There are many things a guy can say to a woman to turn her on, but those things won’t make a difference to her if he hasn’t made her feel sexual attraction for him first, by displaying the personality traits and behaviors (e.g. confidence, charisma, humor, etc.) that are naturally attractive and arousing to women.
Basically, what you say to a woman is not as important as how you interact with her.
In other words, when you interact with a woman and make her feel attracted to your confidence, masculine vibe, conversation style, etc., then whatever you say to her will turn her on, because your behavior and body language will have already triggered her feelings of sexual attraction for you.
On the other hand, if when you interact with her and you appear nervous, insecure and hesitant during conversation, whatever you say to her will come across as being forced, and she will feel uncomfortable rather than turned on in your presence.
Watch this video for some examples of things to say to a woman to turn her on…
A lot of guys who are not very successful with women, go through life believing that the guys who always seem to get the women they want, have some secret “trick” or a list of magic things to say to a woman when they interact with her, that instantly turns her on and makes her want to have sex with him.
What these guys don’t realize is that there isn’t a magic list or some sneaky “trick” that triggers a woman’s sexual attraction for men. In fact, getting a woman to feel attracted and want to have sex with you is a lot easier than most guys realize.
When you display the types of personality traits and behaviors that women feel attracted to, (e.g. confidence, the ability to make her laugh and feel feminine in contrast to your masculine vibe, etc.), then women will naturally want to be with you.
You don’t have to try hard to impress a woman, and you don’t need a “magic” list of things to say to her to turn her on. Instead, you’ve got to trigger her feelings of sexual attraction for you by being the man she needs you to be.
For example: When a guy approaches a woman he feels attracted to without hesitation, fear or anxiety and is completely confident and at ease in her presence, even if she initially pretends that she’s not interested in him, (because women like to test guys to see if they are really confident or if they are only pretending to be confident), eventually, just by remaining calm and relaxed, she will naturally start feeling attracted to his confidence and masculinity.
He doesn’t need to say something specific to get a woman to feel turned on by him – she automatically feels attracted to him because he is displaying the characteristics that women are instinctively drawn to.
On the other hand, a guy who is nervous and insecure around women will crack under the pressure of a woman’s tests. He will feel flustered if she pretends not to be interested in him or pretends to be bored by his conversation, and he will begin to doubt himself.
He might start thinking, “I’m just not good looking enough, that’s why she’s rejecting me,” or, “If only I knew the right things to say to her to turn her on then she would be interested in me.”
The truth is, the thing that makes a woman want to have sex and start a sexual relationship with a guy is feeling sexual attraction for who he is as a man, and by being a strong man around her in terms of his thinking, behavior and actions.
Some Examples of Things to Say to a Woman to Turn Her On When You Are Interacting With Her
Imagine that you’re talking to a woman you like and want to have sex with and she touches you on the arm. You can use that moment as an opportunity to say something that will turn her on.
What can you say to her that will turn her on? Here is an example…
When she touches you, look down at her hand on your arm and then look back up at her pretending to be shocked and say, “Oh no! Look at you; you’re all over me! I have that effect on women you know, they just can’t keep their hands off me. I guess it was too much to hope that you could resist me long enough to finish our conversation.”
Then, smile playfully and make her see that you’re clearly joking with her by pretending that you’re so irresistible that she can’t keep her hands off you.
Obviously you’re only joking with her, but by having the confidence to tease her in this way (something most guys can’t do), you’re showing her that you’re not overcome by her beauty, or feeling intimidated by her.
Women feel extremely attracted to a guy who is not easily impressed by her and has the confidence to use humor to tease her in a playful but sexual way.
A common mistake that a lot of guys make when they are interacting with a beautiful woman they feel attracted to is they feel so impressed by her, and they feel so lucky to be talking to her, that they take on the role of being a nice guy who is only interested in making polite, neutral conversation with her.
Naturally there is nothing wrong with being a nice guy with a woman, but if your intention is to have sex with her, pretending to be Mr. Nice Guy isn’t going to turn her on; however, triggering her feelings of sexual attraction for you, will.
This is why it is so important to use every opportunity, no matter how irrelevant, to create attraction between you and her. Here is another example of how you can do that…
Imagine you’re walking along the aisles in a supermarket and you suddenly spot a beautiful woman you would like to hook up with.
You can obviously, either just watch her from a distance and hope that by some miracle she will notice you, or you can take the initiative and get her interested in you by making the first move.
Here’s an example of what you can do to initiate a conversation…
Let us assume that you are pushing your shopping cart past her in one of the aisles, and you accidentally bump your cart into her cart.
A shy, nervous, “nice” guy who doesn’t know what to say to a woman to turn her on will say, “Oh! I’m so sorry! Are you okay?” Although that is the polite thing to say, it is not going to trigger her feelings of sexual attraction for him.
On the other hand, a confident, alpha male will use this as an opportunity to make her feel attracted to him by saying something like, “Okay! I see what’s going on here; you’re trying to get me to notice you. Well, I’m all yours now!”
When you say this while smiling at her and making it clear to her that you’re teasing her, she will most likely laugh and get a bit flustered, because you are implying that she bumped into you intentionally because she is trying to hook up with you.
Then, simply smile again and say, “I’m only joking. Hi, my name is… What’s your name?”
This is attractive to her because she can see you have the confidence, social intelligence and masculinity to say something risky like that to her, rather than do the “right” thing by being a boring, nice, friendly guy who’s just being nice and polite around her, rather than using the moment to make her feel sexually turned on by you.
It’s Easier Than You Think
Turning a woman on is not as difficult as most guys believe.
You can trigger a woman’s feelings of sexual desire by displaying the behaviors and personality traits that women are naturally attracted to, like being a confident, masculine man who can make her feel girly and feminine in his presence.
Then, you won’t have hope that you know the right things to say to a woman to turn her on, because you will be turning her on with you body language and behavior, and whatever you say after that will feel interesting and sexy to her and she will feel turned on.