“At Last – A Results-Focused, 1-on-1 Coaching Program That Really Works!”
Prepare to get on the most accelerated path to success with women & dating available in the world today.
If you would like to learn how to approach, meet and attract women, step-by step in real-life situations so you are then able to start dating lots of women or stop and get a loving girlfriend, then this might be the most exciting message you ever read!
My name is Dan Bacon and not so long ago…
I Was Fairly Hopeless With Women and Was Unable to Get Myself a Girlfriend
I’d head out into social situations, like bars and clubs, and just stand there getting drunk with mates, ‘checking out’ women and talking about ‘What ifs.’
Well, to start with – I didn’t know how what to say to start a good conversation with a woman, let alone continue the conversation, spark attraction, flirt, genuinely connect and then ‘move things forward’. It was all very unclear to me. As a result, I was ‘forcibly celibate’…
For Almost 16 Months in a Row!
As you can imagine, that lifestyle completely sucked!
Why was it happening to me? Well, unfortunately I used to be what some women would refer to as a nice guy. Meaning that most women would see me a potential friend (if that!), rather than a potential lover or boyfriend.
If I did manage to get an interaction going with a woman, my body language sometimes displayed nervousness (e.g. blushing, fidgeting, weak eye contact, hesitation), which immediately ruined any sense of attraction the woman could feel for me.
That also sucked!
Then, there was the really confusing part. I was working in a good management job, I dressed fairly well, had a few good friends and drove a decent car…but, I still struggled to get a girlfriend!
Some of my friends who were average or below-average looking, had little money to their name and nothing going for them career-wise, were in relationships with beautiful and intelligent women!
I Couldn’t Work it Out!
At the peak of my frustration, I remember coming home one night after a few rounds of ‘after-work drinks’ with people I worked with. My sister and I were living together in a rented apartment at the time. As I walked in, she jokingly asked me the usual question, “So, Dan…did you pick up this time?”
What followed was a heartfelt discussion that led me to say…
“That’s it! I Know That I Deserve Better Than This. I’m Going to Get This Area of My Life Sorted, Once and For All…”
Although my sister was supportive, she then remarked with a comment that you may have heard from friends and relatives at some stage in your life, “Don’t worry…the right girl will come along soon…”
I hated hearing that because it meant that I had no control over my dating life. I wasn’t interested in waiting for a beautiful woman to magically land in my lap!
I wanted control.
I wanted to be able to attract women without hopelessly waiting for ‘fate’ to play its course. But there was just one problem: Like MOST guys in this world, who don’t know what we NOW know about women and dating…
Getting a Girlfriend Had Always Been Due to Mere Luck or Fluke For Me…
The only times I would ‘get lucky’, was when a girl showed interest in me and helped the courtship process along. As a result, I ended up getting into relationships that weren’t very personally fulfilling.
Being in a relationship with a woman that you’re not entirely attracted to on physical, emotional and intellectual levels. But, you decide to stay with her because you just don’t believe you can get much else. I hated that feeling!
Worse still, 9 times out of 10, a relationship would end with the girl breaking up with me!
I Hurt Like Hell…and Over Time – It Really Started to Eat Away at My Confidence
I wasn’t sure what was about to happen, but something BIG was about to change…I could just sense it. I decided to commit to learning what I needed to learn, to the point of being able to easily get a girlfriend anytime I pleased. I didn’t want to have to worry about this area of my life anymore.
They Laughed When I First Approached Women, But When I Started to Spark Attraction and Get Results…
A lot of my friends laughed when I said I that was learning how to meet and attract women. They said things like, “Mate, you don’t need to learn that stuff…you’re fine…you’ll meet a girl soon, so don’t worry.”
Yeah, just like during the 16 months of lonely, frustrating celibacy that I went through before deciding to learn! I wanted control over this area of my life and I wanted it NOW.
Fast Forward to Today!
These days, I honestly don’t have enough time to date all the attractive, interesting and intelligent women who want to be my girlfriend.
Going from feeling frustrated and ‘left out’ because you were unable to get a girlfriend for a long time – no matter how hard you tried – to now being able to have many as dates (that lead to kissing and sex) as you like, or find a loving girlfriend whenever you please.
My dating life has consistently been like the latter for more than two years now!
Here’s a recent example…
I went out to a busy bar in Melbourne, Australia with Ben and Stu (from The Modern Man) and we met a number of new women throughout the night. At the end of the night, I went home with three phone numbers from attractive, intelligent women who were keen as hell to meet me again. Yet, given how busy I now am with The Modern Man, I’ve only had time to begin dating ONE of the new women.
The other two were great girls and I had very ‘productive’ interactions with them on the night, but I never did get around to calling either of them. At the time of writing this – I’ve been dating the one woman I called now for a couple of weeks. She’s an awesome girl and a couple of nights ago when she slept over at my place, we were talking about going away for a weekend to a relaxation retreat.
That’s the dating lifestyle that I always dreamed about…now it happens very, very easily for me. This is a luxury that YOU can have, if you can learn to believe that it’s possible to change your current difficulties with women and dating.
I’ve Learnt How to Become Confident and Irresistibly Attractive to Women…You Can Too!
But can you? I mean, really…
Is this life-changing course of step-by-step, 1-on-1 coaching on how to meet and attract women in bars and other social hotspots for you? Before you decide, do yourself a favor and take a minute to look at the questions below and give yourself a clear YES or NO answer…
Do you often avoid approaching women because you don’t know what to say?
Do you sometimes avoid approaching women because you fear being rejected in front of others?
Would you like to gain rock-solid, absolutely unshakable confidence that will last you for the rest of your life?
Would you like to improve your social skills in the areas of: flirting, conversation, body language, confidence and hum our?
Have you ever felt that women don’t find you attractive?
Would you like to be able to go out during the day or night and get a girlfriend whenever you feel like it?
Are you sometimes too much of a nice guy around women?
Are you sincerely interested in having a proven, expert, dating coach teaching you exactly how to be confident and attract women, with the absolute ease and consistency of a natural?
How did you go?
If you answered YES to at least two of those questions…then, I suggest you read on to discover the amazing opportunity that is right in front of you. This is your chance to connect with the dating lifestyle you’ve always dreamed of.
This is Within Your Reach…and it is Learnable…YES – Even For You!
Case Study #1
“He’d Read The Game by Neil Strauss and Tried Using Seduction Tactics, But it Didn’t Work…”
Location: Sydney, Australia
Situation: Darren spent years learning about seduction tactics featured in The Game by Neil Strauss, but despite his awesome efforts of trying things out in real life…none of was working.
He needed a more natural approach…
Case Study #2
“I Want a Girlfriend By Christmas Time”
Location: Brisbane, Australia
Situation: Stephen had some previous experience with women, but lacked confidence in himself to approach women, flirt and move things forward.
He wanted to be able to have a girlfriend in time for the annual family Christmas party, which was fast approaching.
Case Study #3
“He’d Read The Game by Neil Strauss and Tried Using Seduction Tactics, But it Didn’t Work…”
Location: Adelaide, Australia
Situation: Evan had never been with a woman before in his life. The Lifestyle Course opened him up to a completely new world, where he became attractive to women and discovered a newfound confidence in himself.
Case Study #4
“He’d Read The Game by Neil Strauss and Tried Using Seduction Tactics, But it Didn’t Work…”
Location: Brisbane, Australia
Situation: Richard was doing exceptionally well in his career, had the car he always wanted and had a good group of friends who were all coupled up or married.
Despite all of his great achievements, he couldn’t get a girlfriend to save his life!
Here’s the thing…
Women are attracted to certain things about men that you can develop. It doesn’t matter what you look like, what race you’re from or how little experience you’ve had with women.
Why? Simple: Women Are Naturally ‘Wired’ to be Attracted to Men Who Have The Following Qualities…
- Confidence: Your social confidence, your confidence around her, confidence about yourself in general.If you can’t approach a woman because you fear rejection, or don’t feel very confident about it, then it will be almost impossible for you to attract women and get a girlfriend.
- Social skills: Your ability to get along with others and get somewhere in life.Just imagine a beautiful, single woman looking for a boyfriend to get into a relationship with. One night, she gets approached by a guy who lacks confidence and sucks at creating conversation with her to the point where she almost instantly becomes bored in his presence.What does that communicate to her? That he’ll be fun to be around? That he’ll be able to get along with her friends, succeed at work and be confident in the bedroom? We both know the answer to those questions.So, how about you? When you talk to women, do they feel excited, passionate and attracted? Do your conversations lead to kissing, sex and love with many women? Or are you always picked last and seen as the ‘nice guy’ or potential friend?
- Masculinity: Whether or not you can be an alpha male who isn’t afraid of the world…or afraid of her!Are you sometimes overly-polite and cautious around people, so as not to offend? Do you sometimes hesitate about making a move, because you’re unsure about yourself and what you want?Do you sometimes find yourself regretting how you behaved in social situations and wished you could just change and be the guy you’ve always wanted to be?
- Sexual vibe: Your ability to flirt with a woman and make her feel the emotions of sexual attraction.A woman craves to be with a guy who can make her feel the emotion of sexual attraction. If you don’t know how to do that (…by the way – strong and lasting attraction has little to do with looks, age, race or occupation…) you’ll be dumped in no time!
The list goes on…
However, the number one thing you need to be aware of and learn to believe is that…
Beautiful Women Are in Loving, Sexual Relationships With ALL Kinds of Men…Tall, Short, Poor, Rich, Dorky-Looking, Etc…
If you don’t believe that and are saying, “Yeah, but it’s different for me because…” then do yourself a favor and look around the next time you are in a public place. They are normal, average guys!
I don’t care if you have never been with a woman, only had one girlfriend, or have been married and divorced twice – you CAN do this. You can decide to take control of this area of your life as I did. Better yet, you are about to learn how to achieve it in the FASTEST way possible. You are literally a weekend away from finding out how enjoy the fruits of a lifestyle filled with women.
Why NOT Be Good With Women?
I hated the feeling of being alone and not having a woman in my life. Not one single woman. Nada. Zilch. Zero!
How does it make you feel to not have control over this area of your life? Personally, until I got it completely sorted, it always seemed to cast a ‘dark shadow’ over my life. No matter what happened in my life, something was always missing.
Now, I understand that this might sound a little corny, but – everything really does seems so much brighter these days! Instead of looking at women with quiet disdain and feelings of frustration because ‘they don’t like me’, I look at women with love and respect.
Not only that, but I look at women with a confidence that is irresistibly attractive…
…and they notice and smile back!
Can you imagine the amazing feelings you’d experience if you smiled confidently at a woman and she smiled back in a way that suggested she was attracted to you and wanted to meet you? Better yet, imagine what life would be like if you were one of the rare guys who could confidently approach her and start a conversation….and then move things forward with ease and consistency.
Give Us One Weekend and We’ll Give You The Secrets to an Attractive & Confident Personality
Here’s what you will learn, step-by-step from the best dating coaches in the world!
How to Easily Approach Women and Begin Conversations: Ben, Stu or I will teach you, step-by-step, how to approach women and begin interesting & attractive conversations. We’ll share our personal ways of starting conversations with women that NEVER fail. You will learn exactly how to come up with things to say, so you’re never stuck for words EVER again. You will also learn to avoid the mistakes that most men make when they approach a woman, so you consistently stand out and get a woman’s attention anywhere you go.
How to Continue Conversations With Women: Once you’ve started the conversation, what do you say next? We’ll explain the mechanics of conversation, so you’ll know exactly how to continue an interesting conversation to allow a woman to become comfortable around you.
Live Demonstrations by Your Coach Ben, Stu: or I will approach women right in front of you and then explain why it worked perfectly. We’ll show you exactly how we naturally attract women with our genuine, masculine and confident approach. …and we’ll get you to do the same, by coaching you each step of the way until you are completely confident and effective!
How to Spark a Natural Attraction With Any Woman: Our absolutely, rock-solid, scientifically proven and natural approach to attraction is guaranteed to work…if you simply learn how do it. Remember: We are going to reveal it to you step-by-step, so don’t worry if you think you’re not very good at it. You will be amazed at good you really can be. Scores of men have already taken a Lifestyle Course with us, from complete beginner level to super advanced.
We’ve coached: Young guys who are just entering the dating scene. Guys who’ve had no success with women. Guys who’ve had some success with women. Older guys who have been married and divorced. Guys who consider themselves nerdy or unattractive. Guys who consider themselves good-looking. …and no matter what their experience level was or what they happened to think about their appearance, every client is ALWAYS blown away by the MASSIVE improvements they experience in all areas identified on this page.
You can achieve what past clients have achieved and MORE. This is totally within your reach.
A Natural Style of Meeting Women: You could sign up to learn from a pick up artist, who might teach you tricks and techniques on how to manipulate a woman into liking you. However, we prefer to do it with integrity and as such, we will teach you how to naturally attract women – without the need for cheesy tricks or phony behavior. You can then use our natural approach in bookstores, supermarkets, shopping centers, bars, clubs and parties for the rest of your life.
How to Genuinely Connect and Vibe With a Woman: Once you learn how to attract women (which is actually the easiest part…you’ll see, don’t worry!), you will also need to learn how to connect and vibe with a woman. After all, if you don’t get along – you don’t get along. Ben, Stu and I have personally interacted with over 6,000 women during the last four years. We know exactly how to connect with women and explore deeper, more interesting conversations, which actually boost a woman’s attraction and interest in you. …all of which will be explained to you, step-by-step.
How to Take Things to the Next Level: It’s great to flirt, chat and have interesting conversations with women, but if you don’t move things forward, then chances are that nothing will happen. In fact, even after an hour of amazingly fun & interesting conversation you might be hit with the old, “I have to go to the bathroom” comment. Or the classic, “My friends and I are going to dance…bye!”
Taking things to the next level includes things like: Physical touch, kissing, hugging, sitting alone together, getting a phone number…right up to making something happen on the night. Note: While a lot of clients will reach this level by Saturday night, we won’t force you to go that far. Your Lifestyle Course will be tailored to you and your needs.
Proven Expert Advice: Since the release of The Game, by Neil Strauss it seems that every man and his dog is an expert in this area. We were around before the release of The Game and sometimes, the best way to judge the value of those who claim to be experts is to listen to what other people are saying about them…
Honest, Friendly Feedback and Advice: We don’t like to waste your time or ours, so be prepared to be given honest, friendly feedback and advice that will help you learn what you need to know as quickly as possible. Although your coach will be giving you feedback throughout the night, people never notice that a Lifestyle Course is taking place, because we keep the feedback discreet.
Professional Coaching: Each Modern Man coach comes from a qualified coaching background. We have over 15 years of coaching experience on the team and we can and will adapt our style to suit your needs. You may have had very similar experiences to other clients that we’ve coached, but we still recognize you as an individual with your own unique situation that needs fixing.
It doesn’t matter how good or bad your past experiences with women have been, we will give you the fastest and most effective solutions available in the world.
1-on-1 coaching On a Modern Man Lifestyle Course, you have the full attention of your coach, so he can answer all of your questions and provide personalized solutions to your problem areas with women & dating.
For any man aged 18-45: If you are between the ages of 18 to 45 years old, then we can coach you. Your age, race, physical looks or occupation does not matter when it comes to what we teach. Why? Women are naturally attracted to certain male behaviors and personality traits.…of which you will learn how to quickly develop and display!
The Convenience of Australia-Wide Coaching: We are located in Melbourne and were the first, national coaching company of this kind. In fact, no one else is offering this service all across Australia. We can coach you in Melbourne, Perth, Sydney, Cairns, Brisbane, Tasmania or Adelaide. If you are not located in Melbourne: You can either add some more adventure to the weekend by flying down to Melbourne to do the Lifestyle Course away from people you know. Or, Ben, Stu or I will gladly fly up to your home state and teach you on your familiar turf.
Eliminate Years of Guesswork: Most men will never know what it feels like to be confident and successful with women. Why? Like their ancestors who went to their graves not knowing what women really want, modern men just don’t know how to achieve it! But this is the modern world and you are a modern man.
A Modern Man Lifestyle Course will eliminate years of guesswork, rejection, pain and frustration that could result if you were to try and learn it all yourself over the next 5-10 years. Especially if you are one to sometimes procrastinate, or to try and read and learn ‘everything’ before trying anything in real-life situations! There is absolutely no sane reason why you should want to waste years of your own life, if we can teach you exactly what you need to know in ONE weekend.
Overcome Any Fear of Rejection: The reality is that most guys fear being rejected by women in front of others…so they don’t approach. Once you know what we know about confidence and understand the step-by-step, rejection proof approach that we use – you will place yourself in the top 1% of guys who can get a girlfriend if and when they please.
Imagine being able to confidently approach women in bookstores, supermarkets, bars and so on – and actually know what to do to make something happen! Would that be something that you’d be interested in? Would that make your life more fulfilling and interesting? Would that open the doors of possibility and help you find your ideal woman?
Different Environments: We’ll visit a number of different bars with you to ensure you get quality experience in various environments. There is also the option to meet women in bookstores, supermarkets, etc. We tailor the course to you, so just let us know!
What to do From Start to Finish: A lot of guys avoid approaching women, because they don’t know what to do if the woman actually responds well. We’ll explain how things work from start to finish, so you can approach with confidence, knowing full well that you can move things forward properly and without rejection.
Approaching Groups of Women: Sometimes, the thought of approaching a group of attractive women can make any man feel queasy. We’ll explain exactly what kind of approach will work for each group you approach.…and you will quickly realize how easily you can create fun, interesting and successful interactions with all kinds of women!
Benefits For Life: What you learn on a Modern Man Lifestyle Course will benefit you for the rest of your life. I won’t harp on with a list here. Instead, I’ll ask you to take a good look through this page at all the amazing things you will be learning and applying in real-life situations. “To say that this course has made me a better person would be an understatement.” Evan, Adelaide
A Fun and Enjoyable Course: Meeting women may have been a daunting and frustrating process for you in the past. Using our tried and tested methods for successful social interactions, you will learn how to make the interactions fun and enjoyable for both you and the women you meet.
You will understand how to be the guy who everyone loves to hang around with. You’ll also learn how to have a lot more fun with your life and how to eliminate any of the pressure you feel in social interactions. Socializing can be fun – you just need to know how to do make it so! Note: The skills you learn on course will be directly transferable to all areas of your social life.
Body Language: Studies show that a mere 7% of what you communicate is found in the words you use. 38% is the tonality of your voice and 55% is based on your body language. You will learn the right body language to use when interacting with women, in order to project confidence and spark a strong, natural attraction. “…feedback was that my body language was apologetic for being there, which in turn makes the others feel less comfortable.” Darren, Sydney
Voice and Tonality: Tonality and how you use your voice is crucial when interacting with and attracting women. You will learn how to use your voice and tonality in a way that is naturally attractive to women.
DOs and DON’Ts: No matter who you are, you are most likely making mistakes and ‘social errors’ that are currently sabotaging your success with women. You will learn the DOs and DON’Ts of interacting and relating with women, which will make you stand out from other guys…BIG TIME.
No Experience Required: It doesn’t matter if you have absolutely no experience at all with women, or if you’re a regular Casanova – we’ve coached guys of all experience levels to become more naturally attractive to women. The course is structured to ensure you will gain massive improvements, no matter what your current abilities are in this area. Understandably, some guys have written to us questioning whether or not the course would work for them.
I mean, it might sound like a huge claim for us to suggest that we can make you more naturally attractive to women in ONE weekend. …but we can. We do it every weekend…and HOPEFULLY, you are the next guy that we transform into a super-confident, naturally attractive man who women just can’t get enough of! Note: Once you know what we know, women will approach YOU. No kidding.
Enhance Your Current Strengths: In addition to finding out what you need to improve on, we are just as keen to find what you’re doing right. You may be unaware of how many positive qualities you currently have that attract women and how best to display and enhance them. Because we are highly-experienced coaches, we know exactly how to recognize and build on your strengths.
Build Confidence That Lasts! It is no accident that some guys are confident, some guys know how to be confident and some guys don’t even know what confidence is! Those who have confidence have either built it naturally through experience, or have learned how to ignite and maintain it. On a Lifestyle Course, you will learn and begin applying the secrets to absolutely, rock-solid, unshakeable confidence that women find irresistibly attractive! This area of coaching will have a massive impact on your self-esteem and confidence, and as such, on your success with women, dating and life in general. “My confidence has soared through the roof as a direct result of TMM.” Nathan, Melbourne
Connect and Create ‘Chemistry’ With Women: Ever wondered why some guys just seem to just ‘hit it off’ easily with women and often have most women lusting after them? We’ll explain why and coach you on the specific personality traits you need to develop and enhance, in order to consistently create chemistry with women you meet…
Discover and Apply the Secrets to Flirting: Flirting is essential for attracting and maintaining the interest of women, but most guys do not know how to flirt! You will instantly distinguish yourself from other guys, by applying our flirting secrets with your words, body language and actions. Fact: If you don’t know how to flirt properly, then your dating life and relationships will always have major problems.
Learn to Calibrate: Different women, different environments and different situations call for different approaches. As you start interactions with different kinds of women, we’ll talk to you about calibrating your approach to suit the situation. Not doing this correctly will ruin the potential for a successful interaction. As you may be aware, it’s hard to get a second chance at making a first impression. You need to learn how to get it right, first time, every time so you don’t have to waste great opportunities with women anymore!
Discover the Secrets to Reading a Woman’s Cues: How do you know if a woman is interested in you? What body language and verbal cues do you look for? What should you do when you notice that a woman is interested? Ask us and we’ll tell you! We’ll then get you to notice how it happens while we’re meeting women together throughout the course. This area is so important to master, especially if you want to move things forward with women consistently and the pain of being rejected in front of others.
Kissing: We’ll advise you on ways to go about kissing a woman you’ve just met, while avoiding any feelings of awkwardness between you and her.
Getting Phone Numbers: We’ll explain everything you need to know about getting a woman’s phone number, right up to when to call and what to do on the phone. We’ll also reveal how to avoid rejection while getting a phone number. It works every time!
How to be an Alpha Male: Women are more naturally attracted to alpha male traits in guys. Just think about some of the alpha males that you know and the attention they get from women. We’ll let you in on the secrets of alpha male behavior. and demonstrate how to do so. Knowing what we know about this area is worth more than anything you have ever bought or invested in. That may sound like a big statement, but we believe it and so will you once you experience what life is like as an alpha male. “The Advanced Lifestyle Course I took was the single best investment I have EVER made.” Stephen, Brisbane
Build Powerful Masculinity to Attract Women: We are a leading expert in the world on the subject of masculinity. What you will learn is that there are specific and easily-learnable ways of being masculine or ‘manly’ that attract women. It doesn’t matter if you are 5 feet tall and 45kgs, you can still be very masculine in your behavior. and psychology and attract women like you never have before. You will be amazed at how women begin to respond to you. “This weekend was the start of an amazing transformation…to confident, self-assured, alpha-male.” Gary, Melbourne
Avoid the Dreaded ‘Friend Zone’: Ever heard this one from a woman, “I think we should just be friends…is that okay?” Discover how to avoid being seen as a ‘friend’ by a woman you would like to be sexually involved with.
Turn the Tables: Sick of being the guy who is forever chasing girls? We’ll show you how to turn the tables on that, so it can be the other way around. If you want to be able to choose your girlfriend, rather than waiting to ‘get lucky’, then you’ve found the solution. We will teach you how to interact with women, so that they try to pick YOU up. Seriously. You have to experience it personally to believe it.
Develop and Unleash Your Ideal Personality Fact: You don’t have to learn seduction tricks to be successful with women. Unlike a ‘bag of seduction tricks’ course with a pick up artist, a huge focus of our Lifestyle Courses is to help you develop the behaviors and personality traits that women find irresistibly attractive. As a result, you will be able to remain attractive to a woman long into an interaction, date or long-term relationship because it will be the real you. Albeit, a more attractive version of you!
“There was no need for canned material. No opinion openers. No gimmicks. No deceitful or insecure ‘strategies’. I’d tried those ‘GAMING’ approaches and felt like a phony – getting B-grade results. The Modern Man approach is based on integrity and character, and is MUCH more powerful.” Stephen, Brisbane
Vibing: We describe vibing as a positive, social rhythm between people. Understanding the secrets to vibing will help you to immediately get along with women anytime, anywhere in formal or informal environments. If you don’t know how to vibe, you will often find yourself stuck for words or unable to continue a conversation in an interesting way.
Personal Fashion & Style Assessment Fashion and a sense of style can be an important factor when it comes to attracting the sort of women you desire. This assessment and advice is optional, but can dramatically improve your results.
Being a Confident, Social Guy: Unleashing this side of yourself is like taking in a deep breath after being submerged under water for a few minutes. Relief at last! Ahh!! Once you grasp what we are teaching, all the panic, worry and frustration about meeting and dating women will begin to disappear. Women – especially attractive, intelligent women – really appreciate a guy who is confident and can socialize effectively.
For example: If you can’t get along with a woman and her friends, then you’re going to make her and her friends feel uncomfortable. Fact: You cannot become a confident, social guy without knowing what we know about confidence and socializing We have read up on and tested all the available ‘methods’ and our 1000-times proven approach is LIGHT-YEARS ahead of what most people are teaching.
How to be Funny: A great sense of hum our is very attractive to women, yet a lot of guys struggle with this area. We’ll demonstrate how to be funny in a way that is attractive to women. It will bring energy and excitement to your interactions like never before. Prepare to unleash the funny guy in you and experience more fun and excitement as you interact with women!
Capture a Woman’s Attention How do you stand out from the crowd?
For some women who have guys approaching them all the time, it all just becomes a blur. A guy approaches and some women think, “Ohh, here we go again…” You will learn exactly how to stand out from the crowd so that YOU are the one she remembers! Women will be absolutely captivated by you and your new, charming personality. You will know how to attract even the most sought-after of women…regardless of your age, race or physical appearance.
If you don’t believe it, just stop for a moment and imagine all the ‘average-looking’ guys out there who are dating beautiful women….and ask yourself, “Do I want beautiful women in my life?” The obvious answer is YES. Every guy wants beautiful women in his life, but MOST don’t know how to make it happen. You will soon have a secret edge that will last you your ENTIRE life.
Challenge Yourself & Grow: A Lifestyle Course is designed to get you out of your ‘comfort zone’ and trying things with women that you might otherwise avoid. Regardless of what level you’re at now, you will discover amazing things about meeting, attracting and dating women. Ben, Stu and I have been through it all personally and have learnt how to do this. We know of the ‘anxious feelings’ that can cloud your mind when you think of approaching women. This course will show exactly how to eliminate those feelings, while allowing you to gain bucket-loads of positive experience meeting and attracting women.
How to Avoid ‘Awkward Silences’ When Talking With Women: Ever had a conversation come to a complete stop and not known how to handle it? Ever started speaking to a woman, only to have her respond by being closed up and cold toward you? We’ll explain how to get through those situations with class, while increasing a woman’s attraction for you at the same time! This has to be experienced to be believed and understood.
Knowledge is Power…if Used: You may have read our e-Books or newsletters, or watched or listened to audio programs and DVDs. However, if you are not putting anything into practice, then you are wasting your time. As one client said, “…Doing the course is a bit like walking through a door between two different realities.”
He experienced a total shift that weekend, from being a guy who used to stand on the sidelines watching, to being a guy who women were intensely attracted to. Ben, Stu or I will show you how to apply any current knowledge you have, eliminate any errors you are making and help you achieve success faster than you can imagine.
Our Pain is Now Your Gain: What struggles did Ben, Stu and I face along the way to becoming a natural with women? What things do you need to look out for when you attempt to master this area of your life? What should you do once the interaction starts going well? How do you ensure that a woman remains interested in you? And so on…
Nothing beats real-life experience…we have been through all the pain, made all the common mistakes and after years and years of trial and error – we have come out on top. Getting a girlfriend, or enjoying an abundant dating life is now as easy as 1,2,3.…and we want to share all the life-changing secrets with you, so you can accelerate your success and make things happen lightening-fast!
Approach and Talk to Women That YOU Find Attractive: Everyone has their own idea of what is attractive. Maybe you aren’t attracted to ‘club bunnies’ and in addition to a woman being beautiful, you might also prefer her to be down-to-earth, easy-going, intelligent and open-minded. Maybe you like women who enjoy a good conversation, have a warm smile, contribute their share to a relationship and enjoy relaxing at home with a DVD, just as much as going out to party. This course will teach you how to get a girlfriend that suits YOU.
Develop Your Own Style of Meeting Women: Although Ben, Stu and I all share the same values about meeting, attracting and dating women, we each have our own individual characteristics and quirks. This course is not designed to turn you into a clone. It is designed to allow you to be yourself, while applying our tried and tested, 1000-times proven secrets to naturally attracting women.
This means that you will be able to interact with women in a genuine, real and attractive way and have women love you for it. What more could you ask for?
Detailed and Practical Advice: We want to make sure you ‘get it’, as opposed to just telling you a whole heap of ‘stuff and hoping that it helps you. For example: Have you ever heard or read some advice that said, “You need to be confident with women” ? Yeah, thanks Mr. Guru…but can you tell me how to be confident? Throughout the course, we will explain the concepts in easy-to-understand detail, so you can grasp each of them and apply them as we go along.
More Women to Date: Nothing happens until something moves.” Albert Einstein. Wise words from a wise man. As you know by now, women don’t just magically appear in your arms. You need to do a number of things before it gets to the point of a date, or dating relationship. What you will learn on our life-changing Lifestyle Course, will set you on a path to have an abundance of options with the types of women you desire.
Are you ready to take serious action towards building confidence, improving your social skills and getting a girlfriend?
Build on Your Circle of Friends: What you learn on your Lifestyle Course will help give you the confidence to start expanding your social circle, attracting women and attracting more quality friends into your life. Imagine being invited to house parties by attractive women…going on weekends away with male & female friends.
That sort of lifestyle is priceless. You just need to decide that you want it. Then, you need to learn the easy way to make it happen and draw women into your life, without having to try much at all. That is where we step in! We will explain exactly how to build the confidence you’ve always wanted and achieve the dating lifestyle you’ve always dreamed of.
Confidential: We take the issue of your privacy very seriously and understand that working on this area of your life is often a very personal journey. Your details will be treated with the utmost respect for privacy. We understand that you may be well-known because of work, or may feel awkward about the potential of running into someone you know while on course.
Prior to beginning to meet any women, we establish a ‘little story’ of how we know each other just in case. For example: We used to work together, we’re 2nd cousins, you dated my ex-girlfriend’s sister, etc. It always works and no-one else ever suspects that a course is taking place!
Choice of Coach: Depending on availability, you can be coached by Ben, Stu or I. Note: You don’t have to pick a coach. It’s purely optional and in the absence of a choice, we will assign the next available coach.
Self-Assessment & Lifestyle Questionnaires: After signing up and purchasing or making a deposit for your course, you will be sent a Self-Assessment & Lifestyle Questionnaire. These questionnaires are designed to find out what you do and don’t know, so we can tailor the course to your exact needs. “Seek first to understand, then to be understood” Stephen Covey, Author of The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People.
The Longer You Leave it, the Worse it May Get For You…
The reality is that trying to do this all on your own takes a LOT of time. Personally, I had to approach at least 500 women, over the course of 2 years before I even started to begin realizing the secrets that Ben, Stu and I can now teach you in a couple of nights.
So, at the very least, this Lifestyle Course will SAVE YOU A LOT OF TIME. But, how much money will you waste trying to be attractive to women through other means? I mean, a lot of guys will spend tens of thousands of dollars on a brand new car, too look ‘successful’ for women.
But, they don’t actually have a woman.
Some guys will spend money on new gadgets and technology, to look ‘cool’ for women.
But, they don’t actually have a woman.
Some will guys spend hundreds of dollars per year on alcohol, to temporarily ‘boost their confidence’ around women when in social environments.
But, still…they don’t actually have a woman.
Decide what sort of life you want to be living: One with women in it or without women in it.
Course Schedules, Pricing and Locations
*International courses are more expensive because of the international travel involved. If you and a friend want to book a course together, you can get a 30% discount each if we can run the courses over two, consecutive weekends.
Sign Up: $500 Deposit to Secure Course
***Sorry. We are currently not taking bookings for courses. If you would like to learn everything that we’d teach you on a Lifestyle Course, we recommend that you watch Dating Power
Dating Power includes all of the techniques and instructions that we provided on our Lifestyle Courses, except it is only a few hundred dollars rather than a few thousand.
You get to save a lot of a money and learn it all very quickly from the comfort and privacy of your own home. So, the next time you interact with a woman or go out to actively approach women, you will be armed with the powerful, proven to work Dating Power method.
Here is the story of how we developed Dating Power by taking clients out to approach women on our Lifestyle Courses for many years.
Why have we stopped running the courses?
I (Dan Bacon) am now in a committed relationship after being with countless pretty women and after coaching guys on the Lifestyle Courses for many years! I will probably be starting a family sometime in the next year or so. I really would LOVE to coach you personally, but it’s just not possible anymore. I gave my time every weekend to run those courses for many years and I now share my knowledge via Modern Man products.
Today, I am getting deeply involved in the next stage of life with my perfect woman. From this new experience of being in an amazing, committed relationship and later starting a family, I will be able to provide you with tested, proven to work advice for relationships and parenting. Stay tuned! 🙂
Ben always has multiple women in his life at once (he’s not yet ready to commit to one girl) and spends his time managing the technical side of The Modern Man (computer coding, accounting, etc) and Stu is in a committed relationship. Ben and Stu are not available for courses also. However, you can learn from Ben, Stu and I by watching Dating Power, which is what we taught to men on our Lifestyle Courses (bootcamps).
After You Sign Up For Your Lifestyle Course
After you sign up by depositing the $500 for the course, Dan will e-mail you to:
- Provide you with the most up to date list of available weekends to choose from (bookings sometimes come through at the same time, so please understand if a weekend shown above is already booked).
- Have you fill in the the Self-Assessment & Lifestyle Questionnaires and e-mail them back to us, so we can get a clear understanding of what you need to accomplish on the course.
- Give you every Modern Man product for free.
Pre-Course Preparation Sheet
Once your course weekend has been confirmed, we will send you a Pre-Course Preparation Sheet to ensure you are ready for the course. The Pre-Course Preparation Sheet will give you advice on how to prepare for the course and also include details on where we will meet to start the course.
Need to Talk on the Phone First?
Free phone consultation
If you need more info about the course before depositing the course funds, please send contact us and provide the following information:
- Contact phone number.
- Best time to call you.
Dan will call you to answer any questions you have or provide you with the information you need before signing up for a course.
I look forward to coaching you in person very soon!
Dating Coach, The Modern Man
P.S. You get every Modern Man product included for free with your course. Dan, Ben or Stu will then show you how to use all of the techniques from our products in real-life situations (i.e. bars, clubs, on the street, in restaurants, etc) with women. This course is designed to turn your ‘non-existent’ or ‘hit and miss’ successes with women into consistent, repeatable, and MASSIVE success for you. You will learn how to turn your attraction skills into a natural part of who you are… and go on to effortlessly attract women as part of your every day life. You will immediately be able to use what you learn on course and you will see results INSTANTLY.
P.P.S. Following your Lifestyle Course, you will stop worrying about ‘success with women’ because it will just be a natural part of your life as a man. It’s the way your life was meant to be…and we hope you don’t cheat yourself out of it by not signing up for this life-changing course.
What Previous Clients Have Said…
“This weekend was the start of an amazing transformation – from needy, insecure…. to a confident, self-assured, alpha-male.” Gary, Melbourne, Australia [Read more]
“…so easy, fun and so interesting. It was like one continuous party where you are kind of a “friend of friends” but need some encouragement to meet them.” C, Sydney, Australia [Read more]
“Firstly let me say upfront that it’s the best thing I have ever done, and I cant recommend it more highly to anyone who is thinking about signing up.” D, Melbourne, Australia [Read more]
“There was no need for canned material. No ‘opinion openers’. No gimmicks. No deceitful or insecure ‘strategies’. I’d tried those ‘GAMING’ approaches and felt like a phony – getting B-grade results. The Modern Man approach is based on integrity and character, and is MUCH more powerful.” Stephen, Brisbane, Australia [Read more]
“My confidence has soared through the roof as a direct result of TMM.” Nathan, Melbourne, Australia
“…I did things I could never have imagined myself doing. You can just feel all the old beliefs and mistaken ideas falling apart in your mind and a whole new side of yourself opening up. On the Sunday after the course I had both the girls behind the counter of Starbucks giggling and flirting while a line built up behind me.” Evan, Adelaide, Australia [Read more]
“I was amazed at how easy it was to create chemistry with girls…once you know how it works, it’s like ABC, 123…it’s awesome!” Tran, Melbourne, Australia
“She was leaning right into me so I knew I had to kiss her soon.” Darren, Sydney, Australia [Read more]
“…I did the course last weekend and am absolutely rapt with how many women I met and the results I got…this is REAL guys! Take the punt and sign up…I am so glad that I did…” Andrew, Sydney, Australia
“This course has opened my eyes to the new world out there…step by step into the realm of attracting women…the one weight that has been plaguing me for so long has been finally lifted off my chest.” George, W.A, Australia [Read more]
An Asian client who wanted to pick up white women:
A socially “cool” client who wanted to overcome his approach anxiety and fear around beautiful women:
Customers who have been taught the Dating Power techniques, which are the same techniques we teach on our Lifestyle Courses.
A nerdy client who always got placed in the friend zone:
An average-guy type client who was previously terrified of approaching women:
A good guy client who didn’t understand what women found attractive and how to get them interested:
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To start off, a few words to describe the Modern Man Lifestyle Course for me: Inspirational, Inner Game, Honesty, Integrity, Passionate, Value for Money, Commitment, Natural, Bonus.
After more than 12 months in “the game”, I was disappointed at my progress with attracting women. I decided to do a bootcamp even though I was not 100% sure that it could help me. I decided to take the course in their hometown of Melbourne and since I’d never been there, it was a bonus holiday.
We [started] at a little restaurant to discuss my goals and current skills. Dan talked about mindsets and how important it is to develop a positive, confident belief in myself as this really affects my body language and presence. I also learned a lot about Dan’s story and to understand the position that he has come from is really inspirational and admirable, not much different from my own. We moved onto another St Kilda bar where Dan opened a group of 3 girls. They were immediately receptive to him and I hesitantly joined in. We vibed for about 10 mins before deciding to leave. My first positive feedback was that my body language displayed that I was apologetic for being there which in turn makes the others feel less comfortable.
My second opening was better and I vibed with the two girls for about 10 minutes before politely ejecting. Dan said they were attracted, but I lost confidence in moving them to a more comfortable place. This area of Melbourne was not really busy for a Friday night so we moved to another popular nigh strip location. One of the great things about Dan was that he could “read” every group and tell how open they were to being approached. He was really attentive to not sending me into groups that required a lot of warming up. I felt he was really aiming to build my confidence, not just stroke my ego…
I continued doing approaches and getting good feedback from Dan, my body language was still letting me down but I wasn’t getting blown out of sets at least. I got a good vibe going with a girl I approached who was looking for her friends but again I ejected after about 10 mins. My limiting belief here was that she was going to spot her friends any minute and run off, but in reality I think she had already seen her friends and wanted to keep talking. All of my conversation was natural, no routines and then just vibing and a bit of cocky and funny.
Stu (another TMM coach) had met up with us by now so I was getting feedback from two experts 🙂 We were about to move on from the last bar when Dan decided to do another demonstration while I watched from nearby with Stu. He didn’t use any special ‘opener’ but his confident projection and solid body language had the 4 girls hanging off his every word. I soon noticed two of the girls waving and smiling at me, so I waved back thinking what are they doing? They then came over and gave Stu and I a hug and a kiss on the cheek. This turned into me being isolated with one of the girls and getting a good flirty vibe going. She was leaning right into me so I knew I had to kiss her soon. I saw my opportunity when she started putting lip gloss on (in hindsight, this was a huge IOI).
Me: “What does that taste like?”
Her: (hands me the tub of lip gloss)
Me: “Haha, no…come here” (pull her in for the kiss)
I then kind of messed up here by just vibing with her again when I could easily have been escalating more. Limiting beliefs still getting the better of me! I ended up hesitating too long with this and only got her number as she left with her friends. Well a kiss on the first night, I was still happy with that! On the Saturday night we started with some dinner at a Japanese restaurant in the city. We spent about 2-3 hours talking about stuff such as story telling, deeper rapport, getting phone numbers, vibing, reducing flakiness and how I handled all of these situations. We headed to a classy bar at about 9pm. I did one approach with a group of 3 girls, which wasn’t bad but wasn’t great. We decided to move to another up market venue that I actually liked better as it was pretty big and open and it had a few approachable groups. I did some more approaches.
One that stands out in my mind was a group of 3 cute girls and I vibed quite smoothly. Dan came in after 5 mins to take care of the girl furtherest from me and it wasn’t long before the alpha chick was inviting me to “grab that empty chair and sit down if you want.” I agreed and Dan later told me that I should not have followed her lead but rather done it on my own terms. This makes sense but at the time I was thinking “sitting is better than standing and I am being invited to stay with the group.” Dan approached two 18-year-old country girls (one of them was really hot) and I winged with him. He ended up with both of their licenses to get “proof of age”. He said something like “Wow, you look so much hotter now” but he was looking at the wrong girl’s license! He ejected from the girls telling me that he’d inadvertently snubbed the less attractive girl and it wasn’t worth trying to recover 🙂 Funny stuff. By about 1am… went to get coffee to discuss the night, more inner game stuff and what I need to do in the future.
Dan was always careful not to waste time on chitchat and really gave me the most opportunity with interactions but at the same time I felt I got to know him like a close friend. I would recommend anyone living in Australia who wants to do a bootcamp, definitely consider TMM. You get 14 hours of tuition that consists of approximately 9-10 hours of in-field practice over two nights. It cost me excluding the plane ticket and accommodation costs, which I think is great value considering it is a one on one personalized experience. It was all about me! If you want to do a course that tells you to open with this pick up line and then tell this story and then run the cube, don’t take TMM. If you want a value for money experience that digs down deep to work on your personal inner game to expose the “natural” in you, then do yourself a favor and get started.
The Advanced Lifestyle Course I took with Dan was the single best investment I have EVER made. The guy is brilliant. And – he does what it takes to get results. Only five months ago I took my first Lifestyle course. My goal was to be able to easily meet and attract women in social settings, so I wouldn’t have to face up to another Christmas party with the family without a girlfriend. I’m 33 years old.
I had to practice what I learned on that first course, and it was a lot of work – 1 or 2 nights a week in the field pushing myself. But, I knew I had the right map, so the learning was fun, and I reached my goal relatively quickly. I could go out any night and guarantee I’d get AT LEAST a few phone numbers from girls I liked. I experimented with several ONS’s (One Night Stands or “having sex on the first night”) and kissed several really nice girls. This would have seemed laughable to me at the start of this year. Impossible!! There was no need for canned material. No ‘opinion openers’. No gimmicks. No deceitful or insecure ‘strategies’.
I’d tried those ‘GAMING’ approaches and felt like a phoney – getting B-grade results. The Modern Man approach is based on integrity and character, and is MUCH more powerful. In the Advanced course, I got to explore takings things to a much higher level: building deep rapport, quickly escalating physically and psychologically, and perfecting my inner mindsets to maximize success. It’s subtle, but is the difference between constantly being successful with 7’s and 8’s and being more comfortable with 8’s, 9’s and 10’s. Really classy, highly sought after women are harder to get – they have the choice of any guy – I needed to become more polished, calibrated and sharp.
This was the point of the course. I also wanted to learn the skills around meeting and attracting women in places like supermarkets, coffee shops, malls etc. It is high level stuff. Most guys would be happy with one Lifestyle Course. I would have been. But, when you get to see just how amazing Dan is with women, and how quickly you can improve, it’s impossible not to want to get better. This Christmas, I know I will be taking a very pretty, successful and interesting girlfriend to the family Christmas party. That’s what I’ve wanted, and I can do it now – easily. I have the skills, understanding and ability to choose to meet the women I want. The reality is, I have never had a girlfriend at Christmas, and, if I hadn’t been lucky enough to discover the guys at the Modern Man, probably never would have.
To say that this course has made me a better person would be an understatement. Before the Lifestyle Course, I had huge misconceptions about approaching women. I didn’t realise that it was possible to talk to and attract beautiful women and still be yourself, devoid of parlour tricks and canned pick up lines.
The fact that the course is one on one means that it can be tailored to your specifics, and believe me, it’s a very personal journey. I did things I could never have imagined myself doing. You can just feel all the old beliefs and mistaken ideas falling apart in your mind and a whole new side of yourself opening up. I remember on the second night having the bartender leaning over to shake my hand and introduce himself because of the person I had become. The Modern Man Lifestyle Course was the best decision I’ve ever made. I’d recommend this course to anyone anywhere who wants to be able to have any woman they want and so much more (e.g. learn how to talk to women).
On the Sunday after the course I had both the girls behind the counter of Starbucks giggling and flirting while a line built up behind me. So stop reading these testimonials and get yourself signed up dammit! These guys are unbelievable and as hard as I try, I don’t know if I’ll ever be able to thank them enough for what they’ve done.
Without doubt the greatest single investment in my life was the I spent on a bootcamp weekend with Dan in Brisbane.
I had been suffering from a huge fear of approaching and talking to women for years and Dan fixed it for me in a weekend. Although I had some “occassional” success with women it became apparent to me that unless I worked on this area of my life I would unlikely get girls I wanted and (more importantly) retain them. The gimmick free, opinion opener free, yes..you can be yourself approach by The Modern Man is what makes it so appealing to me. I had spent weeks on trying to be someone I was not by using pick up artist advice from the internet…I was asking inane questions about hypothetical situations (jealous girlfriend) or trying to make out I had ESP. What a pathetic, insecure way to meet women. Surely there is another way I thought and was lucky enough to find The Modern Man.
The fact that Dan had previously faced all the many challenges I was facing with women was so encourtaging. The fact that Dan demonstrated repeatedly his expertise and skill in this area made me feel confident that I could get there and also that Dan’s method would work. Dan demonstrated enourmous commitment to me over the weekend and by the end of the weekend I had gained a level of understanding significantly and totally beyond anything I had ever heard or witnessed over my 20 years of dating ! Four days after Dan left, I snogged a 7 within 2 minutes of meeting at the Regatta hotel in Brisbane.
I used all his methods and approach and didn’t have to use pathetic opinion openers like jealous girlfriend or weird routines like the cube. The most amazing thing is that women actually like me for ME, not for a bunch of tricks…and that is hugely fulfilling and has done a great deal for my confidence and self-esteem. I hugged Dan at the end of the weekend….not because he ran game on me but because he gave me the key, showed me the secrets..and taught me what I have to do over the next 12 months to have this area sorted. This is the most important area to have sorted in your life for your own hapiness….and with Dan’s help, commitment and a plan I will get there….Without it I would have lived a life of denial and doubt I would ever have been truly happy or fullfilled!
This weekend was the start of an amazing transformation – from needy, insecure, and desperate, to confident, self-assured, alpha-male. The Lifestyle Course is the answer for all guys who wonder why they never seem to have women attracted to them. Prior to the course, I had read The Flow and found it spoke volumes about what it takes to spark attraction with women. Yet, it was one thing to read, and another to believe. Paralyzed by fear and self-doubt, I have been dominated with a negative mindset. I instantly felt the judgment of others wherever I would go. Since this has been my normal way of thinking and acting, as a consequence my life has been in complete submission to others. So, it was not going to be easy to approach women, good looking or not!
Dan eased me into the approaches by picking easy groups to interact with and supplying what to initially say. I spent both nights hesitating a fair bit, probably speaking to 1 out of every 2 groups of women Dan suggested! Some conversations I was able to hold for a little while, others were complete blow-offs. What I did end up with is a new- found understanding of myself: A freedom from negative beliefs, and expert advice on what I need to work on. What I appreciated most about the course was the honesty. Dan’s critique was sharp and honest – exactly what I have wanted to hear all my life for the correction of my poor social skills. I was fortunate enough to have Ben join in on both nights.
Having the feedback of both Dan and Ben was like an added bonus. They have fed me with the information I need to move forward, and provided the momentum that I must now act on. I will be recommending this course to all frustrated guys, and look forward to seeing how many guys can change their lives with what they learn. It is about more than meeting women – this is personal development at its best.
I’ll be perfectly honest.
I was one of those guys who’d hang around the bar/club perimeter, maybe exchange a few glances with some girls, and would make it with a chick through purely random luck.
Doing the course is a bit like walking through a door between two different realities. I’m glad I’ve seen the last of my old reality. Prior to your outings, you’re sent a couple of important questionnaires to fill and send back [via e-mail]. These get you to actually sit down and think constructively about the areas you need to address (or at least consider) if you want to succeed in meeting women.
First night, you meet up with your coach for a chat. My coach was Dan. What I liked about Dan was that he’d share stories related to his progression from humble beginnings to becoming someone who was masterful in dealing with people, and especially women. Perhaps one of my reservations prior to signing up for the course, was that I thought I’d be taught by guys who were always good at meeting women. Learning from those who had to work to get to their level of success obviously makes a huge difference.
The questionnaires you’ve already filled are analysed with a view to tailor the course to your needs. These areas are then addressed; I was taken through the basics of communication with women, including how to structure my conversations, and engage with body language and tonality. You’ll seriously be shocked by how responsive women are to the natural and direct way you are encouraged to be with them. You actually realise that women really, REALLY want you to approach them, and that you just have to make it a comfortable reality.
The nights are made up of a good balance of you watching your coach interact on his own, going into interactions yourself but with his support, and doing it solo. You learn different things in each of these scenarios, and are given feedback as you go. Dan really knows his stuff and puts a lot of effort into answering your questions. Each night ends with a debrief session, and you can review what you’ve learnt and ask questions.
In my two nights I personally had many enjoyable interactions, plenty of hugs, a few of kisses, and a couple of phone numbers to follow up on.
But what I got (and really needed) was an appreciation for the basics to actually start meeting women *I* wanted to meet, and to successfully move interactions toward attraction and beyond. I’m well equipped to take things forward and can’t wait to continue on my journey.
Firstly let me say upfront that it’s the best thing I have ever done, and I cant recommend it more highly to anyone who is thinking about signing up. These guys are the Real Deal, totally natural. Most of the other courses are “several-on-one” and this is where I think this course differs.
Knowing that it was going to be one-on-one was one of the main reasons why I decided to give it a go. I could ask any question in the world (about how to pick up women)…that ive always wanted to know, that I probably wouldn’t ask in front of other ppl.
Another key factor I found invaluable was de-briefing instantly after approaches…. where we analyzed what happened, what went wrong and why, and what to do next time. No interruptions. Full focus. As good as it gets.
Theres nothing like field experience (approaching women, using conversation starters, learning about body language and flirting). Especially quality experience. I learnt more in 2 nights than I would normally have learned in 2 years. Thanks again guys!
Wow – what a weekend. I bet you are probably looking at these testimonials wondering whether you would have the balls to do a program such as the Lifestyle Course. You may be wondering “Does this work?” You may be thinking “Do I really need this?”
Whatever it is you are thinking, STOP. And look. Look at all these testimonials describing the way men have fixed up their lives. Look at all these testimonials that tell you what men can now do with women. Do you want this? Do you want to be able to write this testimonial, confirming just how much the Lifestyle course has transformed you?
Well, guys, I think you know the answer. I was in the exact same position as all of you were. I found the money, grew some balls, and took this course. And what a beautiful change I have experienced. After taking this program, I am now able to confidently APPROACH WOMEN, KNOW WHAT TO SAY NEXT, OVERCOME FEAR OF REJECTION, MOVE THEM ONTO THE NEXT LEVEL, and then, well, you know what.
This course has opened my eyes to the new world out there. Dan takes you step by step into the realm of attracting women. He will teach you how to be a natural. How to believe in yourself. How to believe that you can actually attract women. None of these bullshit routines that so many “PUA’s” promote. No. That shit doesnt work, trust me.
But after taking the Lifestyle course, Dan taught me exactly how to adjust my mindset to attracting women. This was gold. Dan does this all so discreetly. No one will ever know you took a course such as this. He will tell you exactly where you are going wrong and what you can do to improve.
I have learnt a multitude of things, all of which will assist me in attracting women. Guys, if you are not getting the results you want with women, then you need to take this course. It has changed the lives of many men, one especially: me. I now know what I need to do to get women.
That means the one weight that has been plaguing me for so long has been finally lifted off my chest.
After so many years stumbling around in the wilderness where sometimes I would get lucky and other times strike out for apparently no reason (or so I thought), I decided to work out what I was doing right and what was wrong. I got a book called “The Game by Neil Strauss” which showed me what it was really like from a guy’s point of view about girls.
In some ways it made sense but in others something was missing. I tried to find out… I learned that these so called pick up artists were working on every continent so I had to see for myself. Reason being is that there’s no “Sports Tonight” equivalent of learning these techniques from TV. No “Play of the Day” so to speak.
I stumbled across the Modern Man website and found that these guys seemed to be the real deal and what’s more, they’re local. And what topped it off was that they proclaimed to make it natural. No gimmicks, no Happy Meals where you get a free toy, no buy one get one free trick.
So, I headed off to Melbourne and learned how to be a “Modern Man”. I realised and started understanding what things I was doing wrong and worked out what I was doing right and what I needed to improve. To top it off, Dan was my mentor and my guide throughout the course. I never realised how natural it was for him and how it could be for me too. Until he showed me. It seemed so easy, fun and so interesting. It was like one continous party where you are kind of a “friend of friends” but need some encouragement to meet these women. Dan provided that nudge and feedback to do it.
As Dan, however mentioned, understanding is one thing, but doing is another. Like an amateur athlete, you have to keep on practising until it becomes routine, then, it becomes natural. The problem that most of us face though is there is no such dating coach readily available to help you improve your “swing”. Until now.
The Lifestyle course made me realise what I can achieve if I put the mindsets, methodologies and advice to work. What you learn on the course can both be used for good or “evil” purposes ;-). The course also is not just about picking up/hooking up it’s all about learning who you are and what makes a man a man and what makes a woman, well, fun and interesting.
So, if you’re hitting dead ends, sick of being the nice guy, sick of wondering WTF happened, only getting lucky and want to change your situation and/or current relationships or if you just need a reality check. Then try it out. Believe me you’ll learn something about yourself as well as others. How you use it, though is all up to you.
Why I chose to do the course – I discovered the seduction community a couple of years ago, made some changes to my life and definitely had more success than when I was just your average nice guy.
However the seduction community remained a kind of entertainment for me rather than a lifestyle, I didn’t know anyone actively involved and never fully got into the attitude of “being a PUA, sarge sarge sarge” I had normal mates who were getting plenty of action without any PUA tools or tactics and frankly I felt weird trying out material and openers I had copied off an internet message board.
I always felt when interacting with women that if I was using seduction community based lines or telling bullshit stories that I was only one stupid comment/slip up away from losing the chick. This attitude would persist even with girls I dated for 3-4 months.
I recently travelled around Australia for a couple of months and really got my head together about what I want to do with my life, I found I had matured enough to have my own interesting stories and independent attitudes towards life. However I still had huge lingering fears about approaching women and moving things forward in interactions.
Even my most successful friends used alcohol as a massive crutch for approaching, so I did too. When I moved to Melbourne I made the decision that now was the time to get this shit sorted, I knew I had it in me to be successful and social in all aspects of life but that lingering doubts and attitudes from when I was growing up were holding me back.
I looked at taking other courses with other companies in the seduction community but got turned off by their pick up artist trickery and the idea of going out in a big pack and was looking for something a bit more 1 to 1 with more time to discuss things. I found themodernman’s website and sent them an email describing where I was currently with women and what I was looking to get out of a course. Dan called me up and we chatted about my situation and what I wanted to achieve on the course. It was only for the full weekend program [Mastery Lifestyle Course] so I decided to go for it.
So it has been bit over 2 months since I took the Modern Man Lifestyle course. I wrote a lot of this review after I completed the course but held back from posting it until I had gained some experience and could give better perspective on what the course has added to my life.
Dan calls you discusses what you are looking for and how the Modern Man can help you achieve it. Then emails his ebook and 2 precourse assessment forms that act as the basis for the weekend. The assessment forms ask you crucial questions about what you want to achieve and there is also a questionnaire where you assess your current level of ability with women. I valued these assessments as they forced me to become conscious of just how many areas I felt I was lacking when it came to women, socialising and dating in general.
Dan then reviewed the assessment forms and referred back to them during the course. It was an awesome feeling to look at my list of problems at the end of the course and be able to cross out most of them, and have a plan to tackle the rest. This is the sort of professionalism I wasn’t sure I’d find in the seduction community. Thursday coffee session Meet up with Dan at this sweet hotel bar, as I walk down the stairs I hear someone’s voice speaking well above the general din of chatter, turns out it is Dan charming the female bartender.
This scene was to be repeated time and time again over the weekend. Within about 5 minutes of meeting Dan I knew I had made a good investment going on the course – I still have some lessons to learn about life but I know end game when I see it and Dan has it in bucket loads. The dude’s got an energy about him that screams alpha male high status dominance and all that.
I have mates who would be considered naturals but the entire weekend, women consistently reacted to him like nothing I have seen before. Anyways so we grab a coffee and sit down. We spent the session discussing my answers to the evaluations and just getting in depth of where I see my issues being and how best to address them. Without giving too much away, Dan explains how to overcome your issues in a straight forward way free from special hypnosis gimmicks or other voodoo techniques. One of my main problems was thinking I needed to do more before I could attract the kind of women I want. The conversation flowed well and Dan would lead you to discovering the answers yourself rather than just telling you straight up.
I found this gave me the tools to resolve issues myself instead of needing to ask Dan. Hanging with Dan you develop the belief/knowledge that you have inside you all the tools, knowledge and capability to get exactly what you want and deserve in this world. Natural style is LIGHT YEARS ahead of the trickery of the Seduction Community.
Dan was pretty open with his life experiences and his philosophies which helped me feel comfortable talking about myself. We chatted for about 3 hours, and I left feeling pumped about heading out the next night.
We met up at this chilled out place and chatted about what he expected to happen over the night, worked out a few things to say, attitudes to try and project and things like that. It took us a few goes to find a place where there was groups of women.
Went to this mad bar which was pretty packed, I approached this group of 2 girls (probably 8’s) and pulled up a chair and chat to them for awhile, I went and grabbed dan who was kind of watching from afar to come and talk to the friend while I continued talking to the brunette, she was pretty responsive but I made some major mistakes, the biggest was that I didn’t pull the chair in closer to her so we were constantly having to lean right over to hear each other.
I was also talking way too fast and I didn’t escalate with touching and pushing her away once she opened up to me. Watching Dan interacting with the other chick was pretty awesome, he was tickling, pushing her away, her mouth was pretty much permanently in that incredulous ‘omg did he just do/say that’ expression. My conversation flowed well but I didn’t really take it sexual or generate the kind of emotions from her that would have made a number close worthwhile. They had to go and take the last train home so we said goodbye (Dan gave his email to the other one). My one is going to the same uni as me and if I see her about I’ll definitely chat to her again.
Dan gave me a bit of a debrief on how I went, he was overall positive but he pointed out my problems. In about 3 mintues of listening to Dan going over my interaction I must have about 4-5 aha moments, I would have walked through the rest of my life oblivious to these things that were stopping women feeling strong attraction to me on a regular basis. These points became the areas I focussed on for the rest of the weekend, leading, assuming rapport, slowing down talking and displaying more masculine body language.
Approached another chick who looked really hot from the back but ended up being a 6, we just vibe and I put in some teasing, still had too much of a friendly guy vibe going though and I told her I was going to find my friend and catch up with her later. While Dan was watching me this swedish chick started chatting him up, was funny shit as while she was ok, she wasn’t anywhere in Dan’s league. Talking about my interaction with Dan, I would say well her friends were looking at me a little strangely, Dan would point out this was just because I was being attractive talking to their friend and they wanted to talk to me! Awesome reframe!
He also pointed out how she had completely reoriented her body towards me and would reinitiate the conversation when there was silence, which are both big signs of interest – explaining that once I saw these kind of things it was my responsibility as a man to take the interaction to the next level through touch and strong flirting.
We checked out a few little clubs where I just had some social vibing conversation, the entire night Dan and I just chatted and he slowly reframed all my insecurities and enthused about the massive success that was just round the corner if I could improve a few areas of my character. Looking back now a month or so later I struggle to even hold the thought that a good looking interesting woman wouldn’t want to me talking to her!
Went to this awesome bar full of an older crowd and hot women standing round in groups. I was feeling pretty confident by this time so approached 2 cute chicks as soon as I walked in. They kinda didn’t immediately open up, so I just bounced outta there, Dan explained that because my body language and energy was so strong it overwhelmed them. I went and grabbed a drink and couldn’t find Dan for a bit, turns out he went up and talked to the same girls after I left and worked a bit of magic, but he couldn’t find me when they asked to be given a second chance to meet me (Dan implied that they had been rude to me when I first approached them).
Went and chatted to this sexy brunette and her cold blonde friend, she was a real wise ass and it was pretty fun, but her friend wasn’t opening up at all, even when Dan came in and talked to her, so I kinda lost it after a while. Then saw the original 2 chicks loitering near us (or so I assumed, it doesn’t really matter tho) so went back and struck up the conversation again, this chick C was again being pretty aloof, which I called her out on, but as I kind of went to leave, she quipped “you’re too young for me anyways,” Now before the course I would have just in my head said ‘crap wish I didn’t look so young’ but instead I thought ‘well so she’s considering f*cking me but has put up this logical wall in her head of me being too young.’
So I kind of talked to her over my shoulder as though I would leave any minute, we started really flirting and she started to say things like “wow you’re really funny” and kept mentioning my height and things like that, I went to get her away from her friends but she said they were leaving in like 2 mintues, which I didn’t push through, so just grabbed her number.
She was definitely one of the hottest chicks I had ever spoken to in a club so was pretty cool to get her number. I f*cked up calling her later in the week but really she was a bit too old for me (29 and im 22) so I’m not too fussed. Dan gave me some observations on the interaction and was pretty positive on how attracted to me she became. It was pretty much time to wrap up the night after that, we spent about an hour chatting about how the night went and what areas I was improving and what still needed work. I really appreciated how Dan shared stories from his life and where he came from to where he is now. Without being too much of a nuthanger it’s pretty inspiring and motivating.
Met up with Dan for dinner where we went over my list of areas I wanted to improve which I put together before the program. It was refreshing to be able to have the answers to most of my questions already. We shared stories and had a good feed and got pumped about the night ahead.
One interesting thing that happened while we were eating is this hot woman with her boyfriend also sat down for dinner. Dan pointed out how I was ‘stealing looks at her’ as opposed to just checking her out in an unapologetic manner. We drove into the city and went to this awesome bar, it was just starting to fill up when we got there, so we grabbed a drink and I found my first couple of girls to go and socialise with for the night.
It was a bit awkward at first cause they were sitting down but I just kept talking until she stood up and talked to me, Dan went and chatted to the other one and we got a pretty good conversation going. The lass I was talking to wasn’t as hot or as socially confident as her friend, which showed through in her conversation. I ended up swapping over to the hot one and we got a really good conversation going, it flowed well and there was a fair bit of teasing in there. It felt weird to have this vibe going on so early in the night, on the rare occasions this used to happen it would be more like 2am with a fair few drinks in the system!
Things kinda fell apart when they went to get another drink so we just kinda left them. Dan explained that she was really into me but that I didn’t take it to the next level, by physically touching/tickling, so she wouldn’t regard me as more than a friend unless I introduced those things into the interaction, otherwise it was pretty good with eye contact and conversation.
If I was a billionaire I would probably pay dan to wing for me everytime I went out cause he can hold a conversation with absolutely anyone. He said the less attractive friend kinda knew he was out of her league so he had to balance that to keep her chatty without showing sexual interest. So we had a bit of a chat, then were considering leaving when I saw 2 attractive young women sitting with their bodies facing outwards towards everyone, I roll on over and strike up a convo, they were immediately receptive and we vibed along very well, dan came over after a bit and joined the convo.
It was just so easy and smooth, I wasn’t using any material or secret patterns like the crap from the seduction community, just chilling and being social. I chatted to both of them and we ended up grabbing their numbers as we were leaving to check out some other places. Dan was really encouraged by how smooth and relaxed my approach was, it’s just so easy to talk to interesting attractive women if you approach with confidence! We went to a few more places, at the dance club kinda place we went up to this group of 5 girls, the one I started speaking to was playing with her phone and not being friendly at all, so I just kinda went past her to her more engaging friend.
I wasn’t that attracted to her but we still shot the shit for a while. Dan was talking to the really hot one of the group and it was cool to see her dancing around flirting, touching up on him, she had a boyfriend but couldn’t help it. They went off to dance for a bit and wanted to meet up with us later but I kinda dodged cause my one just wasn’t hot enough.
We went and grabbed a water from the bar and this f*cking hot 28ish tall curly haired brunette completely undressed Dan with her eyes, I’m pretty sure she is used to guys getting embarrassed or confused by this since she is a bombshell, instead dan just returned the favour before cracking a slight smirk. It was perhaps the coolest thing I have seen. She went off looking over her shoulder and Dan pretty much explained that she would make a pretty easy one night stand after the way they looked at each other. Problem was she had an absolute TROLL as a friend, guys would cut their dicks off as opposed to f*cking her.
I don’t understand why beautiful women ruin their chances of meeting guys like Dan by hanging out with such bottom of the barrel roughies! Anyways there wasn’t any other groups of girls that looked hot/open so we bounced. Went to a chilled out lounge place, I went to the bar and grabbed us a drink, while I was waiting this older but still pretty hot brunette was pretty blatantly hitting on me with the guy she was with about 3 feet away giving us the evil eye, funny shit.
She opened with “You must be a capricorn” In my head I’m like what is this the daggiest pick up line ever?!? She went on to explain that I had a strong stoic energy or something. We vibed for a bit but saw dan was in a group of chicks so I excused myself and went over to see what the dealio was. The girls were cool but it turned out I knew one of them from high school, and she had a boyfriend who was a former mate, was good to catch up but it obviously wasn’t going anywhere. I kind of half listened to her while watching dan with the other lass, he was tickling and getting her all turned on, was awesome to see.
I went to the toilet and txted him that I wanted to bounce so he wrapped it up and grabbed her number. I’m pretty sure they have hooked up later on as she was falling over herself to get to him. I’m feeling about 10 foot tall at this point, women are checking us out left and right as we walk down the street.
Dan went to take a piss and I was just sitting there, these two 27ish women were laughing about something and I gave them a puzzled look, they kinda got embarrassed and stopped and talked to me for a bit. Dan came back and we walked down the street with them, we got them to come into one bar with us but we picked a shit bar with noone in it so we left pretty soon afterwards, we took them to another bar but we just weren’t feeling it so we just pissed off haha.
We went and grabbed a bite to eat and just chatted about how far I have come over the weekend, what I need to do to keep it at this level and improve the areas I’m still lacking a bit. I was pretty tired after being on information and sensory overload for the entire night so we wrapped it up and I headed on home happy as they come.
Sunday coffee session
This session acted as a review of how far I had come over the course and then creating a path and set of goals going into the future. Dan and I recapped the areas I wanted to improve coming into the course and discussed how I now had the tools to overcome all of the areas I thought I was lacking.
We wrote down a set of goals for 3 months, a year and 3 years for where I want to be in my relationships with women. I think these are important because I don’t always have Dan as the super wingman giving me heaps of positive energy and feedback when I am out.
So with a clearly defined set of goals it is easier for me to stay on track and gives me something to refer back to when I lose focus etc. Dan takes all the information from the course and writes up a 10 page personal plan which acts as my personal reference and consolidates all that I have learnt over the course. This little book kicks ass because it contains all my goals and Dan’s opinions/comments on how to go about it (coach feedback). So it has been close to 2 months since I did the course with Dan, I waited awhile before posting this review because I wanted to get some experience and be able to share how far I have come.
Since the course I have hooked up with 3 cute and sexy women. I’m still improving but there will never be a time in the future where I feel the neediness and hopelessness of having no women in my life and no real control over how to meet attract them. I feel a complete detachment to the insecure attitudes that ruled my life before the course, replaced by a growing self esteem and confidence in my actions and behaviour.
I simply love having beautiful intelligent women around me and completely believe I deserve them. I never feel bad about approaching women and so even if I only talk to a woman for 5 minutes I know that if I saw her again she wouldn’t think I was creepy weird.
I have made heaps of guy friends who are in awe of my attitude and ability to approach women, Put simply I am a social attractive (because of my confidence, etc) guy who gets hot women! I recommend anyone who is interested in the seduction community and wants to improve their life to take this course, it’s pretty f*cking cheap when you consider what you are getting, life is short, far too short to neglect this area of your life.
The confidence you gain in this area flows on into everything else in life, get involved! I hope my review showed just how committed Dan is to helping you achieve what you deserve in this life and how much skill he has in getting you on the path to getting it. Good luck to everyone.
Hey man I recently messaged u on fb then I realized that u don’t answer on fb so here:
Hey dan how u doin man? I think its eaiser if I just contact you on FB rather than email. I don’t know of you saw my last email about that party that I was unsure to go to or not but I went and everything was great. The girl said that her mother loved me.
But anyway I am seriously considering flying to australia for a coaching session for 3 days or whatever it is. I have the money. I know that you aren’t doing it anymore and last timed I talked to you you said that Ben can’t because he’s traveling but Stu is still available to do it. Is this still the case?
Thanks for your question.
Lol…yes, most guys think that I am a computer and can answer 1,000s of personal requests per minute. I just checked and there are 500 pending messages on Facebook, where guys are contacting me asking for advice on particular situations. For anyone reading along: I do not answer personal messages on Facebook! It’s impossible! 🙂 I post articles and videos here at The Modern Man and I develop programs that are available here: http://store.themodernman.com/ Unfortunately, I do not have time to reply to 1,000s of people per week.
Okay, onto your question: I would love to coach you, but after sleeping with more than 250 women, I got to a point where I felt satisfied and couldn’t reject the woman who is now my girlfriend. I was rejecting offers (to settle down, marry, start a family, etc) from perfectly good women for years because I didn’t want to settle down, but when I met my current girlfriend, all that changed. Her and I live together now and instead of me going out to bars and clubs every weekend to teach guys, I am now posting up articles and free videos on Youtube: http://www.youtube.com/user/DanBaconTheModernMan
I do plan on holding workshops and seminars in future, but for now I am not available to go out approaching. As for Ben and Stu, they are also unavailable unfortunately.
BTW: If you have any requests for specific videos for me to make and post to Youtube, just ask and I will make them for you.
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