Dating advice for a man is a lot different than it is for a woman. Women basically need to improve their physical appearance, whilst men need to improve their confidence and ability to attract women.
In the modern world, the process of meeting and dating women has become very difficult for a lot of men. Women are a lot more independent and many of them behave as though they don’t need a man in their life at all. As a result, you and 1,000s of other men are searching online for dating advice for a man that will work in today’s world.
Step 1: Accept That There is a Dating Game
A lot of guys don’t want dating to be a game; they just want women to like them for being a nice guy. Yet, that’s not how it works, whether we like it or not. To succeed at the dating game, you need accept that there is a game, learn the right techniques and then play the game properly. Only then will you be able to have your choice of women.
If you refuse to learn the right techniques and hope to “get lucky” with women, then this is what will happen to you.
Just like if you wanted to play soccer (European football), you would have to follow the rules of the game. You couldn’t walk onto the field and pick up the ball with your hands and bounce it up and down like a basketball. If you wanted others to enjoy playing with you and if you wanted to be able to score a goal, you would need to accept that there are certain rules that go along with the game.
The dating game is just the same. There are rules that you need to follow and the first rule is this: Understand that women aren’t going to feel much attraction and interest in you without TALKING to you first. Why?
A woman’s attraction for a man is mostly based on his confidence and personality. If you are a good looking man, then you will certainly have women “check you out” or even smile at you, but unless you approach the woman and allow her to experience full attraction to your personality and confidence, all you will be getting is LOOKED at.
As a man, you have to PROACTIVELY attract women and spark their interest by interacting with them. You can’t rely on women looking at you and feeling attraction based on your physical appearance, because a woman is more interested in a man’s personality and how he makes her FEEL.
Unlike us men who can look at a woman and instantly say “Yes” or “No” to the idea of having sex with her, women need to INTERACT with you in order to feel the same level of attraction that we can experience just by looking.
Step 2: Learn the Techniques, Practice and then Become Good at Playing the Dating Game
Some of the most important techniques that you will need to learn are for conversation, flirting, humor and body language. Here are some articles to help you will each of those areas:
The best type of humor is the type that includes flirting. I call this, Playfully Arrogant Humor. It’s not about being an arrogant guy, but it is about being PLAYFULLY arrogant. In other words, you are pretending to be arrogant…and that is VERY funny to women.
An example of this is when a woman asks you what you do for a living (or what you study). Instead of just replying like you are being interviewed for a job, use it as a chance to flirt with her, use humor and display confidence.
- Woman: So, what do you do?
- You: Have a guess (and then smile at her).
She will then laugh and have a guess or two. Then, either tell her right after that, or make up an outlandish occupation. Maybe, you’re a part-time astronaut as well as the drive-through guy at McDonald’s.
- Woman: So, what do you study?
- You: Hmmm, you seem a little innocent…I don’t know if I should tell you.
- Woman: No, tell me! What is it? I can handle it! (Usually smiling and enjoying your humor and mysterious personality).
- You: It’s an emerging field called “Orgasmic Sciences” and it focusses on improving the intensity and length of an orgasm. Have you heard of it?
- Woman: (Usually laughing and asking if you’re joking).
- You: I’m not joking 🙂 These days, many women are struggling to find men who can make them orgasm, so myself and a team of scientists are developing new techniques that men can use.
Then, simply laugh with her, let her know that you’re joking and follow up by revealing your real occupation (or the real university course that you are studying).
When you interact with women in this way, they become attracted and interested in you immediately because you are demonstrating confidence, humor and the ability to flirt and have fun with her.
However, if you play it safe and are too scared to use flirting or humor, then women won’t feel much around you at all. They will see you as just another boring, scared, confused man who is too afraid to loosen up and have a bit of fun.
Step 3: Learn More
My name is Dan Bacon and my dating advice for a man is unlike anything else that you will find online. Why? 95% of the “dating advice” articles you read online are written by people who are making up their tips as they type.
They are not written by men who are actually successful with women, but by people who are just GUESSING at why they think you should try. If you want real advice from a real expert, then look no further…