The secret of how to get a woman to want you is simple…
Make her feel sexually attracted to you.
There are many ways that you can make a woman feel sexually attracted to you. For example, you can:
- Display confidence around her.
- Be charismatic and charming.
- Make her laugh and feel girly in your presence.
- Turn her on with flirting and your sexually charged, masculine vibe.
Watch this video to understand how a woman’s attraction works and how you can use it to get a woman to want you…
When you display the types of personality traits and behaviors that women feel attracted to, women will naturally want to be with you.
You don’t have to try hard to hopefully get women to “like” you enough to give you a chance. Instead, you’ve just got to know how to trigger her feelings of sexual attraction.
Do You Know What Women Really Want in a Man?
These days, it’s very easy for a guy to feel confused about what women really want in a man.
For example: If he turns on the TV, he will be told that he needs to be rich, good looking, famous and stylish to attract women. If he watches a Hollywood “romantic comedy” movie, he will notice that the awkward, shy guy always seems to get the hot girl by the end of the movie, because he saves the world or rescues her from a bad situation.
Likewise, if you listen to what women SAY that they want, you will often notice that what they SAY they want and what they actually feel attracted to are two completely different things.
For example: A woman might say that she wants a nice guy, but if a guy is too nice to her, she will reject him. Why? Watch this video to find out…
As you will discover from the video above, women do actually like “nice” guys, as long as the guy also has the ability to attract her and turn her on sexually.
For example: If a guy is nervous, anxious and insecure when he’s talking to a woman that he likes, then she’s not going to care if he is a nice guy or a bad boy, because she’s going to be feeling turned off by his emotional weakness.
On the other hand, if a confident, charismatic guy is talking to a woman and he is also being nice to her, she will see his approach as charming and attractive. She will be “charmed” because she will be feeling attracted and feeling good that he is also treating her nicely.
What Most Women Don’t Need
There are always going to be exceptions, but generally speaking, most women need the same types of things from me.
For example, most women don’t need…
1. A guy who looks like a male model
Yes, there are some women who will only accept a guy who has male model features, is tall and has loads of money, but most women actually don’t need you to have those things to justify being with you.
Most women are much more flexible with what they find attractive in a guy that many guys realize…
Most women are interested in who a man is on the inside and how he makes her feel when she is in his presence, not just how he looks. Sure, certain features might catch a woman’s eye initially, but looks alone can only get a guy so far.
If you lack confidence around women, don’t know how to attract them and find it difficult to keep a conversation going and keep it interesting, most women just aren’t going to be interested in you no matter what you look like.
To get a woman to want you sexually or more than just a friend, you have to display the personality traits and behaviors that will naturally turn her on.
Another thing that most women don’t need from a man is…
2. A guy who puts her on a pedestal
A common mistake that some guys make is to assume that a woman wants a man who throws himself at her feet and pledges undying love for her. This might be how it appears in the old 1940s Hollywood romances and in modern “romantic comedy” movies, but it’s not how it works in real life.
Sure, an unattractive woman will like that sort of treatment and may give a guy a chance if he wines and dines her for a while, but do you really want an unattractive woman who is going to make you work hard to impress her?
A lot of guys don’t realize that most women (especially the hot ones) want to find a guy who makes HER try to impress him and hope to get a chance with him. Watch this video to understand why…
As you will discover from the video above, it’s very easy for a woman to attract a man for sex. If she is decent looking, most guys will be willing to have sex with her at least once.
If she is hot, then she is most-likely really bored with the same old approach that guys take when they meet her (i.e. guy feels attracted, tries hard to impress her, puts up with her bad behavior, hopes that she might eventually give him a chance one day, etc).
Putting a woman on a pedestal like that instantly makes a guy appear insecure and unsure of his ability to attract other women, which is a turn off for women. If a woman is attractive, she will want to be able to use her attractiveness to get herself a guy that other women want.
She’s not going to want to waste her hotness on a guy who other women (even unattractive women) aren’t interested in. She’s going to want to get a fair value exchange for her beauty (i.e. she is just as attracted to him as he is to her, rather than only him being attracted to her).
If you want to know how to get a woman to want you, you need to display the alpha male qualities that make you stand out as a man who has his pick of women. The harder a woman has to work to attract and maintain your interest in her, the more she will want to get your attention all to herself.
However, don’t try to play hard to get if you don’t know how to attract other women. If a woman notices that you’re playing hard to get with her, but if no other women seem to be interested in you or you don’t seem to have the ability to attract other women, she’s not going to be excited to secure you for herself.
A woman will know that you are worth chasing if you can trigger her feelings of sexual attraction for you when you interact with her. She will know that if you can make her feel that way, you will be able to attract other women too.
The next thing that most women don’t need in a man is…
3. A “bad boy”
If a guy considers himself to be a “nice” guy, but notices that the women he likes are attracted to guys who aren’t as nice as he is, he will often make the mistake of thinking that women want a bad boy who treats them mean.
Yet, what is really going on in most cases is that the “nice” guy is making the mistake of thinking that the key to a woman’s heart is to treat her like a princess and be really, really nice to her.
What he doesn’t understand is that women do like nice guys, but only if the nice guy also makes her feel sexually attracted (e.g. by being confident, charismatic, masculine, flirtatious, etc).
Women do not want a bad man to treat them mean or disrespect them, but many women would rather have sex with a bad boy than a weak, wimpy, overly-nice guy. That doesn’t mean that a bad boy is a woman’s perfect type of guy, but that he is simply making her feel more attraction than the nice guy (e.g. by being masculine, confident, etc).
What almost all women really want is a confident, emotionally strong good guy because he is not only attractive, but he is also a better option for the long term compared to a reckless bad boy.
Yet, finding a confident, emotionally strong good guy is like finding a needle in a haystack, so many women make do with a bad boy until something better comes along.
Being the Type of Man That Most Women Want
If you are interested in being the type of man that most want, then you need to start by improving your ability to attract women.
Although there are some women out there who place a lot of importance on a guy’s looks and money, the majority of women are much more open and flexible about what they find attractive in a guy.