All it usually takes to get an ex-girlfriend to begin missing her ex boyfriend is to feel a strong spark of respect, attraction and love for him again.
If a guy can actively interact with his ex girlfriend, create a spark and then give her space for a few days, she will naturally begin to miss how good it feels to interact with him.
She will want to contact him or see him in person to get more of the good feeling and less of the pain that she is now feeling that he’s not her boyfriend anymore.
Using Jealousy to Make Her Miss You
Sometimes, a quick and easy way to make an ex-girlfriend miss you and temporarily get her back is to focus on making her feel jealous.
For example: When she discovers that other women are showing a lot of interest in her ex-boyfriend, she might feel like she is losing a great guy and she will need to act fast before he falls in love with another woman.
If her boyfriend doesn’t want to get back with her right away and she notices that he’s moving on without her, she might also begin to miss him like crazy and reach out to him in the hope that he will want to meet up with her and talk.
Of course, she may only want him back for selfish reasons (i.e. so she can keep him close by while she secretly tries to find a replacement guy behind his back), but in some cases, making your ex-girlfriend feel jealous is enough to show her that you’re a valuable guy and that she should take you more seriously.
However, a word of warning…
If you’re looking to make your ex-girlfriend miss you like crazy and want you back, make sure that you don’t slip into pretending to have the interest of other women, or only focus on making her feel the emotion of jealousy. If you want her to miss you and want you back for real, you need to make her feel a range of positive and painful emotions.
Watch this video by Dan Bacon (founder of The Modern Man and creator of Get Your Ex Back: Super System) to learn the right way to make your ex girlfriend begin missing you like crazy…
4 Tips For Getting Her to Miss You and Want You Back
There are many ways to make your ex-girlfriend miss you, which are explained in Get Your Ex Back: Super System.
For now, here are 4 of the many ways that you successfully get her to miss you and want you back…
1. Focus on improving yourself and fixing any emotional issues that you may have.
If you want to get your ex-girlfriend back for real, then you will need to put in a bit of real effort to improve yourself and fix any issues that you were brining into the relationship (e.g. jealousy, neediness, clingy behavior, etc).
When you begin to truly improve yourself and fix your issues, your ex-girlfriend will be able to hear that if you can get her on a phone call, see it in your body language and vibe if you can meet her in person and notice it in how you appear in photos on social media.
For example: If a girlfriend dumped a guy because he wasn’t enough of a man for her (e.g. he was a bit of a wimp, emotionally needy, lacked confidence around people, etc) then she will be looking to see if he is coming across as a more confident, masculine guy.
If he is still the same old guy that she lost respect and attraction for, she isn’t going to start missing him like crazy. Instead, she’s going to realize that he still hasn’t changed and she probably made the right decision to end the relationship.
2. Avoid lying to her about anything.
Some guys who are feeling desperate to make their ex-girlfriend miss them will resort to lying about being with other women. In reality, they’ve just been moping around at home missing their ex and the only action they’ve been getting is masturbating to porn.
You don’t have to pick up or have sex with any new women to get an ex-girlfriend to want you back, but if you are going to tell her that you’ve been seeing other women, make sure that it’s the truth.
Why? She can easily catch you out in a lie by either saying something like, “I was thinking of getting back with you, but now that you’ve been with other women, I’ve changed my mind” and then push that point until she gets you to admit that you were lying. When she finds that out, she will lose even more respect and attraction for you.
She could also ask you a lot of personal questions about the woman (e.g. “Where does she live? How old is she? What’s her last name? Where did you meet?” etc.) to see if you fumble on your words or come across as though you’re lying.
3. Don’t pretend to be over her if you’re not.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you continuing to love your ex-girlfriend and want her back in your life after a break up. You do not have to hide the fact that you love her and want her in your life. Never, ever be apologetic about that or worried about showing her that. You do not lose any power if you love a woman unapologetically.
The problems occur when you need her back because you’re an emotional wreck without her.
That’s when it’s not cool.
A woman doesn’t want to get the impression that you’re weak, broken and lost without her, but she will respect and appreciate if you are continuing to love and want her as a part of your life.
So, whatever you do, don’t pretend to be over her if you’re not. She can easily catch you out in that lie by mentioning that she’s missing you, just to see how you react. If you fall for it and tell her how you’re really feeling, she’s going to feel good about herself in her position of power over you – and then she’ll get straight back to moving on and leaving you behind.
4. Let her experience the new and improved version of you.
Nothing will make your ex-girlfriend miss you like crazy more than her getting to experience the new and improved version of you, who still loves her and wants her, but isn’t desperately trying to get her back.
If she can see that other guys simply don’t compare to the new you, then she will always be thinking about you. Then, if you are making sure that you’re focussing on making her feel painful emotions like jealousy and a number of other emotions (instructions provided in Get Your Ex Back: Super System), she will naturally begin to really miss you and want you back.
If you’re asking yourself, “How can I make my girlfriend miss me like crazy and want me back?” try asking this instead, “Have I actually got what women are looking for in a guy?” and then take action to make sure you get it.
Making your ex miss you is about quickly becoming and being the type of guy that almost all women want to be with. If you’re sitting around at home licking your wounds and feeling sorry for yourself, then you’re doing nothing to change yourself or make the improvements to yourself that will make your ex feel differently about you.
Unless you’re prepared to fix the things about yourself that led to your ex-girlfriend breaking up with you in the first place, you are not on the right path.
You need to quickly improve yourself and then get in contact with her to let her experience the new and improved version of you, even if that is only via a phone call to begin with. Let her experience your confidence, charisma and coolness coming through the phone in a loving, non-needy way.
On the call, you can ask her for an in-person catch up, or you can end the phone call and let her sit there with the newfound feeling of respect and attraction that she will now be feeling for you.
When she begins to think about you in a more positive light, she will naturally start to remember all the good times that you had in the relationship, which will cause her to miss you.