When a guy asks, “Does she like me more than a friend?” he’s often looking for some kind of failsafe way to know for sure how she feels, before “making a move” or asking her out on a date.
That way, he can rule out the potential for rejection and not ending up ruining his friendship or professional relationship with her.
So, what is that failsafe way?
When you make a woman feel sexually attracted to you, she will naturally like you more than a friend.
She will begin to look at you in a sexual way and if you build up enough sexual tension between you (this can be done during a 5-10 minute interaction), she will feel like she needs to release that sexual tension by kissing you and having sex with you.
Do you know how to make women feel sexually attracted to you during an interaction? Do you know how to build up the sexual tension between you and a woman?
Watch this video to find out…
As you will discover from the video above, you don’t have to worry about whether or not this woman likes you. You can literally make her feel attracted to you in more than 100 different ways.
For example: You can attract her by being confident, charismatic, making her laugh, having a masculine vibe that makes her feel girly around you, etc. There are so many ways that you can turn her on and make sure that she likes you more than just a friend.
Should You Tell Her That You Like Her?
Only if you have made her feel very attracted to you first.
When a guy tells a girl that he likes her and want to date her, she will usually play hard to get if he hasn’t made her feel a lot of attraction for him beforehand.
If she only “kind of” likes him and isn’t sure whether she wants anything more than friends, she will usually say something like, “I don’t want to ruin our friendship” or “Sorry if I gave you the wrong idea, but I’m not looking for a boyfriend right now” or “Thanks, but I think we’d be better off as friends.”
So, what is the solution?
To make it 100% certain that she likes you, first make her feel a lot of attraction and then be a challenge for her to win over. Watch this video below to understand how that works and why women prefer guys who are a challenge…
As you will discover from the video above, if the woman that you like is attractive, she will be bored of how easily guys like her without her having to anything other than look good.
Most guys refuse to give a woman the experience of winning him over because they think it is wrong, rude, mean or silly mind games to be a challenge.
Yet, as you will discover from the video above, you will actually be giving a woman an exciting, highly desired gift if you attract her and then make her have to impress you to win you over.
Liking You as a Friend Doesn’t Mean That She Wants to Be Your Girlfriend
Some guys make the mistake of thinking that a woman liking him as a friend is the same as a woman being romantically or sexually interested.
Here’s the thing…
A woman can like a guy as a friend without feeling ANY sexual attraction for him or having any reason to want to be his girlfriend. So, don’t make the mistake of being a woman’s “best friend” and thinking that being a “likeable” guy will make her want to be in a romantic relationship with you.
That kind of fantasy storyline plays out in Hollywood movies and TV sitcoms, but in real life, women simply hook up with guys who make them feel attracted and turned on…even if the guy isn’t the nicest guy in the world.
Of course, there is nothing wrong with being nice to women, but if you want to get laid or get a girlfriend, you’ve got to be willing to say and do the types of things that turn women on, rather than just expecting that women will want you because you’re nice.
Many guys mistakenly think that when a woman says, “I want a nice guy” it means that she wants a really nice, polite guy who will treat her like a princess. Yet, what it really means is that she wants a good guy who also makes her feel sexually turned on.
When a guy doesn’t understand that key difference, he will waste a lot of time and energy trying to show women that he’s a nice, trustworthy guy who is willing to wait as long as it takes to finally get a chance to be with her.
Yet, no matter how nice he behaves around women, how well he treats them, they just keep rejecting him and laughing at him behind his back.
In his mind, he might think that women are crazy bitches and only want bad boys, but what is really going on is that he’s missing the point of what women are REALLY saying.
He may think, “I’m a nice guy. Why are women so mean to me? Can’t they see that I’m a good guy and will treat them well?”
Yet, what he doesn’t understand is that women don’t want an ass-kissing nice guy who is overly polite to women in the hope that women take pity on him and give him a chance for being such a doormat. What women want in a good guy who ALSO makes them feel sexually attracted and turned on.
It’s not enough just to be nice; you’ve also got to turn her on.
Women know that just because a guy is nice in the beginning, it doesn’t mean he will be nice later on in a relationship.
Common Mistakes That Guys Make When Trying to Get a Female Friend to Like Them
If you just want to be her friend, then go ahead and do whatever you want for her. Be the best friend she’s ever had.
However, if you want to have a sexual relationship with her, I would recommend that you avoid making the following classic mistakes…
1. Being at her beck and call
When your friendship with this woman has led to you always being “on call” for her and being available to run to her whenever she needs you, then she is definitely not looking at you as a potential boyfriend.
In fact, she’s most likely using you to boost her self-esteem (because she knows how much you like her), so she can feel more confident in herself and her value as a woman when she is around other guys who make her feel attracted.
It’s the “always-there-for-her” guy in the movies who eventually “gets the girl” when she realizes that she has been in love with him all along. Yet, it rarely works out that way in the real world.
Real women are attracted to men who are in demand by other women, men who have lots going for them (i.e. they are on their way to success or are already successful) and have cool things going on in their life.
A guy who has his pick of women doesn’t have to try too hard to be liked by being on call for a woman as her “helper friend.”
He might be generous enough to help her out every now and then, but if he usually isn’t going to have any spare time to be her errand boy because he will be having sex with other women, rising through the levels of whatever he is trying to achieve in life or hanging out with his friends and enjoying life.
Here’s the thing…
The harder it is for a woman to get a guy’s attention, the more she will work at chasing him down and making sure she gets his attention. Guys who understand what really attracts women don’t have to waste time wondering, “Does she like me more than a friend?” because he will already know that she wants him.
2. Being a shoulder to cry on
In the same way that being at her beck and call will make you less attractive as a man, being a shoulder to cry on will usually have the same effect.
Being the person she turns to when she’s upset (e.g. about being dumped by a bad boys ) makes you the guy that she can rely on to always be there for her, even though she’s not always there for you or is not giving you what YOU want from the relationship (i.e. sex).
If you’re the guy that she uses to complain about other guys and cry to when she gets dumped, then you feel like one of her girlfriends or gay guy friends, rather than the guy that she wants to sex with. The mistake here is in thinking that being the guy that she turns to will eventually lead to her realizing that you’re “the one” for her.
If you’re making that mistake, then wake up. You’re not a fictional character in a Hollywood movie. If you want to have sex with her now, simply start turning her on when you interact with her and then when you’ve built up enough sexual tension, she will either tell you that she likes you or she will make it completely obvious that she does.
If you see yourself as a “nice guy,” the idea of not being available to a female friend may worry you. You might think that she will see you as mean, selfish or accuse you of not caring about her anymore and then want to end the friendship.
3. Being extra nice in the hope that she will “like” you for it
A lot of guys make the mistake of trying to get women to like them, instead of getting the woman to feel sexual attraction. Liking you doesn’t make her want to take her panties off, but sexual attraction does.
Be a Good Guy, But Be a Strong Good Guy
It’s a fact of nature that women are attracted the emotional strength (e.g. confidence, determination, etc) in men and turned off by the weakness (e.g. nervousness, insecurity, anxiety).
If you are a good guy and you want women to desire you sexually, you have to display emotional strength when you interact with them. As long as you do that, most women will feel naturally attracted to you.
If you want to make sure that a woman feels attracted to you, simply trigger her feelings of attraction in other ways (e.g. charisma, humor, masculine vibe, etc). The more ways that you can attract a woman, the more irresistible you become.