Single women can be found almost anywhere, but some of the best places to meet them are at:
Knowing how to meet single women involves being able to:
1. Confidently approach women that you find attractive.
2. Trigger a woman’s feelings of sexual attraction for you when you meet her.
3. Keep a conversation going long enough to escalate to kissing, a phone number or sex that night.
As you will discover from the videos above, meeting single women is a very easy thing to do when you have those 3 areas under control.
Being the Guy That Single Women Are Hoping to Meet
Single guys who are struggling to get themselves a girlfriend or get laid are often looking for tips on where to go to meet single women.
They hope that by showing up at places where single women go to meet men, the whole pick up process will be made easier by the fact that women are actively looking to get laid or find a boyfriend.
Yes, it definitely can be easier get laid or find yourself a new girlfriend in those places, but only if you can display the type of personality traits and behaviors that women are looking for in a guy.
For example: If a guy has the confidence to walk up and meet some single women, but he then struggles to keep a conversation going and keep it interesting, most of his approaches will end up with the dreaded “awkward silence.”
In most cases, women don’t want to help a guy through the pick up process and if he doesn’t have the skills to attract and seduce them, they would rather miss out on the opportunity to be with him.
Watch this video to understand why…
As you will discover from the video above, it’s very easy for a woman to attract a man because most men will be willing to have sex with her simply based on her appearance.
Women don’t need to learn how to attract men because all they have to do is look pretty or sexy enough and most guys will happily have sex with them and many will also want a relationship to follow.
Men are dealt a different hand of cards in this life and if a guy doesn’t know how to actively attract a woman when he interacts with her (e.g. with his confidence, charisma, charm, humor, masculine vibe, etc), then a woman usually won’t be feeling enough attraction to justify giving him her number, kissing him or leaving the bar/club/event to have sex with him that night.
How Meeting Women Often Works in Movies and on TV Shows
TV and movie storylines often show the shy, socially awkward guy sitting alone at a bar or a party. He then gets approached by beautiful, sexy women or the beautiful, innocent, girl next-door type of woman.
Script writers often make it appear that a guy sitting alone intrigues women and they somehow feel compelled to go over and introduce themselves to him. Sure, that does sometimes happen in real life if the guy is really good looking, famous or obvious of high status in society.
However, for the rest of the male population, it’s rarely, if ever, going to happen.
In the real world, most women see guys who are sitting alone in a bar, party or at an event as being a social outcast or lonely loser. They don’t think, “Wow! He’s on his own!! He must be really cool, mysterious and loveable. I’m going to approach him before other girls do!”
If a woman is interested in a guy, she will usually behave in a way that lets him know she wants him to approach her, not the other way around. For example: She will smile at him, keep looking at him and even (this doesn’t make obvious sense unless you understand women) act very loud, silly and girly with her friends to get his attention.
If you want to be successful at meeting women, you’ve got to not waste time trying to look good and hopefully get approached by desperate or drunk women.
The secret of how to meet single women is to have the confidence to approach, know how to trigger their attraction and then be able to keep an interaction going for long enough to get to the next levels of kissing, exchanging phone numbers or going home together to have sex.
BTW: One-night stands and sex on first dates are very common these days. A study in American found that 55% of couples had sex on their first date and another study in Europe discovered that 70% of women admitted to having experienced a one-night stand before.
So, don’t assume that the single woman you’re talking to won’t be open to kissing you and having sex with you on the first night or first date. The world has changed and sex now happens much more often than many people think or like to admit when asked.
Displaying Personality Traits That Naturally Attract Women
At The Modern Man, we teach guys how to attract women in more than 100 different ways.
You don’t have to be able to pull off all of the 100 attraction triggers to get laid or get a girlfriend, but if you can trigger a woman’s attraction for you by displaying 5-10 traits during an interaction, you will be able to pick up most of the single women you meet.
Here are 3 examples of traits that women are naturally attracted to in men:
- Social Intelligence
1. Confidence: Are you confident around women that you find very attractive?
If you’re looking for tips on how to meet single women, you’re probably not aiming to pick up and have sex with unattractive women.
You want hot, sexy single women, right?
If you want to pick up hotties, you need to be able to maintain a strong state of self-confidence around them. Hot women are used to guys feeling intimidated around them and it’s huge turn off.
To be confident around a hot woman, it’s not about showing off, being really loud, being an arrogant asshole or anything silly like that. Instead, it’s about having a relaxed, easy-going confidence that remains no matter how much she challenges you.
If you’re talking to a hot woman, she will challenge you. She will play hard to get during the conversation, tease you about some of the things you’re saying, pick on your sense of fashion or hairstyle and attempt to make you feel uncomfortable in many other ways.
Her aim is not to be a mean bitch, but to find herself a guy who has the type of confidence that she needs in a man. If she is beautiful, then she will be very bored of the fact that most of the guys she meets instantly feel attracted to her and want to be with her, even if she treats him badly. The guy will be nervous, self-doubting and unsure of himself around her, but he will hope that if he’s just nice enough to her or impresses her enough with bragging about his job, money, car, etc, then she’ll give him a chance.
This is one of the reasons why you will often hear women saying that they like a guy who is a challenge…
Women are instinctively attracted to guys with the type of self-confidence that remains intact no matter how many challenges she or life throws at him.
When a woman notices that a guy doesn’t need to show off to show her that he is deeply confident, self-assured and at ease in any social situation, she cannot stop herself from feeling a strong sense of respect and attraction for him.
Women know that guys who have that type of relaxed, self-assured confidence are very hard to find. It’s the type of confidence that marks a guy out to be the kind of cool, charismatic guy that single women hope to meet.
It’s for this reason that just going out to the places single women hang out at won’t make it “easy” to get laid or get a girlfriend. If you want to meet single women and actually get end results (i.e. sex, love, relationships), you need to have the confidence to approach them and the ability to attract them.
2. Masculinity: Are you very masculine in the way that you think, feel, behave and take action in life?
Pretty much every single woman on this planet is looking for a man with strong alpha male characteristics.
The strength that most women want to find in a man has nothing to do with a guy’s physical prowess, and everything to do with his mental and emotional strength.
For example: A guy might have big muscles, but if he is nervous and self-doubting around women, they are going to be turned off by his mental and emotional weakness.
Likewise, a guy might be overweight, slim or have an average body type, but if he is very confident and masculine in the way that he thinks, behaves, feels and takes action around women and in life, women are going to feel turned on by his strength.
A woman wants to feel like a feminine woman in a man’s masculine presence, rather than feeling like she is stronger than him. A woman knows when a man has true masculinity because being around him literally makes her feel weak at the knees. As some women put it, “I go all mooshy and can’t think straight around guys like that.”
A mistake that some guys make is thinking that behaving in a loud, overly confident way makes them appear more “manly” or “bigger” than the other guys in the room, but women can see right through a guy who is putting on a confident front in an effort to hide his insecurities.
Truly masculine alpha males have a powerful, but relaxed confidence that shows in the way they handle themselves and other people. They don’t need to be loud or act tough to gain the respect of other men because people just know that he is alpha and deserves respect.
If you want to be successful when you’re out there meeting single women, you need to be able to make women feel relaxed and feminine in your presence. When women sense those qualities in you, they’ll do whatever it takes to make sure you that you know they like you and want to escalate to a sexual level with you.
3. Social Intelligence: Do you have the type of social skills that make people respect you and like you?
Today’s women are still instinctively driven to find a man who can provide for them and protect them in the same way their ancient female ancestors were in prehistoric times.
The world may have changed a lot over the past 100 or even 1,000 years, but the instincts that women have to find a guy who has the ability to survive, thrive and prosper have not gone away.
When a woman talks with a guy and assesses him to be a cool guy with great social skills, it triggers her attraction for him because he will most likely live a better life than a guy with poor social skills. She can’t know that for sure, but her instincts will trigger attraction and make her like a guy who has great social skills compared to a guy who doesn’t.
If a guy seems like wouldn’t easily get along with confident people, wouldn’t be able to get alpha males to respect him and wouldn’t be able to make friend very easily, it sets off alarms bells in a woman’s mind.
The guy might be able to survive just fine without having great social skills, but a woman can’t stop her instincts from kicking in and essentially telling her, “If you got pregnant to this guy, life would be a struggle and he wouldn’t be able to properly protect you from outside threats.”
If you want to be truly successful at meeting and picking up single women, you need to display a “likeability” factor that marks you out as a guy who can easily make friends and get along with confident people in social settings.
Don’t Settle For Second Best With Women
One of the easiest ways to be more attractive to women is to not accept anything less than what you find to be very attractive.
A guy who chooses to hook up with an unattractive woman just because she’s making herself available for sex is a guy who is selling himself short. It’s a mistake many single guys have made and I know of some guy who’ve ended up accidently impregnating the woman and then finding they’re stuck in a relationship with no genuine sexual spark.
You have to know that you are a good guy and that you deserve to have an attractive girlfriend or lover. You do not have to settle for women that you’re not attracted to.
You can be the guy who has his pick of women, but you have to stay strong and not give into feelings of insecurity or accept women who aren’t attractive enough for you…