it’s just you and her, not you, her and a 1,000 other guys trying to pick her up while you do.
If you don’t have the confidence to approach and talk to women, watch this video…
Approaching women in person might seem like a scary thing to do, but it really is exciting and has a much higher success rate than online dating.
For example: About 17% of Americans who are married and 20% who are in a committed relationship, say they met online.
In other words, 83% of married couples met in person and 80% of couples in a relationship met in person.
Unless you are really good looking, you will have a much higher success rate at picking up women in person than you will online.
Online, women have 1,000s of guys to choose from, so they become very superficial and choose guys based on looks, money, height and career/job.
In person, most guys are afraid to walk up and talk to single women, so when you do, it’s only you and her.
As long as you can make a woman feel attracted to you (e.g. by displaying confidence, being charismatic, making her laugh), most women will let go of their superficial ideas about what they want in a man and like you for who you are.
6. Hobby clubs
Not all the women who go to hobby clubs will be single, and not all the single women will be interested in hooking up, but this is still a great way to meet single women who are interested in the same things as you (e.g. cooking, art, hiking, running).
As you can see from the 6 examples above, finding single women is not the difficult part.
Single women are everywhere.
Yet, if you’ve already tried to meet single women many times before and have continually been told, “Sorry, I have a boyfriend,” or, “You seem really nice, but I’m seeing someone,” you’re probably wondering why every great woman that you meet is taken.
You could be just having a run of bad luck and meeting women who are taken, but it’s also possible that you simply don’t know how to attract women properly.
Watch this video for more info…
When a guy is able to actively attract women during interactions, he never has to go out of his way to find a single woman.
The single women he meets feel attracted to him and are open to being with him, so all he has to do is ask a woman out or move in for a kiss and he’ll get laid or have himself a new girlfriend.
You can have that power over your dating life too, but you must be able to actively attract women when you interact with them.
Do You Really Understand What Women Want in a Man?
One of the main reasons why so many guys struggle to get laid or find a girlfriend, is not because there are no single women, but because they don’t understand what women really want in a man.
Since what men want in a woman is for her to be physically attractive, they assume that a woman’s attraction for a man works in exactly the same way.
In other words, guys are mostly attracted to women for how they look, so many guys assume that women must be attracted to men for the same reasons.
If a guy believes that women are mostly attracted to men based on their appearance and then tries to hook up with a woman and she tells him she’s already taken, he might then make the assumption that:
- All the good looking guys have girlfriends.
- He doesn’t have a girlfriend because he’s not good looking.
However, that’s absolutely false.
The truth is, even though most guys would have sex with a woman regardless of whether she’s intelligent or even a nice person, simply because she is hot, most women (not all) do not base their decision of whether or not to be with a guy simply based on his looks (or financial or social status).
So, if you’ve been going around thinking that you’re striking out with women because of your looks or financial status, it’s only because you haven’t fully understood what women are attracted to in men.
Watch this video for more info…
As you will discover from the video above, guys make up all sorts of excuses about why they fail with women.
Yet, the real reason why guys struggle to get laid or get a girlfriend is that they simply don’t know how to actively attract a woman during an interaction.
Most guys hope to get a woman to “like” them as person, but what they don’t realize is that a woman only cares about how likeable a guy is as a person after he sparks her feelings of sexual attraction.
Women Are More Flexible About What Attracts Them to Men Than You May Realize
The majority of women are much more flexible about what they find attractive in a man than guys realize.
Almost all women are mostly attracted to how a guy makes her feel when he interacts with her, rather than how he looks.
For example: If a good looking guy approaches a beautiful woman and tries to pick her up, but behaves in an unattractive way (e.g. nervous, insecure and self-doubting), she will not remain fully attracted to him simply because of his good looks.
He might be able to get lucky sometimes or he might accept the many unattractive women who like him, but he won’t be able to attract the kinds of women he really wants.
Beautiful women get hit on by nervous, self-doubting good looking guys all the time and they simply reject them.
Why? Most beautiful women are more attracted to traits in a man that have nothing to do with his looks (e.g. confidence, charisma, charm).
If a guy behaves in ways that are naturally attractive to women, she usually won’t be too concerned if he doesn’t look like a male model.
If you don’t believe this is true, make a point of checking out all the couples the next time you go out in public.
You will see that most of the guys walking around with attractive and even hot girlfriends are just average guys, or guys that you might even perceive as being ugly.
So, the next time you think of using the fact that you’re not good looking enough, rich enough, have big muscles or whatever else you feel insecure about as an excuse why you’re not hooking up with hot, single women, remember this…
As long as you can trigger a woman’s feelings of sexual attraction by displaying some of the personality traits and behaviors that naturally attract women (e.g. confidence, charm, sense of humor, masculine vibe), most women will overlook the fact that you’re not very good looking, rich or famous.
That doesn’t mean every woman will accept a guy who isn’t physically perfect, but the majority of women will.
As long as a beautiful woman is feeling attracted to a guy for other reasons (e.g. because he’s being confident, charismatic, charming and making them laugh), she will usually be willing to overlook the fact that he’s not rich, good looking or famous.
2 Important Things You Should Do When You Meet Single Women
If you want to stop looking for single women and actually start having sex and get a girlfriend, here are two things that you should do the next time you see a woman you feel attracted to.
1. Approach her
Yes, this probably sounds like a no-brainer, but, you might be surprised at how many single guys go out to meet women, only to sit around waiting and hoping for a beautiful woman to make the first move and choose them.
Most women (not all), will avoid making the first move, or even showing too much interest. Why?
Most women like the idea of being feminine and girly in response to a man’s confidence and masculine vibe.
If she has to make the first move, she may feel as though she is taking on the role of the man.
Acting like the man will strip away her femininity and may make her feel like she is in the dominant position over him, which won’t make her feel feminine and girly.
Another reason why a woman won’t make the first move is because she wants to see if the guy is confident enough to approach her, start a conversation and make her feel attracted to him.
If a guy isn’t confident enough to approach her then she assumes that he probably won’t be confident enough to take on challenges in life as well.
Women don’t want to reward emotional weakness with sex, love and devotion because they instinctively know that it wouldn’t be good in the long run.
We live in a challenging world and her instincts make her feel that it is much more beneficial for her to be with a guy confident guy than a nervous, self doubting guy.
So, the next time you see a woman you feel attracted to, don’t wait around hoping she’ll approach you, or send you some sign that she’s single and interested.
Women are attracted to the emotional strength in men (e.g. confidence, high self-esteem, determination to succeed), and repelled by the emotional weakness (e.g. insecurity, nervousness, self-doubt).
You’ve got to be willing to be the courageous one and approach, rather than waiting for women to be courageous and make something happen with you.
Of course, not every woman that you approach will be single, and not every single woman will be compatible with you, but that’s not your fault.
It’s how nature works; no man is compatible with every woman he meets and no woman is compatible with every man that she meets.
However, even if a woman isn’t single or interested, you can still have a good time talking to her, so that the next time you approach a woman, you will be feeling even more confident in your ability to start a conversation, keep it going and keep it interesting for long enough to see if you and her a match.
When you approach a few single women and spark their feelings of attraction (e.g. by being confident, charismatic, making her feel girly and feminine in contrast to your masculine vibe, having a laugh together), you can be sure you won’t be single for long.
Sometimes, you might find the perfect girl the first time you approach. However, if you don’t find a match the first time, you might need to talk to a few more women before you meet the right girl for you.
2. Focus on making her feel attracted
Some guys make the mistake of thinking that the way to get a woman interested in kissing, sex and a relationship is to start out by making her like him as a person.
Here’s the thing…
Just because a woman likes a guy as a person or as a friend, it does not mean she is going to be interested in him sexually.
There’s nothing wrong with being a good guy and being nice to a woman, but that’s not will make her feel sexually attracted, aroused and eager to begin a relationship.
Unless you are actively triggering a woman’s feelings of sexual attraction for you, if you try to kiss her or ask her out, she is probably going to give you the, “Oh, you’re sweet, but I have a boyfriend,” or “I like you, but only as a friend,” speech.
Remember: Nothing happens without attraction.
Attraction comes first and then everything else will unfold naturally after that.
There are millions of single women out there who are secretly hoping to meet a guy who will trigger their feelings of sexual attraction and sweep them off their feet.
I say “secretly” because most women act like they don’t even want or need a boyfriend, but you can be sure than many of them cry themselves to sleep at night because they are lonely, while their girlfriends have a boyfriend or husband and are happily enjoying a relationship.
So, don’t think that you’re doing anything wrong by approaching a woman to say hi.
In most cases, she is going to be excited and appreciative that a good, decent man like yourself had the balls to walk up and start a conversation with her.
Don’t waste another day wondering, “Where can I find single women?”
Instead, the next time you see a woman you feel attracted to, simply walk up to her and focus on triggering her feelings of sexual attraction by displaying some of the personality traits and behaviors that are naturally attractive to women (e.g. confidence, charm, humor).
If you do that, she will feel attracted to you and you can then lead her from a conversation to kiss, to sex and into a relationship with you.