Here are some examples of things that women love to hear, as long as you have first made her feel attracted to you.
If you try to skip the step of making a woman feel attracted to you first and just launch into nice compliments and sweet or romantic lines, most women will either feel weird around you or just see you as a “friend” type of guy.
So, as long as you’ve made her feel attracted to you first, here are some of the things that women love to hear.
When You First Meet Her
“You’re sexy, I like you”
A lot of guys don’t realize that most women are insecure about their looks. An international survey conducted by Dove cosmetics found that 96% of women don’t consider themselves to be beautiful.
Another survey found that 85% of women wish that their hips were narrower and another survey found that 80% of women have things about their body or face that they desperately want to change.
So, regardless of how confident you think a woman is, she is most-likely insecure. If she is one of the insecure women and you don’t give her a compliment about her looks, guess what happens?
She plays hard to get.
To make sure that you really like her before she shows any real interest in you, she will play hard to get to see how much you try to impress her and show her that you like her.
Yet, when she notices that you’re trying hard to impress her, you actually become the opposite of what she wants in a guy. In other words, you become the opposite of the challenge that attractive women yearn to meet…
So, to avoid the mind games, just tell her that she’s sexy and that you like her. However, make sure that you’ve been automatically triggering her feelings of attraction for you by displaying the type of personality traits, behaviors or body language that naturally attracts women.
Watch this video to understand how a woman’s attraction works and how you can use it to get what you want with women…
As you will discover from the video above, you can make a woman feel attracted to you in many different ways.
When a woman is feeling very attracted to you, she’s going to love pretty much everything that you say and if she doesn’t love it, she’s going to overlook it because she doesn’t want to ruin her opportunity to be with you.
On a First Date
When you see her arrive for the date, you can give her another compliment about her looks and sex appeal by saying, “Wow, look at you…how am I going to concentrate on the food tonight? I don’t know if I’m going to be able to keep my eyes off of you. You look stunning.”
This is important to a woman because she knows that men are mostly attracted to a woman’s physical appearance, so she wants to know that she looks sexy and attractive to you.
Of course, this only works if you’re being confident and are making her feel a lot of attraction for you.
If you are a nervous type of guy and you haven’t made her feel a lot of attraction for you yet, she’s not really going to feel that excited about her strong attraction for her because she’s not feeling much for you.
Where Guys Go Wrong
There are many classic mistakes that guys make when talking to women they like, which then lead to the woman feeling turned off, playing hard to get or simply rejecting him.
Watch this video to understand where guys go wrong and what you should do instead if you want to be successful…
As you will discover from the video above, you will experience much easier and more consistent success with women if you can just relax, be real and be confident when talking to women.
TV sitcoms and romantic comedy moves have got a lot to answer for when it comes to the confusion that guys experience about the things women love to hear.
In the movies, a beautiful woman will appear to swoon over a guy who approaches her to whisper sweet nothings in her ear and she will even respond positively to a guy who uses a cheesy pick-up line.
So, some confused guys will try to use that approach in the real world and will search around online for pick up lines and hope that he will find the secret words that women love to hear that will instantly get him laid.
Yet, that’s just not how it works because women are not simple, mindless creatures who fall for cheesy crap.
If you want to get laid, get a girlfriend or find yourself a woman who will become your wife, you have to focus on triggering a woman’s feelings of sexual attraction for you.
You can do this by displaying the type of personality traits and behaviors that are naturally attractive to women (e.g. confidence, humor, flirting, charisma, masculinity in the way you think, feel and behave, etc).
It’s actually very easy to get women to feel attracted to you. In most cases, all you need to do is display a few of the attractive traits at the start of a conversation and women will be keenly interested in talking to you.
If you are then able to display more traits throughout the conversation, her attraction for you will go up and up until she is feeling intense attraction for you.
Watch this video to understand how it works…
As you will discover from the video above, women will love most of what you’ve got to say if you can get them feeling that way.
Everything starts with attraction and when you’ve established that, things then flow naturally from one step to the next (i.e. phone number or kiss, sex that night or date, relationship or lovers, etc).
A mistake that some guys make is thinking that saying sweet or romantic things to a woman is the best way to get her interested because it will show how much of a nice guy he is.
Yet, using the nice guy approach with women will only get a guy rejected if he first doesn’t establish strong feelings of attraction first. Here’s why…
The shy, awkward nice guy might get the girl on TV and in the movies, but real life is not like the movies.
Real women aren’t so easily impressed by what a guy says because any guy can learn to say a line or two. Instead, women are interested in find out who a guy really is and they’re going to put him to the test to make sure his confident attitude and body language matches up to his words.
With this in mind, the things women love to hear are the things that let them know you are a genuinely confident guy and you’re not trying to hide your insecurities behind a fake confident front.
Women want to be able to see that no matter how much they challenge you during a conversation, you maintain confidence in yourself. If you can let them see that about you, they won’t really have to worry so much about overanalyzing what you’re saying, because they will be feeling more that enough attraction to your confidence.
Cheesy Lines Only Work if You’re a Confident, Cool Guy
If a nervous guy approaches a woman with a cheesy line like, “Where have you been all my life,” or some other “line” that he’s memorized from a movie, he will not get the response that the male actors in movies get.
Instead, the woman is going to roll her eyes and think that he’s just another loser who doesn’t understand women and what they really want.
When the nervous guy approaches her, she will instantly determine that he is nervous by instantly analysing his body language, vibe and tone of voice.
All of his non-verbal communication will reveal to her that he’s simply trying to get lucky with any woman by using rehearsed lines and hoping that 1 out of 100 women takes the bait.
He hopes that the woman won’t notice his nervous non-verbal communication, but it’s pretty obvious to women. Women are hard-wired with instincts that allow them to pick up on subtle non-verbal cues and find the real men amongst the fakers.
So, when she is approached by a nervous guy who using a canned line in the hope of getting lucky, she’s not going to think, “Wow! This guy has so much confidence. I respect that! I hope that I can get a chance with him because other women would clearly like him based on his confidence.”
Instead, she will likely see him as a “creep,” a social loser or an outsider in that environment and will want to get away from him as quickly as possible.
Here’s the thing…
Women are hoping to meet a guy who is confident, but doesn’t feel a need to impress them. A guy who is genuinely confident will know that his normal self is already impressive enough because most guys are nervous around attractive women and try hard to “liked” enough in the hope that the woman gives them a chance.
Women don’t want to have to give a guy a chance (i.e. take pity on him, do him a favor). Instead, they want to meet a guy who has the ability to make them feel so much attraction that they want to get a chance with him.
Some guys approach women and have almost no idea what to say or do. So, for example: A guy might approach a woman and say something overtly to gauge her interest in him, before he’s even created any attraction!
He might say, “Hey, nice shoes…wanna f***?” or “Are you Google? Because I’ve just found what I’m searching for” or “Hi, you’re beautiful…wanna dance with me?”
The only women who respond to lines like that before a guy establishes her feelings of attraction are drunk women, unattractive women or weirdo women.
If you want to attract and pick up sober, sexy and sane women, you need to use a more natural approach to seduction. You have to start out by displaying personality traits and behaviors that naturally attract the woman to you and then she will actually find your cheesy lines to be funny, cute, clever, etc.
However, if you start out with lines before establishing attraction, she will assume that you’re yet another guy who doesn’t understand the reality that women live in…
Women do love to flirt and joke around and they also love to have a guy whisper sweet nothings in their ear, but only if he has already established feelings of attraction.
Are You Trying Too Hard to Be Liked By Women?
There’s a big difference between a woman liking you as a person and feel sexually attracted to you.
A lot of guys make the mistake of trying hard to be “liked” by the women they meet (e.g. by acting like much more of a nice guy than he actually is or will be if they got into a relationship).
If a woman has had some experience with men in the past, she knows that guys who kiss her ass upfront and hope to be “liked” for being nice are often the type of guys who will become insecure, needy, jealous or controlling in a relationship.
Why? The guy will have had a very hard time trying to get a girl to “like” him enough to give him a chance before he met her. Then, when they are in a relationship and she naturally begins to pull back her interest at times to test his confidence, he will crumble under the pressure and become insecure, jealous, clingy or controlling.
So, while there is nothing wrong with being a nice guy or being likeable, just make sure that you’re not trying to convince a woman to give you a chance because you’re such a good guy.
If you want instant results with women, you just need to make her feel a lot of sexual attraction for you. When you do that, she will naturally like you as well because she will look at all or most of your other qualities in a more positive light, or she will overlook your flaws to ensure that she doesn’t screw up her chance to be with you.
When a guy doesn’t know what you just read in the paragraph above, he will often make the mistake of giving a woman endless compliments and saying whatever they think she wants to hear in the hope that it gets her to like him enough to give him a chance.
This is not what women want.
Being super nice in that way makes a guy come across as insincere at best and totally desperate at worst. Women know that a guy with the inner qualities that women are naturally turned on by will have his pick of women and as a result, he won’t have to try hard to impress.
Some nice guys see other guys interacting with women and notice that the woman lusts after the guy even though he isn’t trying hard to be nice to her or impress her.
The nice guy will then label that guy as being a “bad boy” or “jerk,” but in many cases, the guy simply doesn’t feel the need to impress women because they already want to be with him based on how much attraction he makes them feel.
The secret to success with women is not to treat them badly, but to trigger their feelings of attraction for you. When you are the guy who makes women feel intense attraction and you are also a good guy, then you are what women refer to as a “catch” or a “keeper.”
It’s actually very difficult for women to find a good guy who also has the ability to make her feel intense attraction because those guys are rare and are almost always taken.
So, when you meet a woman and she realizes that you are an attractive good guy (i.e. you are confident, charismatic, etc), you will notice that she tries really hard to impress you and hopefully get a chance with you.
If a woman can’t get herself an attractive good guy, she will often settle for what most women see as second best, which is an attractive bad boy or jerk. Sometimes, a woman will give an nervous nice guy a chance, but he will almost certainly be dumped or cheated on when the relationship loses its spark.
Being the Guy That Women Love
Words alone are not enough to attraction and maintain the attention of a woman.
If you want women to love you, want you and never leave you, the most important skill that you need to work on is your ability to attract women with your personality, behavior, attitude and conversation style.
However, if you just focus on the words, you will struggle to properly attract quality women who need to feel attracted to who you are, not just what you say.
Women want to be able to see that you are a confident, genuine guy and are not just putting on act to hopefully impress them.
They want to see that what you’re saying is coming from an authentic place because you have the confidence to be your natural, charismatic self rather than hide behind an act or false social persona.