The secret of how to make a woman laugh is to use what I call Playfully Arrogant Humor.
This is where you pretend to be arrogant in a playful way. It’s the type of humor that TV talk show hosts use, but it’s also the type of humor that guys like me (who get laid like crazy) use on women to get them turned on and enjoying my company.
Watch this video for an example…
Here are some more examples of how to make a woman laugh…
As you will discover from the videos above, making a woman laugh is about using the type of humor that will trigger her feelings of sexual attraction.
Playfully Arrogant Humor triggers a woman’s feelings of sexual attraction because you are demonstrating social confidence, social intelligence and masculinity. These are very important traits that help a man be a better survivor in this world.
In case you’re not yet aware, the attraction that women feel for men is directly linked to her instinctive analysis of his survival traits. In other words, are you the sort of guy who will have an easy or hard time surviving, thriving and prospering in this world?
Women Love Funny Guys
It’s common knowledge that women love a funny guy.
Yet, why is that the case? A while back, a team of scientists in the UK decided to conduct some research in an effort to uncover what makes women so interested in guys who can make them laugh.
According to the results of their study, which involved 45 women, being a “funny guy” makes a guy seem more intelligent and trustworthy in her eyes and that makes him more desirable in terms of forming a relationship.
Now, that isn’t to say that the guy with the highest IQ or test scores at college will be the funniest; that is academic intelligence. The type of intelligence that women are referring to is social intelligence, which is essentially the ability to get along with people and be successful in a social sense.
Social intelligence triggers a woman’s instinctive attraction based on the guy’s potential ability to survive, thrive and prosper in life. She may explain it as being “trustworthy,” but that’s because she’s not an evolutionary psychologist so she almost certainly hasn’t thought it about it from that perspective.
Head of the research team Mr McCarty said, “The reason a woman wants to look for a humorous guy is because it is a sign of intelligence and intelligence gives a man the ability to provide resources for their children and survive, rather than falling down a trap and dying.”
Personally speaking, I think McCarty didn’t explain his point very well because I don’t see any link between being socially intelligent and avoiding an animal trap.
I think McCarty failed to recognize that humans have many different types of intelligence and being a successful hunter and gatherer, doesn’t automatically equate to intelligence or the ability to crack a joke.
This “study” is one of many examples you will find in the world today, where people who seem like experts (because they are the “head of a research team”) are just as clueless as most people when it comes to the topic of why women are attracted to certain traits in men.
Either that or he was just trying to sound funny and as a result, he didn’t get is point across properly.
An Example of How to Make a Woman Laugh
Imagine that you’ve just walked into a Starbucks to order a coffee.
As you go up to the counter to place your order, a pretty woman walks up at the same time. You can either be a boring gentleman and let her go in front of you (and then forget you), or you can make her laugh and feel attracted to you.
Here’s how to get her to laugh:
- You: [Smile and say] Okay, little Miss Pushy, hey? How rude! 🙂 Fine…you can go in front of me, but you have to pay for my coffee and get me one of those chocolate cakes.
- Her: [Laughing].
- You: No, just kidding. You only have to get me the coffee.
- Her: [Laughing].
- You: [Smile and say] Okay, fine – no coffee, but take me out to dinner.
- Her: [Still laughing].
- You: [Laugh with her and then say] Just kidding. I’m Dan by the way, what’s your name?
See how it works?
You’re just being playful, but you’re also being confident.
I refer to this as being Playfully Arrogant (i.e. you are not actually being arrogant. You are pretending to be arrogant in a playful way and that it what women find so funny). I give 50+ examples of Playfully Arrogant Humor in my ebook The Flow
Genuine vs. Trying Too Hard
Some guys go way too far with their attempts to make a woman laugh, which then causes them to come across as weird, fake or untrustworthy. The woman wonders why the guy is trying so hard to impress her, which causes her instincts to kick in and assume that something isn’t quite right.
So, if you’re going to add the ability to make women laugh as a part of your overall attractive personality, make sure that you don’t end up like one of the following guys…
1. The Try Hard
He gets lists of jokes from the internet and tries to say them to women (and people) whenever he can. He knows that people like funny guys and that women are attracted to guys who can make them laugh, so he tries really hard to get people to like him by listing off jokes and hoping to get a reaction.
People notice his desperation and he ends up looking like more of a loser than ever before. People might not tell him that, but they will laugh at him behind his back and usually just let him continue making a fool of himself.
He might notice that some women laugh at his jokes and he will waste loads of time wondering whether or not she likes him. In most cases, no one is there to tell him that simply making a woman laugh is not the key to getting laid or making her your girlfriend.
A woman will assess a guy’s overall personality and confidence and how that makes her feel. If he is funny, but pretty much everyone looks down on him as a loser, she isn’t going to be feeling instinctively attracted to his ability to survive, thrive and prosper.
Instead, her instincts are going to tell her that he’d have a hard time getting along with others and therefore would most-likely struggle to survive, thrive and prosper throughout life.
Trying too hard to be liked by using humor can also lead to a guy trying too hard to say the “right” thing. Instead of being himself and saying what he really thinks in a conversation, he will focus on saying whatever he thinks others want to hear.
This can lead to him stifling his natural sense of humor and being too cautious or politically correct. Since he is not being his genuine self, his unique wit and humor won’t shine through and he will come across as awkward or as having a weird vibe about him.
Watch this video to learn where guys go wrong when talking to women and what you can do instead to get women laughing, enjoying your company and wanting to be sexual with you…
2. The Uncool Joker
He isn’t a very cool guy (i.e. he lacks social intelligence), so most of the jokes he cracks are lame. A guy like this needs to focus on learning more about people, socializing and attracting women before he will be seen as a cool, funny guy that people like and women are attracted to.
Guys Who Get Laid For Being Funny
Just like there are guys who get rejected by women for using humor in the wrong way, there are also guys who get it right and get laid or get a girlfriend as a result.
These guys are…
1. The Dedicated Funny Guy
He dedicates his life to be being funny or even working as a comedian. If he is good, people love him and women line up to be with him.
2. The Cool, Confident Guy Who Cracks Jokes Whenever He Feels Like it
He is a cool, confident guy who doesn’t put on an act for anyone. He’s an alpha male and people look up to him and respect him. Whenever he cracks a joke, people laugh louder, harder and longer because it is coming from such a cool guy that they respect.
The Right Way to Use Humor to Improve Your Results With Women
Instead of using humor to put on a song and dance for women (or people), just integrate it as one part of your personality.
If you want to base your whole life on humor and being funny, then great, but if you’re like most guys (me included), humor should really only be one of the ways that you attract women.