Are you tired of being single? Does the idea of going out and seeing all those “happy” couples make you cringe?
Do you sometimes feel like you’re the only guy you know who doesn’t have a girlfriend, or as though you’re probably NEVER going to meet a beautiful woman and have a successful relationship?
A lot of guys feel the same way.
The good news is that changing your relationship status is actually a lot easier than you think. It all starts with you understand how to trigger a woman’s feelings of sexual attraction for you. Once you know how to do that, getting laid or getting a girlfriend is a very simply thing to do.
So, let me ask you…
Do you know how to actively trigger a woman’s feelings of sexual attraction for you when you talk to her, or do you just hope to be liked by her because you’re a good guy?
Watch this video to understand why it’s so important to be able to trigger a woman’s feelings of sexual attraction for you…
How Men and Women Select Each Other For Dating and Sex
Most guys initially choose women based on looks. If a woman is physically attractive, she doesn’t even have to have a great personality and most guys are still going to be willing to have sex with her and possibly a relationship.
Yet, the same doesn’t apply for women.
Women don’t go through life feeling willing to have sex with pretty much every guy who looks good. Yes, women can feel attracted to a man’s physical appearance and some women place importance on looks, but the majority of women don’t.
Think about it…
Have you ever been out to the mall, the park, to a sports game or any other public place and really looked at the couples around you? In truth, how many of those guys had model good looks or millionaire bank accounts?
Most likely only one or two of were rich and a few were good looking. Why? In the real world, most guys are just normal guys like you and me and they are able to attract women in ways OTHER than looks.
Watch this video to understand how it works…
Attraction isn’t what most guys assume it is. Most of us men only find a woman attractive if she is physically good looking, but most women are much more flexible with what they find attractive about a guy.
Now don’t get me wrong here…
I’m not saying women NEVER look at a man’s physical appearance or status. Looks are something that a woman judges a man on initially, but (for most women, not all) looks aren’t as important as the guy’s personality and how he makes her feel.
Yes, there are some women who only want guys who are extremely good looking or rich, but the majority of women have what I call an” Open Type,” which means that they are open to being with many different types of guys (even guys who don’t have male model looks) as long as the guy can make her feel attracted in other ways.
This is why so many plain and even fat or ugly guys have really hot girlfriends or wives. Guys who don’t understand how a woman’s attraction for a man works might think that women are making a mistake by being with those guys, but women don’t agree.
Although a woman will notice a guy’s looks, in most cases, she will choose to have sex with him and then get into a relationship with him, based more on his personality and on how he makes her feel when she’s with him.
This is one of the main reasons why ugly guys who are attractive to women in other ways (e.g. confidence, masculinity, funny, charming, charismatic, etc.), have beautiful girlfriends, and why good looking guys who lack self-confidence, are shy and insecure can’t even get a date.
2 Common Mistakes That Single Guys Make Around Women
If you tried to approach beautiful women before and found that they’ve rejected you, it doesn’t mean that you aren’t good enough for them.
Rather than thinking to yourself, “There’s something wrong with me…girls will never like me…I’m doomed!” or “I’m just not good enough to attract and date a beautiful woman,” consider instead that you most-likely made some classic mistakes that naturally turned the women off.
When you understand that simple fact, you will realize that women weren’t rejecting YOU as a person, but they were rejecting your approach. When you use the right approach on women, you will get a completely different result. They will feel attracted to you, want to be with you and want to stay with you.
Here are some classic mistakes that single guys make around women they like…
Mistake 1: He behaves like pretty much every other guy she meets
Throughout the course of a year, a beautiful woman may get approached by hundreds of men who want to have sex with her purely because she’s beautiful.
These men do not care if she has a crappy personality, lacks intelligence or just wants them to buy her drinks. They don’t care. They feel physically attracted to her and that is enough for them to want to be with her.
She knows that all she has to do is say “Yes” and she can have any one of those guys in a second. However, this is not a challenge to her. In fact, this is boring.
After a while, a beautiful woman begins to feel protective of herself and who she hooks up with. She knows that pretty much every guy would love to have sex with her at least once, but that’s not very exciting for her.
She begins to feel the desire to find a guy who can make HER feel a lot of attraction, but who isn’t desperate to be with her.
How can she find a guy like that?
She makes herself look as attractive as possible to many guys approaching her. She then waits to see if the guy actually makes her feel any attraction.
If he does, she then plays hard to get and pretends not to be interested to see how he will react. If he doesn’t really care and could take her or leave her, she then begins to want to get him to like her.
She then gets to enjoy the feeling of attracting, seducing and hooking up with a guy who she really wants to be with, rather than letting yet another boring guy enjoy having sex with her.
If you’ve ever approached beautiful women before, you’re probably now beginning to remember that you too have faced these types of tests. Yet, did you pass them by remaining confident in yourself and knowing that she wants a guy who doesn’t crumble under her pressure, or did you crumble and walk away?
If you want to be successful at getting yourself a beautiful girlfriend, you have to understand the reality that she lives in. You can’t just use the same approach as all the other guys that she’s been rejecting and expect to get a different result because you’re a good guy with good intentions.
You need to realize that a woman wants to meet a guy who will not only make her feel intense attraction for him, but will make her feel like SHE has to impress HIM before he’ll kiss her, take her home for sex, get her number or ask her out on a date.
At this point, some guys might be wondering, “But why all these games? Can’t a woman just like me because I’m a nice guy? Why do women have to make it so complicated?”
The fact is, being a good guy is an important piece of the puzzle to success with women, but it’s NOT enough to create feelings of sexual attraction inside of a woman. If the woman that you like is pretty, beautiful or sexy, she wants a man who can offer her some type of challenge where she ends up feeling excited and lucky to be with him.
She doesn’t want to feel like she is just settling for one of the billions of random guys who want to have sex with her because she looks good. She wants to find a guy who makes her feel a lot of attraction and also makes her feel lucky to be chosen by him.
Mistake 2: He thinks that being nice to a woman is good enough
Another common mistake that single guys make is in believing that the best way to get a girlfriend is to be really nice to her.
A guy like this will start off being all nice and friendly, running around getting her drinks, or pretending not to be interested in her sexually. He just wants to show her that he’s a good guy, he respects her and he would never think of rushing into anything sexual with her.
Yet, when she walks off with another guy who triggered her feelings of sexual attraction, he feels hurt and disappointed. He wonders why some guys are able to get girls so easily, while he just gets placed in the friend zone.
In his mind, he is doing the right thing by being nice to women. After all, he has heard that women want a “nice” guy, so why aren’t they interested in him.
Being nice isn’t good enough.
There’s nothing wrong with being a good guy, having manners, being respectful towards women or even being a bit of a gentleman. However, women don’t care about any of those traits unless you make them feel sexually attracted to you first.
Everything has to start with sexual attraction. Once a woman feels sexually attracted to you, she will then appreciate all the other nice things about you. She will feel lucky to have met a guy who not only makes her feel a lot of attraction, but is also a good guy with good intentions.
Yet, when a guy starts everything off with niceness and friendliness, it sends the wrong message to the woman.
She will either assume that he just wants to be friends because he doesn’t find her sexually attractive, or that he is just pretending to be a nice, helpful, polite, caring friend to hopefully spend enough time around on her to grow on her and maybe get a chance with her one day.
To avoid all the mind games that come with dating, you have to start everything off with attraction.
Why Waste Another Day of Your Precious Life? Start Attracting Women Now…
Most of the guys who say, “I’m tired of being single” don’t believe that it’s possible to suddenly start attracting women for reasons OTHER than looks, money, height, muscles or status.
They feel like they are doomed for life to be single or to only get the scraps that other men don’t want. Yet, they are wrong.
Attracting women is a very easy thing to do. You will literally laugh at how easy it is when you begin to doing it.
If you’re tired of being single and if you want to change that TODAY, why not let me show you the way?
Right now, you have an opportunity to learn proven techniques from me that will allow you to instantly begin attracting women that you meet. When you are able to attract women, you won’t have time to be single because you will be having sex or relationships with one or more of the many women who are intensely attracted to you.
I enjoyed that lifestyle for 10 years and had sex with more than 250 women before settling down with my hot girlfriend who recently became my wife.
When I first started out, I couldn’t even get most of the unattractive women I met to like me, let alone hot women. I was single and alone for a long time until I realized that I needed to work out what attraction really was and how I could use it to have my choice with women.
When I discovered the secrets to attracting women, my life instantly began to change and it’s just gotten better and better ever since.
So, if you’ve been thinking to yourself, “I’m tired of being single,” make the decision to learn my attraction techniques and apply them into your interactions with women. You will be more than amazed at how quickly and easily it works for you.
Are you willing to give this a shot?