Most people don’t really care whether a guy has his ears pierced or not.

It’s really not that important.

Sure, certain types of guys tend to get their ears pierced to fit in with a certain crowd (e.g. skaters, goths, Jersey boys, hipsters, etc), but his earrings are not the thing that makes him a cool guy who is attractive to women and respected by other guys.

Being attractive to women has a lot more to do with how you think, behave and act around women than what you look like.

You don’t have to have an earring to be attractive to women, but you can have one if you want. Most women are much more attracted to how your personality makes them feel, rather than whether or not you have a piece of metal in your ear.

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Some women will only go for perfect looking, male model guys, but the majority of women are much more attracted to how a guy’s personality makes her feel.

If he happens to have earrings, then good for him, but an earring is not the thing that makes a woman say, “WOW! I want to have sex with you” or the thing that makes confident, cool guys look up to him respect him.

Many guys mistakenly assume that women are only attracted to men because of what they look like or what they wear.

For example: A guy might ask, “If I get my ears pierced, will I be more attractive to women?” or “If I wear a certain color shirt, or a particular type of cologne, will women be more attracted to me?”

Yet, what these guys don’t realize is that they can attract women with their personality and confidence and that most women (not all) don’t really care if a man has his ears pierced or not.

It’s Not All About Your Looks

Confused men thinking that it's all about looks

Yes, some women are superficial and place a lot of importance on a guy’s looks, but most women don’t.

The majority of women are much more interested and attracted to how your personality makes them feel, rather than all the superficial things about how you look.

It’s hard for a lot of guys to accept that because most guys waste their life believing that women feel attracted to men for exactly the same reasons that men feel attracted to women.

In other words, most men think that their attractiveness to women is mostly based on their looks because that’s how we men feel attracted to women.

Initially, most men are attracted to a woman based purely on how she looks physically. It doesn’t matter if the woman is smart, has a great personality, wears nice shoes or drives a nice car.

If she’s physically attractive, most guys will want to have sex with her purely based on her looks.

This is why you’ll often hear guys saying, “That blonde over there is definitely my type” or “Women with long hair / big boobs / who wear Goth make up are sexy.”

A guy will feel attracted to a woman and want to have sex with her, (even if she’s not particularly intelligent or nice), simply because she has the “look” that he finds attractive in a woman.

Women on the other hand, will mostly be attracted to things about men that are not visual and that are invisible to the naked eye.

As you will discover from the video above, you don’t have to waste time trying to look a certain way to attract women.

Some women will only accept a male model with loads of money and diamond earrings, but the majority of women are much more attracted to how your personality makes them feel.

So, if you’re asking, “Should a guy get his ears pierced?” simply because you believe it will make you more attractive to women, chances are that even if you do get your ears pierced, you’ll still be getting the same results with women that you always have.

In fact, it might even make your results worse.


If you think that getting earrings will make you more attractive to women, but they don’t seem to be anymore interested in you, it might make you even more insecure about your ability to attract women.

The more insecure a guy is, the less attractive he is to women. So, if you want to be successful at attracting and picking up women, the main thing that you need to work on is your confidence.

When you have confidence in your sex appeal to women (with or without earrings), you will naturally be more attractive to women.

They will sense your confidence via your body language, vibe, attitude, behavior, conversation style and actions and it will turn them on.

Could Getting My Ears Pierced Make Me More Attractive to Some Women?


Some women like guys who have earrings, while some women hate it.

For example: Some women who have tattoos and piercings will often prefer guys who have tattoos and piercings, because they think in the same kind of way.

However, if a guy goes out and gets tattoos and piercings just to hopefully be liked by women, then he’s doing it wrong.

If you want to pierce your ears because it’s something you want for yourself, then go ahead and do it.

On the other hand, if you’re doing it because you hope that it will impress women, then don’t waste your time.

Although a woman might initially like a guy’s tattoos and piercings, her attraction to the superficial things about him will quickly fade if he isn’t able to attract her with his inner qualities (e.g. confidence, emotional masculinity, etc).

A nervous, insecure guy with tattoos and piercings is just as unattractive to women as a nervous, insecure without any tattoos or piercings.

Even if you’ve heard women saying, “I love guys who have their ears pierced,” or “Guys who wear earrings are so sexy,” if you stick around long enough, you’ll notice that these very same women will also date guys who don’t have pierced ears. Why?

When a woman feels very attracted to a man’s personality, she usually doesn’t care whether he has earrings or not. A confident guy who knows how to trigger feelings of sexual attraction inside of a woman, can do whatever he wants and women will still feel attraction for him.

For example: A confident can wear shorts and a t-shirt and he will be more attractive to women than an insecure guy who is wearing expensive, highly fashionable clothes.

Your inner qualities as a man are much more attractive and important to most women than whether or not you have a little piece of metal in your ear.

If you don’t really care if your ear is pierced or not, don’t waste time on it.

If you want to be successful at attracting women, focus instead on making women feel attracted to your personality and confidence.

For example: Make her laugh, make her feel girly in your presence, let her experience your masculine vibe, etc.

When you attract women with your personality and confidence, they begin to look at your physical appearance in a more positive light.

Watch this video to understand how it works…

As you will discover from the video above, a man can be attractive to women with or without earrings.

If a man attracts women with his personality (e.g. by being charismatic, charming, confident, funny, masculine, etc), she will then begin to look at his physical appearance in a more positive light.

If he happens to have an earring, she might say, “I like your earring…it’s sexy” but if he doesn’t have an earring, she will still find him sexy and might say, “I like your shirt….it’s sexy.”

Most guys have no idea how a woman’s attraction for a man really works and as a result, they get confused about all the random things that women say they like about guys.

Do Women Care About a Guy’s Looks?

Yes and no.

If a woman notices a guy and hasn’t yet had the chance to experience his personality up close, then she is naturally going to look at the superficial things about him (e.g. his looks, what his wearing, his earrings, or whatever else she perceives about him as fitting in with her usual “type”).

However, in most cases (not all), a woman will not get hung up on a “type,” which is why a guy might encounter women throughout his life who say, “I love guys who have pierced ears; it’s so sexy. I only date guys who are into piercings and tattoos.”

Yet, he will often see these very same women dating, normal, plain guys who don’t even have an earring.

The more attraction that a woman feels for a guy’s personality (e.g. his charisma, charm, confidence, etc), the more she will begin to find that his look is attractive to her; even if he’s the opposite of what she’s been saying is her type all along.

So, based on what you’ve read so far, should a guy get his ears pierced?

Only if he really wants to.

When a guy can attract women with his personality, behavior and conversation style, he is not limited to making a woman feel attracted to him because of his pierced ears.

He can do whatever he wants (e.g. get his ear pierced, get a tattoo, shave his head or grow his hair long, etc) and most women will still like him and want to be with him.

Turning Women Off

Guys who lack confidence in their attractiveness to women often set their sights on a woman that seems to be out of their league.

For example: A shy, introverted, guy who is into gaming and computers may feel attraction for a woman who likes to hang out with a crowd that’s into piercings, tattoos, etc.

If he attempts to approach her and she rejects him, he will usually assume that it’s because she’s only interested in guys who have pierced ears and tattoos, or because he’s not good looking enough.

He doesn’t realize that it’s his unattractive behavior that is turning her off, not his lack of piercings.

Watch this video for more info…

As you will discover from the video above, if a guy doesn’t know how to attract women with his personality, confidence and behavior, women aren’t going to care if he has an earring or not.

If he behaves in one or more of the following ways, a woman won’t be able to feel a deep and lasting attraction for him, and therefore won’t be interested having sex or being in a relationship with him.

1. Is shy and insecure.

Women are instinctively attracted to emotionally strong men and repelled by weak, insecure men.

So, even if a guy fits a woman’s description of her “perfect man” physically (e.g. he is tall, has an earring and wears good clothes), if he behaves in a shy, nervous and insecure way around her, she will label him as unattractive.

2. Tries too hard to be liked by women.

A guy who has low self-esteem will usually assume that most beautiful women are out of his league.

Feeling unworthy, he will then try to suck up to women by being a really nice guy or by trying to convince them that he is a good guy with good intentions.

Yet, what he doesn’t realize is that women can be instantly attracted and that he doesn’t have to waste time and energy trying to convince women to like him as a guy.

A guy who tries to convince women to like him will often point out how nice he is compared to other guys.

He hopes that if he can just get that point across to women, they will like him and give him a chance.

Yet, when a woman notices that a guy has a low self-esteem and doesn’t feel good enough for her, she finds it almost impossible to feel attraction for him because she doesn’t respect him as a man.

It won’t matter if he goes out and gets his ear pierced with a diamond; he’s still going to be unattractive to her because he lacks the fundamental traits of confidence that women look for in a guy.

Earrings Aren’t For Everyone

Should guys get their ears pierced?

Some guys do look cool with earrings, but just because they look cool, it doesn’t mean that you have to copy them.

You don’t have to become someone that you’re not just to be able to attract the type of women you really want.

Getting women to like you is becoming a stronger, more well-rounded version of who you are, not a confused, pierced guy who is hoping that a piece of metal in his ear will solve all of his problems with women.

If you have to ask, “Should a guy get his ears pierced,” it’s obvious that getting your ears pierced not something you really want to do.

If you really did want to get your ears pierced because you think that it’s a really cool thing to have, then you would just go ahead and do it and a result, it would look cool on you because you would be being your true self.

However, if you’re doing it because you hope it might make other people like you, then you’re doing it wrong.

What you probably haven’t yet realized so far in life is that you are ALREADY good enough for most women.

You don’t have to stick a piece of metal in your ear to be attractive to women or to be liked by the cool crowd.

You’ve just got to know that you’re already good enough as you are right now. If you want to add to who you are by getting your ear pierced, then go ahead and do it, but only if you think it’s cool.

Whatever you think is cool is cool. That’s the golden rule.

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