In most cases, when a woman gives you mixed signals, she is simply testing to see how confident you really are.
If you become nervous or begin to doubt her attraction for you, she will lose interest in you. If you remain confident and believe that you are good enough for her, she will feel attracted to you.
Regardless of what a woman says or does, the most important thing that you need to do is make her feel attracted to you. When a woman feels attracted to you, she will automatically like you and be interested in having sex or even a relationship with you.
However, she won’t always be clear with her signals. Some girls like to test a guy’s confidence, while other women are shy and don’t show a lot of consistent interest because they are afraid of being rejected.
So, whatever you do, don’t waste time trying to work out whether or not a woman likes you. Simply make her feel attracted to you and then confidently take things to the next level (e.g. phone number, kiss, sex and relationship).
Do you know how to make women feel attracted to you? Watch this video to find out…
Why Do Women Have to Make it So Difficult?
Most guys don’t understand the reality that women live in.
If the woman that you like is attractive, then most guys would be willing to have sex with her simply based on her appearance. A lot of those guys would also be happy to have a relationship with her, even if she isn’t a perfect match for them.
It’s because of this predicament that attractive women prefer men who are more of a challenge…
If the woman you like has been giving you mixed signals, it’s important that you don’t lose confidence in yourself. In most cases, she will be hoping that you can be brave enough to believe in your attractiveness to her and keep pushing forward.
When you do have sex with her and begin a relationship, you will be surprised at how madly in love she falls. A woman who likes a guy who is more a challenge can rarely find a guy who has enough confidence to keep pushing forward.
In most cases, she has to settle for a guy who feels so lucky to be with her, but with whom she hardly feels anything for.
You’ve finally met the right girl for you, but the question is; does she think that you are the right guy for her?
She gives you all the signals that say she is interested in you; you have good conversations, you flirt and she’s even given you her phone number. All is going well and then nothing! She starts ignoring you and suddenly she goes cold. When that happens, it’s only natural that you are left feeling confused and wondering why do women give mixed signals?
How Did You React When She Started Giving You Mixed Signals?
Sometimes a woman will show her interest in a guy one day and then pretend not to be interested the next day. Why? She wants to see whether or not he will chase her and how much he likes her.
If she is a beautiful woman, she doesn’t want to see the guy lose confidence in himself and feel like he has ruined his opportunity with her. Instead, she wants to see that he continues to talk to her and make her feel attracted to him.
You might have heard women saying, “I like a guy who knows what he wants and isn’t afraid to get it” and this is a classic example of what women really think about men who fearlessly pursue them.
However, don’t get “fearlessly pursue” mixed up with “desperately pursue.” A beautiful woman doesn’t want to be pursued by a guy who usually can’t attract other women and is now desperate to get a chance with her because she showed him a little bit of interest.
A beautiful woman want to be pursued by a confident guy who is also making HER feel a lot of attraction for him.
It’s easy for the guy to be attracted to her because she is beautiful, but if he is unable to make her feel attracted in the more important ways (e.g. confidence, charisma, charm, etc), she usually isn’t going to be feeling enough attraction to warrant kissing him, going on a date with him or being his girlfriend.
A lot of guys ask me, “Why can’t it just be more simple Dan? Why do women have to make things so complicated. I like her, she likes me. What’s with all the games she’s playing?”
Yet, what these guys don’t realize is that she’s simply trying to find a guy who makes her feel the type of attraction that she wants. She also wants to find a guy who is a good match for her level of intelligence (emotional, social, academic, etc) and level of experience with love and relationships.
Take Charge of the Situation
Instead of wasting time thinking about all the mixed signals that a woman is giving you, simply take charge of the situation.
The guys who are naturally good with women (or those who have learnt from me) don’t wait for loads of positive signals before making a move on a woman.
A guy who is good with women knows that women find him sexually attractive, so he just approaches a woman that he likes and then guides her to kissing and sex. After sex, a relationship begins…