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Flirting Tips For Men

Flirting gets her to take a sexual interest in you, rather than just seeing you as a friend.

You can use the following flirting tips for men to charm any woman you meet. My flirting techniques work on women you have just met or women you already know.

By using the following flirting tips and other dating strategies that I will to teach you (if you sign up for my free video series), you will know how to go from a simple conversation to kissing and having sex with a woman of your choice.

What Do I Know About Flirting?

I discovered the art of flirting about 5 years ago, when I had hit rock bottom in my dating life. Basically, most women would only ever see me as 'friend', rather than a potential lover or boyfriend because I was always being too nice, too polite and lacking the all-important sexual vibe that flirting creates. Back then, if I did manage to start dating a woman by pure luck, she would lose interest in me pretty quickly. It was weird...even though I could get women to talk to me and go on dates with me, they just weren't interested in me in a sexual way and I didn't know why. Initially, I thought there might be something wrong with me or maybe I just wasn't good looking enough. Luckily, I eventually discovered that the missing ingredient was flirting.

What is Flirting?

Flirting is the indirect communication of sexual interest between a man and a woman. In other words, it is how to express your sexual interest in a woman without having to say something awkward like, "Hey, I'd like to have sex with you tonight or sometime soon. Would you like to have sex with me?"

When you flirt with a woman, it communicates the following message to her without you actually having to say it, "I'm attracted to you sexually and I am considering having sex with you." However, that isn't the best part about flirting. The best part is that flirting also asks her the question, "Are you interested in me in a sexual way?" without you having to ask her that awkward question...EVER.

Once you have flirted with a woman, you simply need to look at her response to your flirting and you will see a clear, "Yes - I am interested in you!" or "No thanks!" response based on the changes in her body language, words and behavior. She will NOT react like women do in the movies, where they slap a guy or tip a drink over his head. In the real world, women respond with clear yes or no responses via their body language and level of participation in the flirting exchange. If a woman flirts back at you and enjoys the flirting exchange, it is clear sign that she is interested in you. However, to truly know if she is interested, you must also know how to look for a woman's signals of interest, which we teach here at The Modern Man. Sign up for free to watch these free videos and you will learn very quickly.

What's a Good Flirting Technique to Start With?

I have heaps of flirting tips and techniques that I want to share with you, but let's start with a simple one called "The Subtle, Sexual Smile." You can use this smile when you are talking to a woman for the first time, or even if you have known her for years. It will always get the desired effect. It isn't a sleazy type of smile, but rather it is a relaxed, confident and slightly mischievous smile that discreetly communicates your sexual interest in her.

The smile is best used 1-2 times during a 5-minute conversation with a woman. You'll notice that it completely changes the dynamic of the conversation from being 'friendly' to being 'friendly, but sexual'. This type of smile works because it is a subtle communication of your sexual interest in a woman (i.e. you don't ever have to say, "Hey I like you and want to have sex with you" ...you just have to use this smile and she will know). Despite what you might see in the entertaining scripts of Hollywood movies, in the real world women really do appreciate this type of communication and they welcome it with open arms.

The Subtle, Sexual Smile has another benefit as well. Since you are not actually saying that you want to have sex with her by using words, the woman will notice that you're smiling in a sexual way and think, "What does that smile mean? Does he like me, or?" She will then try to find out if you do like her, by flirting back at you. This, of course, is a VERY good thing because it shows you that she likes you and is feeling sexual attraction for you.

When you use my flirting techniques correctly, women will respond positively and usually by smiling a BIG smile and saying, "Whaaat?". This is a dead giveaway that she likes you and is enjoying how you're now making her feel. Women love a guy who is mysterious and using flirting is the best way to display that particular quality. Whereas, women become bored and quickly lose interest in guys who are afraid to show sexual interest in any way. Personally speaking, I used to be afraid to show sexual interest in women I met because I mistakenly believed that you had to be friendly to a woman first and get to know her, before any of that stuff was allowed. However, as I discovered when I came across flirting, you can do it immediately and women WANT you to.

How Do You Make Women Feel Right Now?

So, what usually happens when you talk to a woman? When you talk to a woman you like, are you usually able to make her feel sexually attracted to you? Or do most women simply talk to you in a friendly or even distant way?

Believe me, when you know how to flirt with women properly, you will see a MASSIVE change in the way women treat you. For example: When I'm out at a shopping mall, I'm able to use another flirting technique that women LOVE to experience that makes women smile and flirt with me WITHOUT me having to say ANYTHING to them first. If you're looking for flirting tips for men that give you the edge over other guys, then my secret flirting techniques will literally change your life overnight, so make sure you sign up for free and start learning all the good stuff. I want your e-mail because I want to teach you cool techniques and if you like my techniques, you might then be interested in getting some of my advanced programs that have even cooler, more powerful techniques. I will always send you awesome e-mails with secret links to videos, hidden articles and podcasts. Or, you might want to check out my friend's site called Flirtdegree. He recommends the book, the http://www.flirtdegree.com/tao-of-badass.

When I started using ALL of the flirting tips that I have discovered, I went from being seen as a 'just a friend' by women and being single and lonely for about 2 years, to having my CHOICE of women. These days, I'm always involved in loving, sexual relationships with beautiful women. It only takes a bit of flirting and I can make pretty much ANY woman want to have sex with me and be my girlfriend. Do you want to have the same power over your dating life? Let me teach you. I promise I will really help you. Over 60,000 guys from all over the world learn from my newsletter. Don't miss out. Sign up for free and I will send you a secret link to an amazing video series I created...and you can watch it 100% free.

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24 Comments

  • Matthew  

    Very cool! I have always been making the mistake of asking girls if they like me. I only properly heard about flirting a few days ago when a girl from work explained it to me.

    Reply
  • Adrian H  

    I was the same as the other guy Matthew – asking women if they’d like to be my girlfriend…! Changed my approach 2 months ago to make women attracted to me first, then let it happen naturally…now I am getting results. Slept with a woman last week for the first time in 2 years! I know, I know – horrible! But it is awesome to be back in the game. Thanks for the flirting tips – they work!

    Reply
  • Hugh  

    Some really solid advice here! Gonna try and put some of it to practice tonight ;D

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    • naz  

      yeh! its similar to applying for a job. if you put your application for the post of friend all you get will friendship. if you apply for charming romantic and sexual relation, then you need to add cheeky smiles in your eye contacting application.

      Reply
  • Kevin  

    Hey Dan,

    I have no problem talking and flirting with women and I’m confident but I think I may be coming on too strong. Women seem to enjoy talking with me, I make them laugh we flirt but when it comes down to it they clam up (no pun intended). I’ve even had some women who I’m friends with that I’ve flirted with tell me I’m a playa and such, funny thing is, I’m not. So, can you come on too strong and do you have tips on this subject?

    Thanks,

    Kevin

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  • Hi Kevin

    Thanks for your question.

    What do you mean by they clam up? Do they tell you they’re not interested? Please explain further so I can provide more specific advice for you.

    Cheers
    Dan

    Reply
  • justin  

    Sup guys! Hey dude that’s awsome advise! But I know this girl for three years now and I realy like her but I just see her like on decembers, this is kinda embaresing but she says I’m sexy and cute but I’m too young for her,, I’m three years yonger than her! But I know that love is a connection so powerful that age doesn’t even matter right? So I just want little more tips if you guys don’t mind giving me! Thanx!

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    • Hi Justin

      Thanks for your positive feedback and question.

      Yes, love is a powerful thing, but it sounds like you’re approaching it in the wrong way. You see, a woman wants to feel lucky to get you, rather than feeling like she is doing you a favor or “giving in” to accept your proposal. You need to make her chase YOU Justin. She should be worrying whether you really like her, not the other way around. She should be falling madly in love with you and trying to get you to feel the same way. That’s what she wants.

      Check out my book for all the answers on how to be successful with women. Log in here for more info.

      Cheers
      Dan

      Reply
  • Kit Quiton  

    Very nice approach. Genuine and true. I hope I can do this and be a master in the art of flirting. Thanks man.

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  • Ashly  

    Wow, Im a chick and, that actually would work, I mean yea were not going to say yes if you ask us if we like you, or wish to pleasure yourself, (& us ;D) but flirt a little and you can be in bed doing us in no time! This will for sure work! ;D

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  • coolio  

    Ah man i need help… i know this girl for 20 weeks and i love this chixk, i went with friend and with the giel in our car and we drove to the pizzeria we gt all three a roller pizza and we ate it ad thr parking place ,i was silenced thebwholle time and i didnt knew what to say.. instead of my friend.. he was playing around with her and trowing the folie to her and they were just having a goos time.. i talk with her tru whatsapp and there she says im cute and handsome.. on whatsapp i chat to this girl non stop and im sure shes laughing her ass out when i say something.. why cant i talk normal to her in real. What the fc is wrong??? HELP plzz

    Reply
    • Hey Coolio

      Yes, good question. Don’t worry – millions of guys struggle with the same problem. Sign in to my newsletter and I will begin teaching you how to overcome that fear. I’ll send you free videos, audio clips and interviews, articles and reports. If you like what you’re learning, you can then decide if you want to invest in my premium advice where I reveal all of my most powerful secrets for success with women.

      Cheers
      Dan

      Reply
  • Joe  

    Don’t forget to play hard to get. This works best if accuse/tease her that she wants you…and you disqualify her with something…like too bad your not my type. Make sure your playful, not serious. Lastly women like test you, but only if they’re interested. They test you to see if your a wuss and give them the power. Keep the power, either ignore,be absurd or use humor to turn it around.

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    • Hi Joe

      Thanks for your input.

      However, sorry to say that you’ve got most of it it wrong.

      1. You don’t PLAY hard to get and try to trick a woman into thinking you have standards. You HAVE standards and only accept women you want. “Playing” hard to get means you are faking it and are actually desperate, rather than picky with women.
      2. You can be playful or serious – it’s up to YOU. You, as the man, get to decide how you act. Women respect men who can be themselves.
      3. Women test you whether they are interested or not. People are always testing each other to see who is the more dominant one, what the hierarchy is within a group, etc.

      You are obviously someone who is on his way to becoming good with women, but you’re not there yet. If you want to be truly successful with women, stop looking around the net and start learning from me. I’ve been at the mastery level of success with women for 7 years now.

      Cheers
      Dan

      Reply
  • doub  

    Hello,
    I got this girl that I met I got her number and every thing…like I’m really off to a good start…I dn’t want to mess it up.give me a new and better idea on how to get her to go on a date with me…I want to Imprese…

    Reply
    • Hi Doub

      Thanks for your comment.

      If you want those tips, sign up here for free and I will send you a secret link to a free video series I created. You will learn exactly how to impress this new girl you’ve found.

      Cheers
      Dan

      Reply
  • Aditya  

    Hey Dan ,
    Hwz drr??
    I just wana let u knw, that I’m very bad in flirting , whenever m in front of gals , I know i always behave as dumbo person and gals 100% think m kind f boring and uninterested person.
    So plz do let me knw the solution of mah problem.
    I am eagerly waitin for ur reply with a solid solution.

    AdityA

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  • kostas  

    Hi Dan…undoubtedly cool stuff..i have already bought 2 of your programms, flow firsty and after dating power before 5 months…i have surely huge improvement but there is a problem, I use to come back to old bad habits and I need to read again…this is no problem actually, I like to read your programms..i think that I dont utterly understand the flirting..sometimed I use it petfrcty some other in the opposite way..how could u help me to solve it? Cheers friend Dan!

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    • Hey Kostas

      Thanks for your positive feedback and question.

      There are many examples of flirting in The Flow and Dating Power. If you want to understand more about the mechanics of flirting, I recommend you listen to this: http://store.themodernman.com/in/3885871

      You will understand flirting more when you use the flirting examples from our programs. Once you start doing it, it begins to make simple sense and later it becomes natural and automatic for you to flirt correctly with women.

      Cheers
      Dan

      Reply
  • kostas  

    Ok Dan, I ll give you an example that came to my mind and I would you tell me please if I use the flirting technique properly…in the example that I ask “if she stays we her parents” and the flirting here is is it because u are dont know cook :) , if add something like “i know I know the only you can cook is boiled sausages and after the main plate, bananas with melted chocolate…whats your opinion? Is it fine? I think its playfull cocky humor but she understsnd that its flirting, right? Thank u again Dan!

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    • Yes, that sounds fine mate. As long as you are smiling and being easy-going when saying it.

      If you want to hear examples of how to use flirting, I recommend that you listen to The Ultimate Guide to Conversation.

      Cheers
      Dan

      Reply
  • Taimur  

    Thanks a million Dan.

    I got The Flow and I’ve realized that now [Edited: Customer revealed a key technique from The Flow]. A few months ago I would not even connect!

    I am learning how to flirt and it is good. The one girl who is kinda receptive is the one who I flirt with and joke about her with.

    Awesome advice.

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    • Hey Taimur

      Great to hear mate.

      Yes, you’ll find that it just gets easier and easier from there. I look forward to seeing a comment from you where you say something like, “Hah! Now girls are trying to pick ME up.” If you truly put the advice from The Flow into action, that is what will happen.

      Cheers
      Dan

      Reply

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