If you’re looking for advice on how to make a woman like you, it’s safe to say that you’re not actually looking for advice on how to make a woman like you as a friend, but to like you in a sexual way, right?
Assuming that it’s more than friendship you’re after with a woman, the first mistake you are making is trying to get her to “like” you as a guy, rather than focusing your attention to turning her on by triggering her feelings of sexual attraction for you.
If you aren’t making her feel sexually turned on by how you interact with her, she isn’t going to thinking, “Wow, he’s such a nice guy. I want to start a relationship with him!” Instead, she’s simply going to be switched off around you and will only properly switch on when you begin to trigger her feelings of sexual attraction.
A woman can like a guy as a friend without seeing him as a potential boyfriend…ever. So, if it’s more than friendship you want, you need her to feel that she wants more than friendship from you.
If you don’t focus on triggering her feelings of sexual attraction, it doesn’t matter how long you’ve “known her” as a friend or how great you get along when you chat; if another guy comes along and turns her on, she’s going to be focused on him. It’s as simple as that.
Watch this video to understand how a woman’s attraction for a man works and how you can use that to get a woman to like you in a sexual and romantic way…
The Power of Sexual Attraction
When a guy wants to know how to get a woman to like him, it’s often because he lacks confidence around beautiful women that he wants to have sex or get into a relationship with.
He might feel confident around unattractive women, but when he is faced with intense feelings of sexual attraction for a woman that he likes, he suddenly begins to doubt his attractiveness to her.
Sexual attraction is a powerful thing and you can use it to your advantage. It’s not only us men who feel intense attraction for women; women can feel intense attraction for us too. How? Watch this video below to understand how it works…
If you don’t actually know how to attract women that you like, it’s only natural that you will feel unworthy or self-doubting around them. Yet, doubting yourself and lacking confidence around women (especially beautiful women) is the last thing you should ever do.
Women are naturally attracted to confidence in men, so if you don’t have confidence in your attractiveness to women, most are not going to like you in a sexual way. You might be able to attract women that you’re not very attracted to, but if you want the hot girls – they require a bit more confidence.
Being Naturally Attractive to Women
There are many traits that a man can display around a woman to trigger her feelings of attraction for him. For example: Confidence, charisma, charm, humor, masculinity, etc.
For now, let’s have a look at three of those traits…
The type of confidence women are attracted to is a relaxed, masculine confidence. You can display this type of confidence via your body language, vibe, conversation and actions.
The most attractive type of masculinity to women is a man’s thinking, behavior and vibe. Some guys waste years in the gym building up muscles in the hope that women will be amazed by their physical masculinity and overlook their lack of emotional masculinity (i.e. determination to succeed, unrelenting belief in himself, confidence around alpha males, etc).
Yes, women can feel attracted a man’s physical masculinity, but if he doesn’t have the mental and emotional masculinity to back it up, she will quickly lose interest. A woman instinctively knows that in today’s world, big muscles don’t always equal success, happiness and a great life. A muscular body may look good, but it’s not very useful for succeeding in today’s world.
True masculinity is demonstrated through the strength of man’s character and not physical or muscular strength. A man’s emotional strength and ability to make a woman feel like a woman that makes him the most sexually attractive to her initially and in the long run.
3. Social intelligence
The same type of instinctive sexual attraction that women feel towards truly confident and masculine men is also felt towards men with social intelligence. Social intelligence is a key indicator of a man’s potential to succeed in modern life.
A man with social intelligence has the type of qualities that make him genuinely “likeable” and therefore someone other people are keen to be friends with. Being sociable and having the kind of charismatic charm that draws people towards him makes him a guy who generates an almost primal sense of “want” in a woman.
Back in the days of our prehistoric ancestors, a man needed the trust and friendship of other men simply to be able to survive when times were hard. Women instinctively wanted to be chosen as a mate by this type of man because he had what it took to offer her and their offspring the best chance of survival.
In today’s world, a man with the natural ability to form friendships and gain the trust of other men still generates a deep sexual attraction in a woman, and she still wants to be the woman he chooses.
A man doesn’t have to be hugely popular or have loads of friends to trigger a woman’s feelings of sexual attraction, but he does need to display the type of social intelligence that suggests he is likeable and could make friends easily. That is what counts.
Where Guys Go Wrong
Wanting to be liked by a woman is a mistake if you really want a woman to lust after you and want to have sex with you or be your boyfriend.
To want to have sex with you, a woman needs to feel sexually attracted to you, and that means she needs to see you as a guy who has all of the qualities she’s looking for in a man. If she sees you as a friend, she might like you, but she’s not going to feel the attraction needed to want to be more than just friends with you.
This means that trying hard to be liked by a woman or trying hard to be best friends with a woman is an approach that’s going to backfire. If you want a woman to like you, you need to be a likeable guy, but if you want a woman to be sexually attracted to you, you need to be a sexually attractive guy – there’s a big difference.
Being at a woman’s beck and call or always “being there” for her at the drop of a hat might make you a guy she loves to have around as her best friend, but she’s also going to see you as a guy who doesn’t have anything else going on in his life other than her.
Some guys think that being a woman’s best friend will show her how much he cares, which will then lead her to realize that he is the man for her. Yet, that’s not how it works with hot women. Sure, unattractive women may go for that, but not the hotties. Hotties have options and they choose a guy based on how much sexual attraction he makes her feel, not how nice he is as a friend.
The same applies if you behave in a “girly” way around a woman you like in an attempt to be liked more by her. The problem with this is that behaving this way makes you “one of the girls” and not a sexually attractive man that she’s going to lust after.
Pretending to want to be “just friends” when you secretly want more is also a mistake. Women are experts at reading body language and if she senses that it’s more than friendship you’re after and she’s not feeling the same way, she’s going to feel awkward in your company and may well try to avoid you rather than risk having to hurt your feelings.
How to Make a Woman Like You More Than “Just Friends”
If you want to know how to get a woman to like you in a way that could lead to being more than just friends, you’ve got to focus on triggering her feelings of sexual attraction.
When a woman feels sexually attracted to you, she will then really appreciate the fact that you’re also a good guy. However, don’t expect her to get wet and feel horny in response to you being nice. That’s just not how it works.