If you’re at a point now where you are saying, “My ex has moved on” you will no doubt be feeling sad and confused about what you should do from here.
So, I’m going to clear things up for you by explaining the 3 choices that you have right now to either get her back or move on with out her.
Which of the following options sounds like it would be best for you at this point?
- Get her back.
- Start having sex with lots of high quality women.
- Get a new, high quality woman and have a committed relationship with her instead.
Whichever choice suits you the best, here is what you need to do to succeed…
1. Get her back.
If your ex has moved on with another guy, then it does make the process of getting her back a bit more difficult, but it still is possible.
Most new relationships do not last a lifetime because most guys have no idea how to keep a modern woman happy and committed in a relationship, so her new guy will probably fall into that category.
Just think about the approximate 50% divorce rate and the 50% couple break up rate for non-marriage relationships and you will realize that there is no guarantee that her new guy will know how to keep her happy.
If you want to get your ex back now that she has moved on, the first thing that you need to do is truly understand the subtle and obvious reasons why she broke up with you…
After understanding what she really broke up with you for (e.g. not being enough of a man for her, being insecure, making her purpose in life, etc), you then need to get her to meet up with you in person.
Don’t worry, I know what you’re probably thinking, “She won’t want to meet up with me” or “How can I get her to meet up with me if she has a boyfriend?” or “How can I get her to meet up with me if she doesn’t even respond to my texts, calls or social media messages?”
I get it.
I understand the situation you are in and have already helped 100s of guys in your situation to successfully get an ex back who has moved on with another guy.
In my program, Get Your Ex Back: Super System, I provide proven to work techniques for getting her to unblock you and re-add you to Facebook and social media and then answer your texts and phone calls and agree to meet up with you in person.
Meeting up in person is the most important part of the process of getting another chance with her, but if you are in a situation where you are saying “My ex has moved on” I know that it’s not always going to be easy to get her to agree to a meet up right away.
That is why when you talk to her on the phone, you must start out by getting her respect back (i.e. by apologizing for your mistakes on the basis that you’re not trying to get her back, but simply want to apologize and let her know that you understand why she broke up with you and accept it) to get her to bring her guard down when talking to you.
When she drops her guard on the phone, you can then begin to respark her feelings of attraction and other positive feelings towards you to get her smiling, laughing and actually enjoying the phone call with you.
When that happens, you can then ask her to catch up with you in person. Exactly what to say and do at that point is explained in my program.
So, if you feel like you’d rather get your ex back than move on without her, I recommend that you begin watching Get Your Ex Back: Super System now and I will guide you through the exciting, life changing process of getting an ex back.
2. Start having sex with lots of high quality women.
When a guy has been dumped by a woman and then finds out that she has moved on, it can sometimes make him spiral into a state of depression about life and relationships.
He might also get to the point where he feels unworthy of high quality women and believes that if his ex wasn’t willing to stay with him, then other high quality women won’t be either.
In his depressed state of mind, it just seems too difficult to have to go out there and talk to other women, get them attracted and then move towards sex and dating.
However, if you are at a point where you are thinking that you might not want to get your ex back, the fastest way to get your mojo back, build up your confidence and feel happy again is to start having sex with other high quality women.
So, how can you do that?
The main thing that you need to do is reignite your ability to trigger feelings of sexual attraction inside of a woman when you meet her.
Watch this video to understand how it works…
These days, most women are open to having sex on the first night or first date, so it’s actually quite easy to get women to have sex with you.
- Singles in America Survey found that 55% of singles have sex on the first date.
- A European study found that 70% of women had experienced a one-night stand.
- Student Beans survey in the UK found that 51% of men and women admitted to having experienced a one-night stand.
- The National Survey on Sexual Attitudes and Lifestyles found that the average amount of men that a woman had sex with before marriage has almost doubled in the last 10 years from an average of 3.7 to now 7.7.
- Personally speaking, I’ve had sex with more than 250 women and about 100 of those women have come from one night stands where I met the woman at a bar, club or during the day.
As you can see by the statistics above, there is actually a lot of sex going on immediately or shortly after a man and woman meet.
All you need to do to get some sex with new, high quality women is know how to attract them (it’s actually a lot easier than most guys realize), keep a conversation going and then move to a kiss and sex that night or on the first date.
These days, if you go out to a party, nightclub or bar and have the ability to attract women, you will be able to pull a woman back for sex each time you go out to do so.
Other guys are doing it right now, I did it for 10 years (having sex with more than 250 women) before settling down with my sexy wife and you can do it too.
One of the reasons why it’s so easy to get laid these days is that women no longer have to save themselves for marriage and are no longer looked down on for having multiple “relationships” before settling down.
The truth is that millions of women have regular, secret sex that they don’t tell anyone about and they keep doing that until they find their perfect guy.
3. Get a new, high quality woman and have a committed relationship with her instead.
If you are feeling emotionally bruised and beaten up after getting dumped by your ex and seeing her move on, you may not be feeling very hopeful about finding another high quality woman and making the relationship last this time.
So, here’s how you need to look at it…
Realize that there is a positive and negative side to the approximately 50% divorce and break up rate for marriages and relationships.
If you look at it on the negative side, you will see that 50% of marriages and relationships break up, but if you look at it on the positive side, you will see that 50% of marriages and relationships stay together for life.
Back when I got dumped by my ex-girlfriend, it was during the time where the internet didn’t have people online helping other people with their relationship problems, so I was lost, on my own and had no idea how to get her back.
I made many of the classic mistakes of begging and pleading and I even got very angry at her, which of course didn’t help and simply pushed her away even further.
I then spent many lonely years on my own, single and unable to attract a new, high quality woman to replace her.
Eventually, I decided that I was no longer going to put up with being alone and that I would somehow work out how to have sex with lots of new high quality women at will.
Once I worked that out, I then began having casual relationships with many high quality women and went onto sleep with more than 250 women.
After 10 years of enjoying my choice of women, I chose my perfect girl who is now my wife. She was 20 when I met her and I was 35. I’m now 38 and she’s 23 and we’re planning on starting a family.
Our relationship gets better and better over time, so I definitely see her and I being on the positive side of the 50% marriage statistic.
You can have that type of success with women too.
It is possible for you fall in love with many other women and have women truly love you from the deepest part of their being, to the point where your heart and mind is full of joy, excitement and pleasure at the love you are experiencing together.
What you will find if you do decide to open yourself to experiencing love with other women is that each experience of love will be different with each woman.
There is always a unique style of love that you share with each woman.
The love that you shared with your ex is not going to be the same as the love you share with new women, but depending on the woman, the new love you find might be even more powerful and suited to who you really are as a man.
When I look back on the love that I had with my ex all those years ago, I know that her and I could have lasted the distance if I knew what I know now.
Yet, I was younger and less mature back then and I simply wasn’t ready for a girl like her.
If the internet was like it was today and there was a site like The Modern Man to help me, I truly believe I would have gotten her back and been able to keep that relationship together.
However, that’s not how my life played out. My break up happened before I could be helped, which eventually lead me to work my ass off to create The Modern Man so I could help you and guys like you.
So, that brings us to the following questions:
- Are you going to go through the exciting, life-changing process of getting her back?
- Are you going to start having sex with lots of new high quality women?
- Are you going to find yourself a new, high quality woman to have a committed relationship with?