The secret to making a girl want to kiss you is to make her feel sexually attracted to you first.
If you’re just being friendly with her or being a standard nice guy, she might like you as a person, but she isn’t going to be feeling turned on by your approach.
Do you know how to trigger feelings of sexual attraction inside of a girl? Do you know how to turn a girl on by the way that you talk to her? Watch this video to understand how it works…
Movies Vs. Real Life
Have you ever noticed that in the movies and on TV, women often kiss a guy first? You will see a woman giving a guy the “come here” finger and she will then kiss him, or she will walk up and put her phone number in his pocket, walk off and say, “Call me.”
Why do women behave like that in movies and on TV? Simple. It’s designed to entertain the audience.
Girls watching the show will think, “Wow, I would never do that. That girl is ballsy!” and they are entertained by her behavior. They are amazed that a woman would go against the traditional role of a woman and be the one who actively tries to pick up a guy.
Guys watching the movie or TV show may think, “Wow! I wish that would happen to me!” Then, they wait around hoping that women approach them and talk to them because of how they look. Yet, it rarely, if ever happens.
The only time it happens is when a guy knows how to make a woman feel INTENSE attraction for him. He turns her on in several different ways and builds up her desire for him, to the point where she just has to have him.
Here’s how it works…
However, if a guy just sits around hoping that a girl will feel attracted to him because of his looks, he will be waiting a long time…
In the real world, women rarely approach men because they want a man to demonstrate that he has the confidence to lead the way. Instead approaching and leading men, women will usually send out signals to let a man know that they want to be approached.
Then, it’s up to you to have the confidence to approach. If you don’t have the confidence to approach girls you like, watch this…
The same rule applies to kissing…
Unless it’s in a movie or TV show, women will rarely make the first move and kiss a guy first. If a girl wants to be kissed by you, she’s going to give plenty of signals to let you know she’s ready and if you don’t pick up on those signals, she will eventually lose interest.
Some of those signals include:
- Looking at your lips and then back up to your eyes.
- Touching you softly and warmly.
- Looking at you in a submissive, girly way.
- Biting her bottom lip and looking you in the eyes.
- Playing with her necklace (i.e. twirling it around her finger).
- Reapplying lip gloss and make up, or adjusting her clothing to look more appealing to you.
If you see any of those signals, don’t wait around hoping for additional signals. If a woman is attracted to you and she’s giving you signals that she’s open to kissing you, then it’s time to make a move and kiss her.
Some women will show their desire to kiss you in a more obvious way than others, so you can’t rely on getting obvious, strong signals that she’s ready to be kissed. Simply focus on making her feel attracted to you and then when she gives you the signals, move in closer and the kiss will happen.
3 Mistakes That Will Kill Her Desire to Kiss You
It’s actually very easy to attract a woman and then kiss her. Yet, if you make one of the following mistakes, her desire to kiss you will rapidly decrease and she may reject you when you attempt to kiss her…
1. Asking for permission to kiss her
This was a great move back in the late 1800s to early 1900s when a woman had to save her virginity until marriage. Yet, in today’s world, it’s a move that will make a woman instantly lose interest in you.
She will realize that you don’t get what it really going on in the modern dating scene. You don’t know that people are having sex all the time. For example: A recent study found that 55% of couples had sex on their first date and 70% of women admitted to having experienced a one night stand.
In other words, sex happens all the time and it happens very quickly.
You don’t need to ask a girl for permission to kiss her. You simply need to make her feel attracted to you and then move in for a kiss. If a girl feels attracted to you, she will rarely, if ever reject your kiss.
If she does reject your kiss, it’s not because she isn’t interested in you, but because it’s not the right time and place. If a girl is attracted to you, then she will be interested in you, so if she rejects your kiss, simply say, “Oh, I thought it would okay to kiss here…do you not want to kiss here or something?” to show her that you understand.
2. Trying too hard to get her to like you
If you’re putting on an act of being an even nicer guy than you are, girls will feel turned off by it.
There’s nothing wrong with being nice to a girl you like, but if you’re too nice to her because you think it will impress her, then you will almost always get rejected when you try to kiss her. Here’s why…
3. Showing signs of nervousness while you hesitate to kiss her
If a girl has given you signals that she wants you to kiss her and you appear nervous and worried, she will rapidly begin to lose respect and attraction for you.
Women are attracted to confident guys, so when you want to kiss a girl, the most important thing you need to display is confidence. Letting her see that you are nervous is the quickest way to ruin her feelings for you…