Most beautiful women are less picky about a guy’s looks than you think.
Additionally, while you might think you don’t look good enough for a beautiful woman, the truth is that you can actually make women look at your physical appearance in a more positive light. How?
When you make a woman feel attracted to you for other reasons (e.g. charm, humor, confidence, masculine vibe, etc), she will actually look at your physical appearance in a more positive light because she is feeling attracted to who you are as a guy.
While it is true that some beautiful women will only ever have sex with a perfectly good looking guy who is tall and has loads of money, most beautiful women have what I call an Open Type, which means that they are open to having sex with many different types of guys (and even marrying them) if the guy can make her feel enough attraction in other ways.
As you may have seen, even guys that you might consider to be “ugly” can and do pick up beautiful women all the time (some photo proof).
Making Her Feel Attracted to You
As long as you are confident during an interaction with a woman and can make her feel attracted to you in other ways (e.g. charm, humor, flirting, masculine vibe, etc), most women will give you a chance.
A woman would rather be with a confident guy who isn’t good-looking (i.e. average looking or below average looking) than a good-looking guy who is nervous around her, intimidated by her and who would likely become clingy in a relationship.
Imagine that you’re at a busy nightclub and notice a very beautiful woman you’d love to meet. You would really like to approach and talk to her, but you’re not exactly a male model. You’re just…well…average. So, what are you going to do? Should you go over and talk to her?
“No,” you say to yourself, “I can’t do that. She’s probably used to having handsome guys in her life and might even have a good-looking boyfriend. She’ll most likely reject a guy like me in an instant. What’s the point of trying?”
If you approach a beautiful woman with that attitude, then you are right – she is going to reject you. Why? Women are attracted to the strength in men and turned off by the weakness. So, when you appear nervous around her or seem to be second-guessing yourself, she will be turned off by your mental and emotional weakness.
Gift Wrapping Example
Two people give you presents for your birthday. One has it professionally wrapped in expensive paper and decorated beautifully with ribbons and says to you, “I didn’t know what to get you, so I got you some stupid shirt. If you don’t like it, you can return it.”
The other person happily hands you their present with a smile. It’s unwrapped and still in the plain, original department store gift box, but the person confidently says, “I wanted to get you something special and when I saw this, I knew you’d love it.”
It’s exactly same shirt as the other person got you, but this present was given to you with a very different approach. You don’t need two identical shirts. So which one would you keep? The one that was given to you with love has more meaning, but if you’re a superficial person then you might want to keep the one with the pretty wrapping to make yourself feel good.
That’s about how it works when women judge men on looks. Some women want guys who “look good” because it will make them feel better, whereas most women just want a guy who makes them FEEL good.
Have you ever seen a beautiful woman reject a handsome guy after a few minutes? Of course you have. Why? In most cases, all he has to offer her is his “beautiful wrapping paper” and nothing more.
He thought that his good looks should have been enough to impress her, but most women need to feel sexually attracted to a man’s personality before they will become truly interested in being with him. That is why you see average and below-average looking men walking along with a beautiful girlfriend; these men attract women just by being themselves.
If a good looking guy lacks confidence, conversation skills and charisma, a woman will quickly lose interest in him. After a few minutes of seeing him awkwardly try to keep the conversation going and appearing nervous while doing it, she will begin to realize that what she is looking is little more than an empty box.
Most women will then reject him and keep looking for a man of substance.
You’ve Got to Believe in Yourself
As a man, most of your success with women simply comes down to believing in yourself. You have to believe that you are not only good enough, but that you are more than good enough…especially when you’re talking to attractive women.
If attractive women can see that you believe in yourself and don’t get nervous around them, they will be much more eager to kiss you, go on dates with you and have sex with you.